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10 Superb Ways To Impress Your Mother-in-law by Youngsage: 11:52am On Dec 16, 2013 |
You can do a lot to stop your mother-in- law from turning into monster-in-law. Here are some simple steps that can help you develop a great rapport with her. 1. Do your homework : Ask your husband for the issues that she may be touchy about. You may not know about family feuds and other such issues, so don’t give your opinion before you know all the details. Also, get to know what she likes. If she loves serials then try and talk to her about it. It may be the ice-breaker that may lead to a great relationship with her. 2. Bring gifts : Won’t you love it if a guests comes to your house with a gift in his/her hand. Similarly, you mother-in-law will appreciate your love for her a great deal more if you take some gifts for her every now and then. 3. Dress well : If you are out to impress, don’t go dressed in clothes that are not ironed and hair that’s not brushed properly. And skimpy clothes are a strict no-no. Similarly, it would do you good to not reveal the tattoo on your spine during your first meeting. 4. Don’t compete with her : Accept the fact that a mother is bound to be possessive about her son. So, don’t try and tell her how to cook for him. Even if your husband prefers your cooking to hers, don’t point it out to her. Give her compliments about her culinary skills and even take recipes from her. A little flattery doesn’t hurt, does it? 5. Be polite : If you can’t be overtly nice, then at least be polite. Don’t overrule what she has to say. Also, don’t get into an argument or debate with her during your first meeting. 6. Call her often : To make sure that you communicate well with your mother-in-law call her at frequent intervals. Don’t wait for her to call you. She will appreciate the fact that you keep in touch over the phone even when you can’t be around. 7. Seek advice : Regardless of whether or not you plan to take it, take their advice. Your spouse’s parents will be glad to feel that they still have some influence on their child’s life. 8. Present a united front : Even if you have certain issues with your mother-in-law, don’t wash the dirty linen in public. When you are attending a family event make sure that you don’t pass snide remarks or discuss you differences in public. 9. Treat your spouse well in front of them : Parents are obviously very possessive about their kids, and the best way to earn their respect is to treat their child well. 10. Relax : The most important thing is to not get too nervous, your mother-in-law is bound to be as nervous about meeting you. Secondly, learn to forgive and forget. This simple rule will make your life a lot easier. culled from - http://thetrentonline.com/be-polite-10-superb-ways-to-impress-your-mum-in-law/ |
Re: 10 Superb Ways To Impress Your Mother-in-law by kweenbee(f): 12:52pm On Dec 16, 2013 |
Nice one,this really came in handy thanks. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Superb Ways To Impress Your Mother-in-law by ifyalways(f): 2:02pm On Dec 16, 2013 |
Be yourself. I never tried to impress my MIL and believe me,we had lots of differences ie cultural,religious bla bla. She saw me,real and undiluted. I wouldnt want no girl my boys bring home try to impress me. I prefer they show me their real rainbow colours so i know what to expect. Rule no 1: You cannot impress everybody No 2: You start anything with the mind of impressing anyone,then be ready to go all the way,living your life to impress others a.k.a Fake life. 2 Likes |
Re: 10 Superb Ways To Impress Your Mother-in-law by Nobody: 3:25pm On Dec 16, 2013 |
Ify nailed it! There's only one rule: BE YOURSELF!!! |
Re: 10 Superb Ways To Impress Your Mother-in-law by Nobody: 4:17pm On Dec 16, 2013 |
Hmmmm |
Re: 10 Superb Ways To Impress Your Mother-in-law by Nobody: 4:20pm On Dec 16, 2013 |
Be yourself!! |
Re: 10 Superb Ways To Impress Your Mother-in-law by Nobody: 4:35pm On Dec 16, 2013 |
1 Like |
Re: 10 Superb Ways To Impress Your Mother-in-law by Olugbenger(m): 4:59pm On Dec 16, 2013 |
ifyalways: Be yourself. I never tried to impress my MIL and believe me,we had lots of differences ie cultural,religious bla bla. She saw me,real and undiluted. I wouldnt want no girl my boys bring home try to impress me. I prefer they show me their real rainbow colours so i know what to expect. I feel this is right but i can't understand why i still find it difficult to believe. |
Re: 10 Superb Ways To Impress Your Mother-in-law by Missmossy(f): 7:09pm On Dec 16, 2013 |
Nice one! 1 Like |
Re: 10 Superb Ways To Impress Your Mother-in-law by Youngsage: 2:30pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
ifyalways: Be yourself. I never tried to impress my MIL and believe me,we had lots of differences ie cultural,religious bla bla. She saw me,real and undiluted. I wouldnt want no girl my boys bring home try to impress me. I prefer they show me their real rainbow colours so i know what to expect.true! thanks 4 your input... |
Re: 10 Superb Ways To Impress Your Mother-in-law by Youngsage: 2:32pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
kweenbee: Nice one,this really came in handy thanks.You're welcome |
Re: 10 Superb Ways To Impress Your Mother-in-law by Youngsage: 2:34pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
martha: HmmmmHmmmm what? You ehn martha you're always hmmming lol |
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