alaoeri:
Being an activist & having a good marriage are two different things. The great Madiba married 3times in his life time.

kulyie: what other evidence is conving enough.can anybody not do some marks of her face and snap picture to show as evidence of assault.abi is it untol they carry her corpse out of his house before she uses her common sense and know what to do

soul_glo: What an animal. I believe he did it. I believe the elderly gentleman. Typical. I don't know how a man could hit a woman over the head with a rod and she still stays with him and keeps having children with him. What is the point in him changing his ways when there are no consequences. Ugly inside and out.

dumodust: saint dino... if it was sullivan now, they will all be foaming in the mouth all over the thread...hypocrites

berem: This is family matter. They should settle things amicably.

TerpeOjorobaby: if dem point ur sister wit gun for head u go tlk lke dis?

Miss Shakara:
"Fall from a skyscrapper and die"? Its so obvious now you can't think straight when it comes to violence cos you have little appreciation for human life! Unfortunately the likes of you can only run mouth online when in reality women use you to scrub floors. My parents at least gave me training while yours left you in a gutter to pissed and pooed on, that explains your bitterness and insensitivity to life.
Unfortunate Pompous Fool!

pascyj: Dino's money has run out;his wife decides to leave him after long-term inexcusable abuse.She thinks she can now destroy him.That's just the Nigerian mind.That's what I see here.But I know Mr.Dino'll still weather and win this.Dino must be allowed a defence,public or private.

ochallo:

This is the most misogynistic statement ever, i can tell you are just a product of the african environment. Everybody can be annoying, the mere fact that you now put women in a different bracket means you are already gender biased. Human beings can be annoying male or female, but most people have double standards for annoying men and annoying women because of a misogynistic society.

alaoeri:
Being an activist & having a good marriage are two different things. The great Madiba married 3times in his life time.

kulyie: of course i saw this comming,it was just going to be a matter of time.i know violence is engrained in the dna of some men.they come from wrecked,forked up homes where daddy beats mummy severally in their presence and even outside so they see domestic violence as a culture and way of life.

By the way i think i agree with coogar in one of his posts when he says both men and women should go for a mental check up before they are joined in 'nigerian (holy) matrimony' because its not everyone (including some people on nl) that looks or appears normal that is actually normal

nonethess,by their fruits WE SHALL KNOW THEM

itsIYKE: so what do u want us to do naw?,shud we start dancing cos u PERSONALLY saw dino melaye

alaoeri:
Being an activist & having a good marriage are two different things. The great Madiba married 3times in his life time.

alaoeri:
Being an activist & having a good marriage are two different things. The great Madiba married 3times in his life time.

dinachi: I will not castigate Dino until I hear his own side of the story...knowing how funny women can be sometimes! Those days we believed everything a woman says are long gone. Nowadays women lie, cheat and even assault as much as their male counterparts.Let me not catch any silly man coming here to throw accusations on Dino without hearing his own side of the story. We don't need such sissy men here, be warned!

As for some women here who have already jumped into the fray without waiting for a balancing account from Dino....you are just true to your type......simpletons!

rusher14: [b]The amount of abuse and insults between Coogar and Miss Shakara et al. doesn't speak well of us as human beings.

From your depositions and repartee it is obvious you guys are educated, but trading words like Barbarians at war is a no-no.

Also, I find it unbelievable that the moderators have also failed in their capacity to censor unacceptable language.

However, I'm with Coogar on this.

Sworn affidavit and all don't a conviction make.

If indeed this is a genuine application (and it won't be the first time some document has been forged in our country), it still doesn't make Dino guilty.


Never been a fan of Mr. Melaiye but there just isn't enough proof for us to conclude his guilt.

Hearsay and further evidence as well as cross-examination or statements from both parties might well inform our decisions.

Yes, from what we have at the moment the picture isn't looking good for Dino but not enough to reach a conclusion.


We are all guilty of being sentimental at some point in our lives but logic most times yields a better result.

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coogar:

story looks fake!
i don't want to see complaint letters that could be fabricated in any dodgy street in nigeria. i want to see photographic evidence of bruises & bloodied face.

dino melayie may be guilty as alleged but an empirical evidence wouldn't be out of place. if we go by word of mouth alone, the biblical joseph was a prolific räpist!

skillzbae: Seriously? Sharp mouth or not, she is human not a goat. A woman who ws there for him in trying period, d least d big headed man should do is respect her. There r beta ways of making ur points knwn instead of beating.

Bonga4: For any man to physically abuse a woman is inexcusable. Honestly Guys we should do a serious rethink of our attitudes towards women. They deserve better consideration and more respect than we are currently willing to accord them.

rusher14: [b]The amount of abuse and insults between Coogar and Miss Shakara et al. doesn't speak well of us as human beings.

From your depositions and repartee it is obvious you guys are educated, but trading words like Barbarians at war is a no-no.

Also, I find it unbelievable that the moderators have also failed in their capacity to censor unacceptable language.

However, I'm with Coogar on this.
Sworn affidavit and all don't a conviction make.

If indeed this is a genuine application (and it won't be the first time some document has been forged in our country), it still doesn't make Dino guilty.

Never been a fan of Mr. Melaiye but there just isn't enough proof for us to conclude his guilt.

Hearsay and further evidence as well as cross-examination or statements from both parties might well inform our decisions.

Yes, from what we have at the moment the picture isn't looking good for Dino but not enough to reach a conclusion.

We are all guilty of being sentimental at some point in our lives but logic most times yields a better result.[/b]

bibina:
If you know the woman in person then you would know that all these are true! and that there may be other gory details she decided to conceal for the sake of sanity. I know her in person and from a distance you would never believe she is the wife of anyone in limelight. This woman is an epitome of humility, infact it is now i realize what she must have been going through. I do business with Nigcomsat and she works in a department I often deal with. kai...... i am feeling for Tokunbo!!! but why does God reward good women with evil men? Tokunbo I only pray that God touches the heart of Dino and makes him change so you can all reap the fruit of your labour in this marriage. God will surely reward you for I know His ways are different from ours. If divorce is what you need for now, so be it but I believe God can change any situation just as He can change anyone and turn him or her around for good. You need a happy home and God will give you a happy home where your children will stay in joy and harmony with you.
Amen

steph7:
Don't you know its her fault with her sharp mouth she deserved the beatings.