I think monogamy is too overvalued and overrated. What do you think?

what is overvalues?

He thinks a society where swinging is allowed is better.

DeepZone:

what is overvalues?

I'm puzzled as well,. . . . . . . . , ,

TOYOSI20:

I'm puzzled as well,. . . . . . . . , ,

What's up sac?

Hey to u, dear, how r u feelin'

I'm hanging, are you enjoy your summer there? Hot a little?

Extremely hot,. . . . . . . . . . its essentially burning up, mucho caliente

Then you should very much enjoy the outdoorsy . . . . cruzziiiin @ santacruz beach

What brings you here? No summer schl?

Brings mio here?,. . . . . . . .

Been in Sac town all ma life, luv it much wouldn't trade it for no other place. . . . . . . . . .

OHh! I meant hereee . . . but i'll accept the answer you gave o .
So are you on here killing time or just got nothing to study

On the forum u mean,. . . . . . .

yea just passing time , been extermly busy lately,

Eya, pele o . . .
Busy doing what? Busy with school work both kids family

School n work, but da school part is done for now thank goodness

Oh summer school is over . . . sorry it's taking to long to respond though. Do you also drive to this area once in a while . . .

. . . . . . . . .I'm sorry what area. . , . .

ay now ah ahn . . besides, what school is it

Oh da Bay area I come over there once in a while, . . . . . . .

I love ma school, its the University of Cali in Santa Cruz

oh word. . that skoo's aight. party schl.
what major

It sure is no doubt, . . . . . . . . .doesn't phase me though

Majoring in Molecular Bio, Getting ready for med school

eya . . . i have a few friends there as well.

me on the other side . . . . ntwk fb?

Sorry,. . . . . . . . . . no facebook, myspace or hi5 account for me, too busy to keep up for now, . . . . . .

would definitely pop in here once in a while

stonehearted. tsk looking forward to the poppin.

Great, ok, I'm goin' to bed, gud nite. . . . . .

I agree with the original post, I think that monogamy is not for everyone, and has proven (with humans ever-so-prominent promiscuity) not to be. The idea that a spouse or partner doesn't "love" someone if they wish to have other sexual partners, to me, sounds silly, sex is an action that is done not just to reproduce or to show affection, but (let's be honest) to "get off". It's a pleasurable, animal act and many relationships are suffering because while they may be linked to someone in every aspect, there are sexual desires that are yet to filled, which can cause a whole other set of problems. Some people find that "swinging" , having an open relationship, adding another wife/husband, etc; tightens their bond and actually raises trust.
Monogamy is achievable and right for some couples but it takes a conscious effort that usually has be be enforced with something other than a promise made to your partner ( personal beliefs/morality ,religion, etc). There are people that enjoy a "closed" or "private" relationship including the effort it takes to keep such a relationship as is.