funkyjms:
Blessed200016, the entire brotherhood need to slap you! Who blab love sh|t to a Lay in the wee hours of the day?? Not even face to face but on the phone?? F^ck!!

Anyway, in addition to what DavidTheGeek stated, I'd suggest you withdraw a bit. Don't call her through out this week. If she calls, respond but no calls to the Lay and no love talk.

DavidTheGeek:

Dude you called a girl around 5:30am to tell her you love her?

You don't need anyone to decode her reply for you. It's plain and simple. You woke her up at an odd hour of the day to blab about your feelings.

You may think that early morning call thing is romantic but it's not. It's weird, annoying, needy etc. And if you continue, she is going to start ignoring and avoiding you.

You don't TELL a girl about your feelings, you SHOW her you are interested in her.

dmgr:
cc:xxxtedyxxx...like say u don abandon this thrend oo...am in need of your coaching boss

xxxtedyxxx:



no boss.... work no just gree me post baba.. drop your issue and I will attend to it.

xxxtedyxxx:



no boss.... work no just gree me post baba.. drop your issue and I will attend to it.

dmgr:


And the other chick freind zoned me,we meet 2016 and at that time i wasn't informed nd I ws a novice but I did a good job at the rapport stage at that time ,but my problem has always been putting the romance into it

Naam22:
Ok!so a friend hooked me up with boyfriend's frnd,knowing am single..and we went out on a date and we click so I thought,we exchanged numbers and guess wat? He didn't call me,am so confuse infact I taya for guys,I feel lyk I shud call him and ask y he didn't call me,lol but I know better,u don't force yourself on people...still single till I find dat person that'll actually call back..he probably couldn't handle my Awesomeness

Bowaley17:
Good day boss... There's this girl I saw at my friend's hostel. I begged him for her number and he gave me. We have been chatting for a month now. We've met last week and just talked briefly. I told her I'd like to date her but she keep saying she has a boyfriend. My mind keeps telling me I should try harder which I'm ready to do. Pls I need some tips to make me get her faster... Thanks...

Blessed200016:
Pls this is urgent. Kindly reply swift


There is this lady ve went on a date like twice & it was great in whc she is been feeling me. Even when chatting wen I lay a msg like "I miss u" she reply "I miss ur company too"

Fast forward to a moment I can't even bear the love stuff again personally & need to divulge.

Have to call her around 5:30am (my call woke her thou) and gently expressed my feelings. Her response was like "I'VE HEARD YOU, CAN WE TALK LATER". What can anyone deduce fr that statement pls or hv I shot myself ?

Pls, m at a crossroad & what can I do/ what shld I do/when shld I do- to get her completely? e.g assume i gave the call early mrng today. Thks

collinsflex:
I dnt even know why you asked to date her...if you haven't gotten anytin from dis thread by now you should have learnt never to ask a girl out..

Just act like her b4 n it makes everytin fun n easy going...

Build more on your rapport...if she comes up with i have a bf issue just let her know u aint d jealous type n moreover you dnt do fair girls or any skin color she is..

Dnt stay on dat topic

temizeee:
seriously telling a girl you are not the jealous type can make her see you as a potential side chick and it backfires when you find out....since u already tell her you are not jealous type,then she feels okay having you around as a backup

collinsflex:
i know what i am saying...i have put everything to test and it worked perfectly well..

i am not arguing, try what works for you

temizeee:
yes i know what you mean,and i don't ask girls out too....it's boring and kills the fun sef
in fact u risk getting rejected most times....am just saying what sometimes when u don't ask them awt....some girls can be amazing,u kissed,romance n stuffs....yet she says she's in a long time relationship which is true cuz i confirmed that.....

Bowaley17:
Good day boss... There's this girl I saw at my friend's hostel. I begged him for her number and he gave me. We have been chatting for a month now. We've met last week and just talked briefly. I told her I'd like to date her but she keep saying she has a boyfriend. My mind keeps telling me I should try harder which I'm ready to do. Pls I need some tips to make me get her faster... Thanks...

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xxxtedyxxx:
Just to clear a misconception.

Most guys tink its all abt money...av money..and u can x***x any girl u want?..or av a car...and stuffs like dat.

Like I said on page one..dis thread won't work for prostitutes..or ashewo..or allen avenue girls or stuff like dat.and u can't tell me u av d intentions of dating a prostitute.

Yes money plays a gud role, but if u av all d money..and not av game..my broda..u will only meet girls dat will chop ur money.

Its not simple.

Its all about self development.
All these stuffs are tins I av used before. I made a note of what worked and what didn't work. I tested every step. And up till today..itz what am still using...and I avent regretted any step.

Its all about goin out dere. And spitting ur game.
If u r using money to attract girls, what happens wen ur money finishes?...and if its money u r using, girls can easily detect dat.

The best tin u can ever use to attract a girl is ur PERSONALITY. Some people myt disagree tho. But dat is what I av come to Know.

Homeboiy:
love have do me something

Biko nu, This is serious and important to me


I reconnected with a girl after years of no communication

My heart cries for her, we haven't seen yet but I am already in love, I have told her how I feel about her, she said she's short of words, besides we Haven't seen for years. Now the issue is that she wants me to stop telling her about how I feel till we meet again in person.
How can I make her love me before meeting her again?

In fact, how can I gain her attention? should I be calling her on phone daily, chat her daily Or do as she said?

2dice01:
Do opposite what your heart tells you

Uwaeromosele:
I have been following up a Girl and After I asked her out.Although she told me that she just Got out of a Relationship, Last month and she Is not ready,Probably think about it ( I asked her out ) Then I asked again after a Week,She said She is not ready for a relationship that She is Not Ready that we can be friends.Am Confused here

Siki355:


don't be in a haste bro.
just take ur time, play along with her.

she just got out in a relationship, she could be in a healing process.. just try n be nice to her don't rush things..