fijiano202: Am tired with Nairaland and all this ladies wahala..Guy dont love too much cos we she breaks ur heart it wont hurt too much and why all is ''q'' for ''g'' is fear of heartbreak making you type rubbish

i jst prefer d ''q'' to ''g'' jst my kindda style of typing...n 4 d advice we hv been datinq nw almost 4yrs can u qo dt lonq without fallinq ''too much inlove'' with a girl M nt a kid bro i knw wuh m sayinq here...jst need an advice b4 i do sumtin i miqht reqret

Yoruba_Jesus: Be the dumper and not the dumpee. Dump her and move on. Love ain't by force son.

she's nt avoidinq me(dnt qt me wronq) she even calls me Mostly...buh she easily qts annoyd wif me on thinqs dt dnt make sence n its kindda hrt-breakinq...i dnt wanna break her hrt(i actually disvirqind her) so u knw wuh miqht happen if i try dt i'm jst way in Over my head...

vizkiz:
i jst prefer d ''q'' to ''g'' jst my kindda style of typing...n 4 d advice we hv been datinq nw almost 4yrs can u qo dt lonq without fallinq ''too much inlove'' with a girl M nt a kid bro i knw wuh m sayinq here...jst need an advice b4 i do sumtin i miqht reqret

fijiano202: ok just act like a novice and do as if u dont suspect anything,4yrs is a long time,just relax and try to watch her attitude and behavior towards u

Zumarocket: kill her befor she kill u.
dats hw e dey start. she will nvr agree dat she is cheatin even if u caught her in d action.
look for a girl a give u time. wen she start seein it. she will knw hw it feels to change.
last bullet bro.: nvr in ur life trusth a woman. dnt give all ur love. they change forgetin they re hurtin some1. so as she change. change too. else u wil be on d losin side.

i reali appreciate dis tnx alot! Buh do yuh tink its possible divertinq my attension on d ''new girl''(considerinq hw lonq i'v been cominq wif her?) i hav neva double dated
n i'm nt sure if she's cheatinq on me M jst sayinq these frm wt i observed abt her these past weeks...its like she's nt d kindda girl i use 2 knw 2yrs aqo

Enegod: go out and have fun with other females...You are thinking too much and its not good for your health

yeah i'v qat oda female frnds(even some dt wanna qo out wif me)buh i cnt(i'm nt qay oooh) its jst cuz i'm stuck wif dis girl...like i said i was d 1st quy she ever had sex wif(and still d only)i knw dis...she's qat qood attitude...she's also a wife material(200yards) buh she's chanqinq Frm wt i use 2 knw her 2 b...i jst wish i culd do sumtin dt wuld let her knw m nt happy n @ d same tym nt break her hrt..do u understand wuh m tryinq 2 say?

Excel 30 :
No affair will work without honesty&Transperancy.Y hide things fr someone,u profess to love?End the affair before u get hurt.

Matildachinyere: Guy sit her down and tell her ur mind *as in everything, from how she has changed To how u are beginning to lose trust * and don't be sentimental, and let her know dat if d relationship has to continue, she has to respect ur position,opinions and feelings towards her *don't be imposive oo abeg * from her response, u will know if d relationship has to end or continue to greater heights. #tell her in a gentle like manner but let ur feelings show #

believe me,i wuldnt bother brinqinq dis here if i'v nt ran outta options...she jst keep usinq d word ''u knw m a girl n quys would qo after me''(yeah she's pwety i qt dat) n most tyms i'll b like wtf! Dnt qurls qo after me too She tells me abt d quys n all dt sh*iit buh i dnt wanna knw! All i wnt z my switzz(ness) back 2 wt she use 2 b *dehmn!* i tink am qoinq crazy!

Adaeze003: I dunno if she's cheating(I mean, how the heck am I to know) but I know that nagging makes one indifferent. Stop nagging and trust her. She said she's not and you have no proof so just act normal. When you guys get back together you'll know by her behavior.

wt if it turns out she is cheatinq on me den wuh amma surpose 2 do den U knw its nt easy been away frm d person u love 4 so lonq...xpecialy wif wts qoinq on nowadays ASUU bfs/qfs (i was almost a victim) i almost slept wif my church member when she came visitinq in my room...buh i culd withstand d temptation cuz i culdnt do it(thouqh i was fastinq den) bt u knw ladies can easily b manipulated...wuh if she qts involved wif a *bad quy* n he manipulates her (m jst tryinq 2 keep her frm doz fool$ )

karo93: 4yrs..well shes a little bored of u(e don tay).....so shes kinda enjoying fresh talks and attention and care from new guys......if shes a good girl she ll just flirt a little,if shes bad she will cheat a little....
but bottom line if she still uses her credit to call u den she still loves you and since you deflowered her she will find it hard to leave you.
Relax bro,she is bored i guess you could occupy urself wit oda tins and stop thinking of only her or start taking her out and having fun with her.

vizkiz:

believe me,i wuldnt bother brinqinq dis here if i'v nt ran outta options...she jst keep usinq d word ''u knw m a girl n quys would qo after me''(yeah she's pwety i qt dat) n most tyms i'll b like wtf! Dnt qurls qo after me too She tells me abt d quys n all dt sh*iit buh i dnt wanna knw! All i wnt z my switzz(ness) back 2 wt she use 2 b *dehmn!* i tink am qoinq crazy!

gulfer: Guy, you can't have her back to the way she was as you've already opened her eyes to the sweetest taboo . Just be the man and ensure she understands your aversion to her flirtations with other guys. Like others have advised, take your mind off her and maybe find a girl to take your mind off.

i opend her eyes (yeah i feel like a boss 2 dt) tnx thouqh. . .buh do yuh tink its possible qetinq another girl expecially in dis part of d world dt wunt flirt wif quyseven do worse!

Enegod: go out and have fun with other females...You are thinking too much and its not good for your health

vizkiz:

bro,she miqht kill herself if i do(m nt kiddinq) i jst need wisdom dts wuh m seekinq 4 wt 2 do 2 qain her back/chanqe her 2 wt she use 2 b

vizkiz: So my qf started actinq stranqe(donno wt d prob is) we hav nt been 2qether since d strike (ASUU) started her phone is always on hold n anytime i asked who she's chatinq with,she would say someone (so i dnt need 2 knw?) even when we chat on either BBM, Fb or whatsApp she replies my msq like 3-4 minz after i send any msq if i complain,she wuld say i dnt trust her n infact she wuld tell me she's beqininq 2 qt tired of my complains...i am feelinq jealous n anqry...i jst need an advice! Wt shuld i do

vizkiz:

she's nt avoidinq me(dnt qt me wronq) she even calls me Mostly...buh she easily qts annoyd wif me on thinqs dt dnt make sence n its kindda hrt-breakinq...i dnt wanna break her hrt(i actually disvirqind her) so u knw wuh miqht happen if i try dt i'm jst way in Over my head...