Hmmm...... Neva interested in virgins, 2much work

I knw its a good thing to be a virgin.bt is there any need telling it out to the world?.as for me i would prefer my wife a virgin 'cos ave not and am nt thinking of deflowering any girl...so i dnt intend taking a used person..except in the case of rape...

xtervaganza: just shut up! And stop raving over your not so virgin poocee. Who cares if you're a virgin or not? U can as well seal it with super glue that's none of my business.



And for religion, keep fooling yourself. GOD loved David more than any man in his time and he had sex without marriage countless times. How about Solomon? How many concubines he had? Just buzz off us sex is not your thing and stop condemning people who have sex. Sex or no sex u die and ur does not even guarantee you anything afterlife. So gerraway from here

Haba!!!!!!!! When you want to use someone as an example make sure you have studied the person. David, you made mention of was called "a man after God's heart" because he never repeated any sin twice and he goes back to God immediately he is been convited of his sins. Many of the great names in the bible all sinned (this shows the inability of man to be rightoeus). Hence the abiding grace of the Cross.

God does not abide in sin, but if we confess and forsake our sins, he will surely forgive.

I didn't know this topic will get soooooo much attention as this. Please all I ask is that we be gentle with our selves. Even if you are still a virgin, welldone. If you are no longer, kudos. But remember, we may need to go beyond Nairaland and think of ways to make Nigeria better

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dahfweshdude69: now I see how dumb u are...not making up a story or any shit... I knew when her husband called his mom over to his room because she won't stop bleeding... I followed my sister to her husband's house...and am proud of my sis..her in-laws didn't call her a used product ...she ain't a leftover like d bitch u will end up with....don't u just get simple facts right...some girls are more reasonable than those leftovers u love to Bleep... tired of how you think... are you meant to support or kick against immorality

Are you serious about this?I was thinking the bleeding is usually minimal or no bleeding at all.

I'm a virgin too.. I'm 28yrs and a hardworking fellow. I've got a great job that pays okay.. can take good care of a wife and Three Children up to university level (UK that is) i believe we are meant to be for each other...You're the on i've being waiting and looking for.. Please pray and think about it.. I love you...

I keep telling my friends that my husband is gonna be a very lucky man. It's not as if I'm not beautiful. In short I'm a very pleasant person- creative, expressive, a Poet, good height, an undergraduate of a reputable federal university( that's not under ASUU lol) , brilliant, tenacious, diplomatic, humorous, with gap tooth sef and a blessed upper region. Lol. I'm not advertizing myself here but why is it that people find it hard to believe that virgins( I mean pure virgins) still exist? Make una tell me why o

flairlady: Are you serious about this?I was thinking the bleeding is usually minimal or no bleeding at all.

Fear not. Her case is different.

Continue

Congrats OP for been a virgin.
I do not despise virgins, but i'd rather marry a non-virgin i love, who's very good in bed.

Dont worry, u'll find a man who would love and cherish u, and u'll receive GOD'S blessings too

lrguru: Congrats OP for been a virgin.
I do not despise virgins, but i'd rather marry a non-virgin i love, who's very good in bed.

Dont worry, u'll find a man who would love and cherish u, and u'll receive GOD'S blessings too

And the virgins can't be good in bed?, aren't the non-virgins once virgin?

Op i hope am not late, hope u get to see this, i just want to tell u that there is more 2 a lady's personality than the hymen, virginity is a virtue but dnt go about telling people that u are a virgin, it wont make guys love, even if the guy wants 2 marry u, ur personality should come first and not ur virginity,

oyinbogirl:

are you a virgin?

My status is clear here already, so why do you ask again?

Stånd:

If I answer your questions..you would most def come up with more childish questions..I beg your pardon, just ignore me.

Ok. Your request is hereby granted

Ihedinobi:
Did I deny that it was?


Oh, that was apparent.


Lemme see, these are the main points I see in your argument:

1. It was immodest of the OP to put herself out like she did.

2. Bad girls want good husbands too and compete hard for them and sometimes win.

3. A virgin could still end up with a bad husband because even bad guys want good things and will probably do anything to get the best girls.

These three points do not quite counter my argument but they are fine. I can work with them.

#1
Yes, the OP could have been more modest. She could have made her point without referencing her credentials. Yes, it does seem like she's asking for applause. Yes, it does seem like she's entirely too pleased with herself. But this is all mostly because the vast majority of people are touchy about their sexxual weakness and sexxual failure. People feel threatened by the presence of someone who actually is morally superior to them because it brings their failings to the fore.

I agree that she could have made her opening post far less threatening by removing direct reference to herself. But I do not agree that it was necessary for her to do so. My reason is that people have grown way top brazen with sexxual immorality. If it is ok and even fashionable to keep flaunting one's complete disregard for sexxual propriety, it is not inappropriate for those who hold up moral values to mark themselves out as distinctly as possible. In fact, I do declare that it is imperative that they do so in order to outlast the moral decay that threatens to swallow every human sensibility at every turn.

#2
Of course, bad girls want good husbands too. Of course they do get them sometimes. This does not prove that well-adjusted virgins do not get them more easily. In my earlier argument I took care to describe the virgins who get their pick of good men. There are uppity virgins - ladies who treat themselves like the holy grail that everybody must kill for, they act like they are God's special gift to men. Their artogance puts good men off and challenges players to take them down a notch and teach them humility. The players generally succeed. Even where they do not, such virgins usually end up alone and bitter or stuck in a poor marriage.

But a virgin with a personality such as that described in the OP is gold. Men will fall over themselves to take it and the best of them do eventually. Believe me, those girls most certainly get their pick of good men. Of course there might be exceptions but I would venture to say that if we took a sample we'd find that women like that have the best marriages to the best guys more than any other class or group of women.

Bad girls get good husbands if they meet one good guy that catalyses their change. They suddenly realize that they don't wanna be hos anymore and wanna be a woman worthy of this amazing guy. Apart from this eventuality, they only end up with a good guy if the guy was an ex player who changed or a mouse who grew up and claimed his marriage and skillfully mastered them. If this is the case, it's obvious that virgins have the upper hand.

#3
Sure guys can pretend and run a wonderful package that snags them some of the "best" girls. But such packages depend on speed and a girl's degree of exposure to life and men. And a girl like the op described is not naive. She has been out and about and has some idea what guys are like. She just has never slept with one. That being the case, it'd be extremely tough to run a fast one on her. So she soon frustrates pretenders while keeping real contenders motivated. So again the only virgins caught by such men are naive virgins or uppity virgins.

Conclusion? Virgins like the op get the best guys and best marriages more than any others.

One final thing: the op did not suggest that the reward for virginity is a virgin husband. If there is any suggestion of reward it is the fact that the husband will always hold himself lucky because she's a real rare catch. And a man who thinks that of his wife is a man who makes a great husband. You see, it's really true that a good thing is its own reward

This was quite long

But worth every second, I spent reading it.

xtervaganza: believe me man, if no one is trying to Bleep my daughter then I would be very very worried as a father lol

Dude, how about you learning that all the boys in your street have f**ked you daughter?

You'd be a very satisfied father, right?

Hahaha bazinga

xtervaganza: u asked a question? Tell me how happy u would be if I asked u such question. I'll never in this life ask such a question because i respect u, but you asking me if I would be happy if my daughter brings a guy to my house to bang her shows u do not respect me, my family and u insult my honor

Hahahaha LMFAO

Bobo yi ti take e Personal

Hahaha.

virgin ke, r u a virgin in d arse or mouth? cos if na for ur womanlies i doubt it, so far say no be u bin de bath urself from birth tilleh u sabi speak ah mama. but all d same am not a virgin fan, though i love virgin atlantic airways

xtervaganza: just shut up! And stop raving over your not so virgin poocee. Who cares if you're a virgin or not? U can as well seal it with super glue that's none of my business.



And for religion, keep fooling yourself. GOD loved David more than any man in his time and he had sex without marriage countless times. How about Solomon? How many concubines he had? Just buzz off us sex is not your thing and stop condemning people who have sex. Sex or no sex u die and ur does not even guarantee you anything afterlife. So gerraway from here

David is a character I love so much, so don't bring him into your ill comment.

And you think David was proud of it?
Did u know what problems that brought him?

Check what he wrote in psalm 51. And u will knw he wasn't proud of his sins.

ibullem:

Dude, how about you learning that all the boys in your street have f**ked you daughter?

You'd be a very satisfied father, right?

Hahaha bazinga

can you read or you're permanently in fool mode? I said if no one is trying, not bang. Arrow!

ibullem:

Hahahaha LMFAO

Bobo yi ti take e Personal

Hahaha.

will u just sod off?

ibullem:

David is a character I love so much, so don't bring him into your ill comment.

And you think David was proud of it?
Did u know what problems that brought him?

Check what he wrote in psalm 51. And u will knw he wasn't proud of his sins.

David was a character? How did u male it out of high school? Donkey!

Last to comment,rubbishhhh thread,make i go property section see weda i go see house for lekki wey my money go fit buy dan 2 waste my time 4 dis thread.

Back Page pls

xtervaganza: David was a character? How did u male it out of high school? Donkey!

Go & relearn ur english before ever posting again.

Cos ur daftness is outstanding!

Gosh.

I didn't realise I had to stress out, 'BIBLE' character, cos u are in kindergarten.

emmyskies: it'll all be nothing if without GOD. Anything without GOD is wordly. If you dont seek to marry a christian man, it will never be appreciated. See the way these guys are mocking you for your virtue, your pride, your gold. They prefer marrying a LovePeddler coz they too have slept around. Pathetic. The world today doesnt appreciate things like that. Genuine christianity does. GOD does.

* worldly*

ibullem:

Go & relearn ur english before ever posting again.

Cos ur daftness is outstanding!

Gosh.

I didn't realise I had to stress out, 'BIBLE' character, cos u are in kindergarten.

daftness is outstanding? Boy you're hopeless.


Tell me you can use a word like outstanding in a negative way? Lol iliiterate. More like saying “yesterday was my best horrible day" lol idiot

Read damn books

I pray u dnt get raped.bt it wl b gud if ur raped so dat ds ur useless braggin wl stop.n virginity-it sims lyk dat is d only gud ting bout u.stop makin noise,dey r older virgins dan u

Popowaa: So what are we suppose to do with this CV?

so u no be virgin

Popowaa: So what are we suppose to do with this CV?

so u no be virgin

funkyjms: No wonder you dey do shakara for me for block 7 dt day...

dnt mind her jare, nah so i see her for block 3 skyway dey shout for one guy head.