Am not Nigerian and come from a very diverse family.

Am married to an elegant Nigerian man who loves me with all his heart. Yet just like my brother in-law who is Igbo can't be tolerant and believes he is the most perfect race on the planet. While my Yoruba hubby believes that there can be no perfect way of being if not rooted wirhin the Yoruba culture.

Generally our society has developed a negative perception towards Nigerians. As here they even struggle to build relationships, interact with other ethnic groups and keep their SA women content. Most SA women find themselves enduring their marriages and relationships to Nigerian men, as there is always betrayal; lack of respect; lack of commitment;treating of relationship as business transaction; making of babies all over the place; visiting of wives from Nigeria and selling ofss illegal drugs.

Yet I love my man and can never get enough of his Yoruba endowment down there. Being blessed I have been content and so loved by this man, who like the minority of Nigerians in this countryy are upholding the Nigerian pride in this country