Ruq:

Are you all right ? you won kill the man, no be everybody get bulletproof for life ooh. OP just keep ignoring him nicely.

ekytessy: I hv done dat already my dear, my hubby is aware

Nashville: I think people just use this fetish thing to scare others. My advice to you is this. First of all, make a formal complaint to the police. The next time he calls you, you husband should pick the phone and ask him never to call you again. Next call his wife and inform her as well. Show her all his texts etc. He can beat his wife to death if her likes but thats not your problem.

If he now calls you after that, get the police involved immediately or better still, organise some thugs to give him a few slaps. Make hin to tell hin fellow wizards for their cult. He cannot do nada!

gabbytabby: Ask your husband's support in putting up an anonymous notice and state your concerns without saying his name or yours and promise to put up the messages/text he sends to you and the phone number from which it was sent in the compound anytime you get anymore. Hopefully if he does not fear his wife then he will fear the embarrassment that might be coming his way from other inhabitants in the compound.

It also means if anything was to happen between your husband and him then there is some record that you have tried to stop the harrassment.

Woged2005:

You are already losing the fight by giving in to fear. what the crap is "he attends amorc and he's also a buccania"? Stand your ground please. By the way AMORC is a book club founded in USA and based in San Jose USA. In those days (before internet) amongst other books their members had exclusive access to ancient mystic books and stories. Today those books are widely available to everyone now on Google. They made us believe in Africa in those days that they have some special powers - poo! Absolute lie! In terms of mystical power they will rank #500 compared to the catholic church, and the type of ancient books stored at St. Basilica's library. If he is stupid, he is stupid not bc he's amorc or catholic, or pentecostal, or white beret, etc. He is simply obsessed, sick and need to be strengthened up by real men.

Please do not let anyone instill fear in you with poo! Stand your ground and shun him. If it takes non-violent confrontation, do it.

nuelski10: How did he get your num?

ekytessy: Good day my people, happy xmas in advance. pls I need ur advice. Am happily married wit two kids, I hv a neighbour who's also married wit four kids too, he doesn't want me to rest, I hv done every thing humanly possible to tell him off but he refused, I hv abused him, advice him, call him names but still he's after me dat he want us to date. I hv complained to my hubby but my elder sister adviced my hubby not to confront d man because he's an occult man he can harm him, he attends amorc and he's also a buccania. He now uses different numbers to call me because I don't pick his calls and he made me not to b picking any number dat is not registered on my phone, he kept on sending me text messages, I hv pleaded wit my hubby dat we hv to pack out from dat compound but he refused and said dat he will leave wen he builds his own house. I don't know wat else to do because his text messages irritates me and am scare of him, I think his persistence might b from their temple, I always do mid night prayer because of him, I don't want to involve his wife though we are not friends and he beats his wife all d time. I don't know how else to tell him off wit his numerous text messages. pls I need ur kindly advice

Chillisauce: OP nairaland taught me to wear red pant and bra to seduce ppl.

Now I start telling you, wear bubba, tie big scarf, if you must wear trouser, wear biggy and your husband t shirt. Like that the man no go look your side.

No weaves, makeup and never forget to rub Vaseline on your face all the time.

Thank me later

tpia@:
If he's a cultist then he'll persist unless you stop doing whatever is attracting him.

Do you dress seductively?

tpia@:
The man is in the occult and is also married.

I don't see anything flattering about that.

Women should get some self esteem and stop feeling hyper anytime they are toasted by a male, if the male is a bus conductor they don't have any problems scaring him off and cussing him to high heavens, but let it be someone who is well placed, and suddenly we hear stories that touch.

tpia@:



Its not the end of the world if men do not get ho.rny everytime they see you.

There is dressing with class and there is dressing to get laid, there's a difference.

A married woman, or one with responsibilities, should not have attracting males as her primary focus in life, unless her intention is to scout for booty calls.

Woged2005:

You are already losing the fight by giving in to fear. what the crap is "he attends amorc and he's also a buccania"? Stand your ground please. By the way AMORC is a book club founded in USA and based in San Jose USA. In those days (before internet) amongst other books their members had exclusive access to ancient mystic books and stories. Today those books are widely available to everyone now on Google. They made us believe in Africa in those days that they have some special powers - poo! Absolute lie! In terms of mystical power they will rank #500 compared to the catholic church, and the type of ancient books stored at St. Basilica's library. If he is stupid, he is stupid not bc he's amorc or catholic, or pentecostal, or white beret, etc. He is simply obsessed, sick and need to be strengthened up by real men.

Please do not let anyone instill fear in you with poo! Stand your ground and shun him. If it takes non-violent confrontation, do it.

Cold faya:


Bestest comment here. Their powers are over rated. Don't let d whole Amorc n Bukku thing scare u n hubby away. D 1st sign of defeat is FEAR. The man knows ur hubby is scared hence his capitalising on that to torment u more.
Confront him from every direction possible; be it physical, spiritual n even police-tical. He can't do Nadda. Wetin sef!

tellwisdom: Tell us deep down what is going on and I will advise you. You never tell us somethings yet.

ekytessy: sorry I don't understand wat u meant, dats all dat has transpired between us. Notin more or less. Thanks

Chillisauce: OP nairaland taught me to wear red pant and bra to seduce ppl.

Now I start telling you, wear bubba, tie big scarf, if you must wear trouser, wear biggy and your husband t shirt. Like that the man no go look your side.

No weaves, makeup and never forget to rub Vaseline on your face all the time.

Thank me later

ekytessy: I hv done dat my dear

thanks dear for ur advice

Madam, on a lighter side, could it be your use of affectionate words and your seeming politeness that is leading the neighbor on?


Seriously, your hubby should be the person to take care of the situation.
Cultist or not, I won't sit and watch a douche-bag fantasizing about my wife's killer curves in my surrounding.

Ujujoan: O ye men of little faith!

Don't you know the power in that name JESUS? How can you be scared of an ordinary human being? So so sad!

Meanwhile your husband is kind of funny. Does he not know that he is being disrespected by this so-called neighbour? Why must he rool back and do nothing? He fears for his own life? What about you hsi wife? If the man can harrass you openly to that extent then he can also harm you! Your husband needs to step up and be a man!


How can a man be scared of his fellow man

Miner13:

JESUS did not wait to die until the appointed time comes.

Are you saying is her time to die ennm biko.

You better run for your dear life.

SHALOM