deeptesting: You can divorce your wife on the basis that you no longer love her; you are lonely and depressed even when you are married which may lead to your untimely death and you don't want to die now....Then you can move in with your Ex...

store_ss:

Thanks all. @deeptesting, this situation is with my wife. I am cooperative with her but she might feel that she is lonely because I am not with her mentally and my ex has taken over my thoughts always.

store_ss:

Thanks all. @deeptesting, this situation is with my wife. I am cooperative with her but she might feel that she is lonely because I am not with her mentally and my ex has taken over my thoughts always.

store_ss:

Thanks all. @deeptesting, this situation is with my wife. I am cooperative with her but she might feel that she is lonely because I am not with her mentally and my ex has taken over my thoughts always.

store_ss: I had a serious affair with a girl for long time, for some serious reason I thought that this will not work then I got married to one of my friend. It has been few years now but I still can't forget her and her thoughts are all over my head always.
She is still unmarried or not engaged yet, but really angry with me. We talk sometimes but not like love birds anymore.
I like my wife but don't love her in actually. I am thinking of staying away from my wife so that I do not spoil her life anymore.
Am I thinking right, or should I continue this relationship the way it is. I think that I am not doing justice/fair with all three of us currently.
Please help.

store_ss: I had a serious affair with a girl for long time, for some serious reason I thought that this will not work then I got married to one of my friend. It has been few years now but I still can't forget her and her thoughts are all over my head always.
She is still unmarried or not engaged yet, but really angry with me. We talk sometimes but not like love birds anymore.
I like my wife but don't love her in actually. I am thinking of staying away from my wife so that I do not spoil her life anymore.
Am I thinking right, or should I continue this relationship the way it is. I think that I am not doing justice/fair with all three of us currently.
Please help.

ifyalways: Women dey chop shyte from men sha. I cannot imagine or understand why a woman would still fooolishly want to still be friends with a guy that dated and dumped her to marry another person. Shuooo!

Ladies know your worth. Don't make yourself a toy or play thing with which men ease the stress of marriage. You aint good for marriage "then", why should you be good enough for friendship after his marriage? Why make yourself an "okirika" for men?

@OP, I got nothing to say to you.

alutacontinua: https://www.nairaland.com/1562245/love-husbandbut-loosing-trust

Are u related to the woman in the above thread?

alutacontinua: https://www.nairaland.com/1562245/love-husbandbut-loosing-trust

Are u related to the woman in the above thread?

bluuu: ^^lol

Dantedasz: @OP,
Do you really in all honesty feel you are being fair and truthful to all parties concerned in this triangle? Are you being just to your wife, your ex lover and yourself?

bellong: You are not in any dilemna except that you are being overtaken by your passion and lust.

When you reach the Jerusalem of this your ex, I am sure your eyes will clear.

Love is not emotion and emotion is not love bro.... If you have been looking for a way to divorce your wife because of an ex, there is no

point creating story about it. Just do what you have to do and save the woman emotional and psychological torture of your non-commitment.