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Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by bankyblue(m): 8:13am On Dec 15, 2013 |
Too much of Philippines move. Re u danlie? Ab ur girl friend na cartrina? Who be The etian that got her pregnant? Lol....... Just trying to be funny ni Oº°˚ ˚°º ..... Bros ve gone through that test sha, but what I did was to take her to a doctor myself After she told me it was a test, to confirm that she didn't do ABBOTION. So be wise |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by bigW(m): 8:17am On Dec 15, 2013 |
♥Dεs•Chγκσ♥: Like seriously!!!! Using mandela as an example....apartheid regime nd matters of hrt (relationships) r two diff tins..y did he divorce winnie,even wen she tried to delay proceedings of d divorce,he found out she cheated on him,nd didn't even think abt d tins she went thru for him durin d 27 yrs he was in jail..abeg y e no say as I'm forgive d white ppl,make e forget nd move on wit his wife of 38 yrs..abeg if u wan bring example come hia,,bring reasonable one 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by NosaHenry(m): 8:46am On Dec 15, 2013 |
Trust me your gf had an abortion. It was no test she came back because her prefered boyfriend rejected her. Be wise lover boy cos worse experiences are aheaf |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by cheruv: 8:48am On Dec 15, 2013 |
jmoore: I will be very happy to fail the test.I felt very hilarious when reading your comment but the truth be told,I'd never pass that kinDda test..my grade would be G10,,& wonder why a girl would like to test a guy she claims she loves like that if she hasn't done something funny herself lately |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Nobody: 8:53am On Dec 15, 2013 |
Extom: Oboy, there is this thing about my instinct; its never wrong!!! And in this your case, as soon as I finished reading the epistle, here's what my instinct says it is: I am a woman, and I agree with posts like this I smell fish in her story, even though I could be wrong (I sometimes have outlandish but truthful tales to tell that people never believe) To add to what you people are saying, What if the poster had hurt himself, or tried to, in those two weeks....like swallowing bleach, slashing his wrist(s), and all those suicidal things some sad (depressive) people do? He could even have succeeded in killing himself? Add this to the fact of the two weeks in question and phone call instead of visit, and the three day interval before she called to call him Sir Lancelot, okay knight and I am not a believer! Well... She either does not love the poster as much as he loves her, or has a bizarre way of showing her love! 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by dinachi(m): 8:58am On Dec 15, 2013 |
It was a test alright but not the kind you think. She TESTED positive for pregnancy for another guy who has been enjoying her for free by the side! Now let me be straight with you. YOUR SUPPOSED GIRLFRIEND WAS /IS CHEATING ON YOU AND YOU JUST FELL FOR HER TRICKS! Women test men with other women not with the way your girl(i suppose) went about it. This is most likely what happened. She got pregnant all right for another guy she was confused because she saw you as a dependable person but she of course loved the other guy more. She only had to start running back to you to when she found out you belonged to the DUMB LOVERS ASSOCIATION OF NIGERIA! Your supposed girlfriend just got an abortion and who says she is not lucky, at least she is now sure she can cheat on you without endangering your love. @ OP, it is not rocket science, you have been scammed! 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by olatpic(m): 9:02am On Dec 15, 2013 |
Nuzo': Finally, someone is talking. It doesn't make sense 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Nobody: 9:04am On Dec 15, 2013 |
idnoble135: Guys getting irritated, girls getting defensive. Op's torn in between. A good avenue to get some laughs this saturday. I kknnoowwww! Have been laughing since even though I saw this on Sunday morning The person who loves more in a relationship is the one on a emotional roller coaster I tell you... ...then the phlegmatic state and power that one has when she or he is the one that loves less is a story for another day Balance, or near balance is the key here or else ....trouble oo 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Nobody: 9:08am On Dec 15, 2013 |
ejiykzazi2007: Honestly, dis Op is a huge fool. Let me do d analysis 4 u. She fell out of love wit u, met anoda guy nd dated him peacefuly,y kip u as an option. D two days she didn't pik was d days she had d fall out wit d oda guy she loves, she was hrtbroken nd didn't feel lyk talkin wit u. She truly left d hauz lyk her sista said because of d hrtbrk issue, probably chasin nd beggging d oda guy. Wen it didn't wok nd not yet sure of wot to do wit d baby, she decided to tel u d truth nd ask 4 forgivnes, hopin u wil take her bak. So wen u left, she left u won't take her bak nd can't gave birth to a bastard, den she aborted d baby, dis hapend d two wiks u were in pain. Tel me y som1 dat love u nd testin u won't come out stil 2 wiks to open up, wot if u didn't cal? Why the name calling? ...remember this is his reality and be more respectful Thanks |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by komek(m): 9:09am On Dec 15, 2013 |
jmoore: I will be very happy to fail the test. U are my guy. I will fail this test woefully and so many thoughts will definitely crop up. Who knows she wants to know my reaction when she finally cheats. Who knows cos of this distance she must have been cheating. Who knows if she has gone to flush the preg? All these questions will be going thru my head and which will begat lack of trust if finally she clears the air. NB: bros I no talk am to spoil ur mind o. As someone said , its not works for Mr A that will work for MrB .. It will nver work for me. |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Chidiphilip(m): 9:11am On Dec 15, 2013 |
It is risky! I don't pray for a lady i love wholeheartedly to try such on me. I have an experience which i am gonna share soon. Guy; u did well. |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Nobody: 9:14am On Dec 15, 2013 |
Yield: After 3 years of being together, your character and the faithfulness you I have come to notice your posts And I mostly like them Cheers 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Nobody: 9:16am On Dec 15, 2013 |
reflx: Dude...she had an abortion most likely...do a pregnancy test...if within six weeks of the abortion,it will still be positive albeit 'faint positive' in later stages...also a pelvic ultrasound scan will show a bulky uterus for about two months.... This cracked me up, medico 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by drnoel: 9:17am On Dec 15, 2013 |
Everyone handles situations differently and I won´t want to be in ur shoes but my xter would have compled me to put her on a test of my own. If my partner see my writing this she would start calling me "agbaya" cos she knows what am talking about. While I was dating her, she put me thru a test not like urs but a test that was also quite uncomfortable for me at that time. Am glad I passed it but then I didn´t let her go scot free without finding out, giving her also a test of her own medicine. We are married now though and have a son together. Now am not asking u to do similar cos it could backfire, like u said what works for A may not work for B. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Nobody: 9:18am On Dec 15, 2013 |
squaddy: It so can be a mistake too |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by anitank(f): 9:44am On Dec 15, 2013 |
Are u guys still on this matter Op has made up his mind ooo Oya u guys should go to church... Prayer points: for the men, pray that God does not give u such lying and cheating gf who would use ur brains by twisting stories to make it look like it's a test For the ladies, pray that God gives u such caring, loving and kind hearted bf who would stand by you against all odds (even when u get pregnant for another man) Peace be with you all! 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by purpinkx(m): 9:48am On Dec 15, 2013 |
Hmmmmmmmn Test for Hydrogen ... 1. put x gas in a test tube (put x guy in a tight corner) 2. Cover and Shake it (tell him something devastating) 3. Turn test tube up side down ( keep his emotions inverted for 2weeks) 4. hydrogen rekindles a glowing splint(x guy calls after said duration of test) 5. Methane would explode in your face 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by purpinkx(m): 9:49am On Dec 15, 2013 |
And ever wonder why we don't use hydrogen to cook ? It forms water under the pot |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by berbajiday(m): 10:05am On Dec 15, 2013 |
jmoore: I will be very happy to fail the test. Lwtmb, like seriously the trial was expensive na haba, I am very sure if it were to be like a 2/3months relationship the OP would hv quit and cut his losses but he probabaly took into account the 3years of being in a relationship that gave him so much joy, he was faithful and devoted, all the same many girls will lose a good man with this kinda test. |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Temptee101(m): 10:12am On Dec 15, 2013 |
youmour:My eyes have seen something. So ur gf went around bleeping every available di.ck that comes her way, to d extent that she took in, probably cudnt place d actual guy that got her pregg. Then, she remebered u and came back, u accepted her, curdled her, thanked her and eventually gave her an award for her actions. My man! That is NOT love. U are weak in d brain. Verily, we are in d end time |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by DesChyko1(m): 10:16am On Dec 15, 2013 |
bigW: I never mentioned that Mandela was an angel. Mandela is celebrated now, True or False?? If True, is it for the divorce or the apartheid era?? If it's the apartheid era, what can you say about his mindset?? |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by ichidodo: 10:21am On Dec 15, 2013 |
anitank:But there is exception to that as in this case the O.P is an E-diot and both of you can take it to the bank. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by birdman(m): 10:21am On Dec 15, 2013 |
♥Dεs•Chγκσ♥: Real love is not foolish. The sensible thing to ask her first is , who is the father? Lets see what the real father thinks or is willing to do. THEN, he can say wether or not if he wants to continue the relationship. Here, the guy blindly agrees to continue the relationship, even though he doesnt know who the real father is. For all you know, the impregnator still wants his girl. In fact, if he is African, the sight of another man taking care of his baby might be enough to make him kill the OP. But the OP is oblivious to all this. Anyways, fools die easy. |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by jmoore(m): 10:24am On Dec 15, 2013 |
Many have said she must have aborted a baby. His previous thread below gives a clue mikyke: I was shocked when my GF told she aborted a 2wks pregnancy. After so much arguments and confrontation, she said something that really touched me and I had to think twice. Her words "I know you are a young and smart guy with so much ahead of him. We have been dating for the past 2yrs now and one thing I have to realise about you is your ambition to make it in life and I don't want to be a hinderance to it. Am sorry I didn't tell you about it, but I don't want you to say in future that I ruined your life. Am feel so ashamed of myself right now but you just have to forgive me". I was really touch when she said these things to me. She opened my eyes to see that I almost ruined my own life (though it might not be the end of the world). I vowed in my mind that moment to stick with her. Let him carry his cross. |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by bank2k4real(m): 10:33am On Dec 15, 2013 |
Meeen...no b small ting ooo...u try sha...keep it up..more grease to your elbow.tell her not to try that again oooo...even after 3 yrs? Btw check my signature for the latest xmas PROMO on nairaland |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Temptee101(m): 10:34am On Dec 15, 2013 |
jmoore: Like many have spoken, she must have aborted a baby.Thank you for proving our point. So the Op, already knew she was preg and did an abortion all this while. The Op, is mad. He is just a confused being who doesnt know what he really wants. He shud do whatever he wishes. Dont know blw d Op and d girl who is worst. I rest my case 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Boss13: 10:36am On Dec 15, 2013 |
Judging from his previous post, I wonder if his story is real or he wants some sympathy. Anyways, I just don't believe the story. OP has been dating his gf for 36months (3 yrs) that's enough days to know if you have a serious relationship or not. I wonder why the test should come in. OP there is little more I can say than, that I doubt your story and if it is true I doubt your gf truly loves you. No woman who is truly in love puts her man's love and life @ risk. Good luck to you and your decision but remember I doubt your story. |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Nobody: 10:38am On Dec 15, 2013 |
My ex did such and that led to the end of the show... She later apologised but it was 2 late, i could not stand the shame of being a coward in the relationship. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by squaddy(m): 10:48am On Dec 15, 2013 |
Nifemi_cutie: u're every gals dream..wow!!! Am really touch dat a man like dis stil exist.she s xo lucky i pray wen my time cums i shud be also lucky to find my own man Your own fool or wimp u mean 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Nobody: 10:53am On Dec 15, 2013 |
There is an atom of truth in evry 'am jokin'.....broda use ya heaD |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by EHoudini: 10:54am On Dec 15, 2013 |
she wasn't joking; trust me, she was indeed pregnant, had successful abortion and wants u, d naive dude. d 2wk interlude is just abt needed to heal completely. |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Nobody: 11:07am On Dec 15, 2013 |
brother 'shine ya eyes'. Don't let love impede your decision-taking. As for me, i would fail the test ehn, that kind of girl cannot be trusted.Haba! . |
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