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Re: Who Should Pay On A Date? by onyinye2(f): 8:54pm On Aug 01, 2008 |
HCH3COO:hell bent ke? that is just what i know. that is how i have always been treated. i meet someone, we go out , he pays. That is what i am use to and expect. And if i was the one who did the toasting, instead of me paying to go out, i will cook. |
Re: Who Should Pay On A Date? by HCH3COO: 8:55pm On Aug 01, 2008 |
onyinye2:But if he cooks you call him cheap, right? Besides, i thought you said your dad wouldn't allow you to bring him to your home |
Re: Who Should Pay On A Date? by Nobody: 8:56pm On Aug 01, 2008 |
KarmaMod:What I am saying is that if the girl is the one who pursued the guy, as in asked him to come on the date, she should not go empty handed, she should atleast make an attempt or even make it look like she will pay, i stated before that the guy will most likely offer and even be impressed if he sees that the girl is making an effort to pay. The point is, if the girl pursued, she should not come empty handed and automatically expect the guy to pay. |
Re: Who Should Pay On A Date? by bluesky4(f): 8:56pm On Aug 01, 2008 |
seriously, would u guys accept that the woman pays for the first date?? |
Re: Who Should Pay On A Date? by HCH3COO: 8:56pm On Aug 01, 2008 |
KarmaMod:Shameless, maybe. If feminists keep flapping their wings like hens screaming 50:50 at everything, I don't see why a first date should be exempt. |
Re: Who Should Pay On A Date? by onyinye2(f): 8:57pm On Aug 01, 2008 |
ibkaye:if you think it is silly, we that is your cup of tea, but for me it is what is suppose to happen. If you think my way is wrong, selfish, and what do you want me to do about it? ibkaye:that is just how it works. |
Re: Who Should Pay On A Date? by bluesky4(f): 8:57pm On Aug 01, 2008 |
ibkaye: its very rare, even in this day and age, that the girl persues the man. |
Re: Who Should Pay On A Date? by KarmaMod(f): 8:58pm On Aug 01, 2008 |
ibkaye: While I agree with your stance in regards to THAT situation, how OFTEN does that even happen? |
Re: Who Should Pay On A Date? by onyinye2(f): 8:59pm On Aug 01, 2008 |
HCH3COO:Him cheap ke? not at all. i wouldn't even allow that to cross my mind. And gini?, i don't live with my parents. |
Re: Who Should Pay On A Date? by HCH3COO: 8:59pm On Aug 01, 2008 |
onyinye2:you still can't rationalize your stance with good logic. this is why it is always going to be a man's world. |
Re: Who Should Pay On A Date? by Nobody: 8:59pm On Aug 01, 2008 |
onyinye2:Where did I mention that it is silly, wrong or selfish? I was just helping you to answer David's question Is that not exactly what you said to me before, that 'that is the way you were brought up in the south?' blue-sky:It is rare but it still happens |
Re: Who Should Pay On A Date? by bluesky4(f): 9:00pm On Aug 01, 2008 |
To me personally, if the man cant pay for the first date, or even show the initiative of paying, it shows he's tight. Why is everyone picking on onyinye |
Re: Who Should Pay On A Date? by Nobody: 9:00pm On Aug 01, 2008 |
KarmaMod:It does not happen often, but that does not mean that it does not happen at all |
Re: Who Should Pay On A Date? by onyinye2(f): 9:01pm On Aug 01, 2008 |
HCH3COO:well that is your opinion. i can't change yours, and you can't change mine. |
Re: Who Should Pay On A Date? by Nobody: 9:02pm On Aug 01, 2008 |
blue-sky:Nobody is picking on onyinye, we are just not agreeing and trying to state our points |
Re: Who Should Pay On A Date? by onyinye2(f): 9:04pm On Aug 01, 2008 |
blue-sky:Nwannem nwanyi, im cool. |
Re: Who Should Pay On A Date? by KarmaMod(f): 9:07pm On Aug 01, 2008 |
ibkaye: It does happen and OBVIOUSLY since SHE asked the dude out, she should have some cash on hand but I think we are talking of the "traditional" role, where it's usually the HE doing the asking out. Even then it's ok for the girl to put money down/offer to pay but if the dude actually relies on that then he's pathetic |
Re: Who Should Pay On A Date? by Baxilexi(m): 9:10pm On Aug 01, 2008 |
KarmaMod: what your talkin about is what i call vex money, its a kind of back up just in any case the guyy should bail. |
Re: Who Should Pay On A Date? by Nobody: 9:10pm On Aug 01, 2008 |
KarmaMod:exactly, the point is, you pursue, you pay, the problem with some girls is, even when they are the ones who pursue, they automatically think that it is the guy's job to pay, she should at least bring cash and attempt, if the guy offers which hopefully he most likely will, that's good, girls, just don't sit there and expect him to fork out the dosh when it was you who invited him to the restaurant |
Re: Who Should Pay On A Date? by Nobody: 9:14pm On Aug 01, 2008 |
Baxilexi: bail? Vex money? I don't get you o |
Re: Who Should Pay On A Date? by bluesky4(f): 9:14pm On Aug 01, 2008 |
If she asked the dude out, then yes, she has to pay, ofcourse. I know it does happen, but none of my girlfriends have persued a guy, so cant really relate to it. If he askes the girl out, he has to pay. I woman likes to be wined and dined |
Re: Who Should Pay On A Date? by Nobody: 9:15pm On Aug 01, 2008 |
KarmaMod: Its funny how women always expect the "traditional role" when it comes to dates but refuse to toe the traditional role when it comes to the woman's place in the home. Dont you just love these women who speak with three sides of the mouth? |
Re: Who Should Pay On A Date? by Nobody: 9:16pm On Aug 01, 2008 |
blue-sky:exactly, that is what we have all been saying from the beginning, i guess you did not read the previous posts We are not picking onyinye, but trying to get her to understand |
Re: Who Should Pay On A Date? by Nobody: 9:17pm On Aug 01, 2008 |
OMG!! My little Ibk is growing up @oyinye I have to disagree with you here honey. But whoever initiated the date pays. What if the dude doesn't have any money with him when you asked him out? Where is he going to get money to pay? I think this is why some dude ditches some women on their date. Cuz they know they'll have to pay the bills when they ain't got no money. |
Re: Who Should Pay On A Date? by bluesky4(f): 9:18pm On Aug 01, 2008 |
ibkaye:ah ok, yeh i just skipped to the last page davidylan:what is this traditional role u r talking about? please enlighten me. |
Re: Who Should Pay On A Date? by tope2000(f): 9:18pm On Aug 01, 2008 |
Ruby_Pearl: Completely agree with that |
Re: Who Should Pay On A Date? by Nobody: 9:19pm On Aug 01, 2008 |
Ruby_Pearl:Hehehehehe blue-sky:YOU SEE! |
Re: Who Should Pay On A Date? by onyinye2(f): 9:20pm On Aug 01, 2008 |
Ruby_Pearl:I would first ask why did he ask me out in the first place if he had no money? But as i said if i pursue a guy[i](i've only done it once)[/i] then instead of me paying to take him out, i invite him over to my place to where i prepared the meal for the both of us. |
Re: Who Should Pay On A Date? by Nobody: 9:22pm On Aug 01, 2008 |
blue-sky: I'm sure you know. |
Re: Who Should Pay On A Date? by gabelogan(m): 9:23pm On Aug 01, 2008 |
onyinye, na dis kind talk u like |
Re: Who Should Pay On A Date? by KarmaMod(f): 9:23pm On Aug 01, 2008 |
davidylan: Um I meant traditional role of guy asking girl and I do pay for first dates because I don't trust Naija animals that think they are entitled to anything because they spent like $15 on food. I also pay for movies LIKE a certain VANTAGE POINT |
Re: Who Should Pay On A Date? by tope2000(f): 9:24pm On Aug 01, 2008 |
onyinye2:onyinye if you initiated the date first, do you still expect the guy to pay?? cuz i would have expected you to at least attempt the to pay until the guy says he will. |
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