nolia66: I feel ur frend is just scared of commitment,wit a married man she doesn't have 2 commit herself,neither does he,its just 4 d fun of it n d sex,she doesn't have 2 answer 2 him about who is calling,where she has been n all dat..she just wnts an intimate relationship witout commitment.

And this low life lady will marry one guy tomorrow. CHAI! If only i can do without a woman.

zeelo2014: Any lady that sleeps with a married man knowingly is not worth getting married to likewise guys too.

dat shd not be requirement for marrying. He that must come to equity, must come with clean hands.

Mostly for the money. The truth is that girls would never admit that they're doing a guy - married or single - for the money. It makes them look like the prostitutes that they really are. That's why they would manufacture nonsensical reasons like "maturity" or "adventure" as supposed justifications for fvcking married men. Na big lie.

From my vast experience, married men in Nigeria tend to be more generous to women. It's married men that foot the high bills of most chicks in town - the house rents, expensive smart phones, Brazilian hair B.S., cars (in some cases), school fees, maintenance money, money for business, travelling expenses, etc.

Young, unmarried guys like us generally give stipends. . .the random N10k here, N15k there, or even N5k or less from time to time. All the N100k upwards kind of money that girls use to package themselves wella are often sourced from married men. Na married men dey spoil market for guys in this country.

On the other hand, there are single girls in a certain age bracket that can only attract married men, and so they really have no choice than to date married men. Single 'girls' in their thirties would hardly be appealing to their unmarried agemates who would prefer younger, fresher chicks. Mostly 40something and 50something year-old married men would be attracted to those kinds of agbaya spinsters.

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Toks2008:

And this low life lady will marry one guy tomorrow. CHAI! If only i can do without a woman.

Nigga it's her life naah, argggggh when will people learn to leave humans alone

Lakeshizu: ......why will u say they are hopeless, this ladies we talk abt arent the one doing the chasing. if a married man cannot discipline himself, ladies shd not be blamed as well.
i want to agree with the fun part of dating a married man.

OH MT GOD! Are you for real?

See friend, men are DOGs by nature even a priest has that Dog instinct in him. A man will sleep with as many free givers as possible.

So the fact that a married man chases a single girl automatically means the girl will say yes i guess. Forget discipline please.

If a married man is disciplined then that is a plus but i believe ladies should learn how to say no. And Nigerian ladies should change their mindset of being with a man because of money. Who says they cant make money too? GOD help our ladies

Well its not ryt at all to dste married men,u are bringing course upon urself,,reasons cos one day u will defnitely get married nd sumone else will do day to u,nd dnt dnt get jealous abt it cos dats wats u asked for,,,,though sum single guys of dis day dnt take up dis responsibilities as d bf,,bt its gud to be independent cos if u are u wunt give a Bleep abt dat

macof: some others are after money

some?
No, it should be "most"girls are after the money.

they do because it's lucrative.

Ladies date married men because of the money and also because they know how to satisfy a woman on bed putting their many years of marriage into consideration

So if men are dogs, dos that give us the excuse to stick our bullets in every gun.

I think its the unavailability of the guy that makes him more appealing than most. Everybody wants something somebody has already got.

The exclusivity increases the appeal. Ever wonder why "limited edition" items are always more expensive and sells out more than the normal edition of same item even though nothing is different?

I remember back when i use to wear a wedding ring just for the fun of it. Ladies for me then were a dime a dozen! one day 2 beautiful classy ladies walked up to me to in a shopping mall to ask if i was really married. they ended up giving me their numbers and like they say, the rest is history. They were fascinated that a young guy like me was married and flaunting it too. That was the day most of my single friends got themselves wedding rings

That period taught me a very valuable lesson and that's why I'll never tell a girl I'm interested in that single . its always "I'm in a very serious relationship I'm not willing to end". That gets them every time because they don't expect it. makes me wonder though

i tink if God is to punish anyone, He shud start with u, anyway i just pray someone connect u or ur daughter to a married man. women are very close to protitution, whether a married man or nt, i tink u are also to b numbered

An excuse for Iniquity. What she sows she will reap.

Toks2008:

OH MT GOD! Are you for real?

See friend, men are DOGs by nature even a priest has that Dog instinct in him. A man will sleep with as many free givers as possible.

So the fact that a married man chases a single girl automatically means the girl will say yes i guess. Forget discipline please.

If a married man is disciplined then that is a plus but i believe ladies should learn how to say no. And Nigerian ladies should change their mindset of being with a man because of money. Who says they cant make money too? GOD help our ladies

Men are 'Dogs' innit? You, your male siblings and your Dad could be a group of German Shepherds for all I care, but don't paint everyone with the same bloody brush sucker.

adorable29: Wooow! What is this world turning to! You sell your conscience, your moral, your dignity, your personality and your soul, your destiny (especially if na juju woman d wife be).....just for stupid fun.....not even good cash sef! Tell her say her case dey God court!

I won't be suprised if this babe is a serious church girl O.... Some Winners and Christ Embassy girls come to mind! I see them all around. Its now a trend. Karma is a biaaatch! Una turn dey come and e go be double portion. Causing heartbreak to a family just 4 fun! Mscheeeew.

E no good, we know. But don't curse anybody, thanks.

claireshan: Well its not ryt at all to dste married men,u are bringing course upon urself,,reasons cos one day u will defnitely get married nd sumone else will do day to u,nd dnt dnt get jealous abt it cos dats wats u asked for,,,,though sum single guys of dis day dnt take up dis responsibilities as d bf,,bt its gud to be independent cos if u are u wunt give a Bleep abt dat

Nice one. And to add to this, i will advice ladies in my opinion to allow a considerable age gap between them and the guy they go out with.

I recommend a minimum of 8 years gap so that the guy will have lots of time to get established and be ready for marriage.

In Nigeria, the economy situation does not allow a twenty something guy to get his bearing as most guys in this category are either still in school, jobless or not yet established in life hence they still see ladies as second priorities and portray this UN-seriousness towards you.

If you date a guy that is just about 3 years older and when you are 18 he is 21, you are sure to get frustrated later because at 26, he will still likely be struggling to establish and this may get you frustrated. And most times, when this guy will be ready to settle down, he may likely dump you and go for a much younger lady.

But at 18, if you date a guy that is say 25/26, by the time you are 25 i believe that the guys should be fairly or well established and you are moist likely to get married to him.

My 50cents though

9jaSceptic:

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Toks2008:

I think its because they are Hopeless, have low self esteem and are definitely possessed by a demon of lust and madness.

I think its sickening to imagine a lady leaving billions of single men to be with a man who will just use them and if they say its because of money then i understand the leech mentality of many Nigerian ladies.

Believe me friends, women are definitely the first wonder of the world. How i wish i can do without a woman. 99.9999% of ladies are indecent and clueless. I advice guys to just close their eyes and choose one, Teat her like a queen and try to be faithful to her or keep your unfaithfulness a mystery to her but even if you treat like an angel, still expect the worst surprise from her. GOD HELP US.

99% of ladies these days deserve no bride price because bride price is for virgins and not for wayward bitches that have been screwed by countless number of guys and i pity us most times when i see the way we spend so much on wedding ceremony to a thouroughly used and dumped lady.

Guys are vexing...

Yes

Why?
Girls mumu to d extent they believe married as mugu..i can get whatever i want frm him...and married men are so foolixh of dating dem cuz of wetin dem go chop u knw d xes thing

Married men have "tested and trusted dicck" to pound hell outta those single ladies pusssies unlike single dudes thus thier eagerness to to fucck married men diccks

GeneralShepherd:

Nairaland you see my point! How can a lady be with this kind of married man and say he is matured? Odikwa egwu!

Bro better face your wife she needs to give you basic home training that you obviously lack

may God give me the grace not to answer this L-U-N-A-T-I-C again

Toks2008:

Nice one. And to add to this, i will advice ladies in my opinion to allow a considerable age gap between them and the guy they go out with.

I recommend a minimum of 8 years gap so that the guy will have lots of time to get established and be ready for marriage.

In Nigeria, the economy situation does not allow a twenty something guy to get his bearing as most guys in this category are either still in school, jobless or not yet established in life hence they still see ladies as second priorities and portray this UN-seriousness towards you.

If you date a guy that is just about 3 years older and when you are 18 he is 21, you are sure to get frustrated later because at 26, he will still likely be struggling to establish and this may get you frustrated. And most times, when this guy will be ready to settle down, he may likely dump you and go for a much younger lady.

But at 18, if you date a guy that is say 25/26, by the time you are 25 i believe that the guys should be fairly or well established and you are moist likely to get married to him.

My 50cents though

bt seriouxly its gettin out of hand,,,our young single ladies can't even save dia pride nd respect dia selves. Once u hvv cash,,hmm dey wouldn't mind dating an old man old enough to be dia fada,,I pity sum gurls shaaa cos d more u are sleepn wit a married man d more u are blockin ur own future marriage and u will even be gettin old more dan ur age mates

adorable29: Wooow! What is this world turning to! You sell your conscience, your moral, your dignity, your personality and your soul, your destiny (especially if na juju woman d wife be).....just for stupid fun.....not even good cash sef! Tell her say her case dey God court!

I won't be suprised if this babe is a serious church girl O.... Some Winners and Christ Embassy girls come to mind! I see them all around. Its now a trend. Karma is a biaaatch! Una turn dey come and e go be double portion. Causing heartbreak to a family just 4 fun! Mscheeeew.

Shattap na u holy pass. Only ur last 3 sentences made little sense, stop beefing churches and get a life.

If you think dating a married man is for fun then I guess your version of fun is a grave joke. Death is calling you

WRONG WILL STILL REMAIN WRONG TILL 2099


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PEOPLE LAY UP CURSES FOR THEMSELVES BY ALLOWING THE DEVIL TO RULE THEIR SENSES.

HOPE SHE REPENTS AND TURNS AWAY FROM THAT LIFE.

i will like to view ds from d spiritual aspect. Has d lady claimed dt she Is nt benefittin anytin frm d relationshp. She mit b benefitin frm d man spiritually by tappin from d man's glory. U cn neva undarate all ds ladies, most of dem r spiritually superior to man. i believe she knws wat she Is doin. B4 u realise wat Is goin on, d man ll b feelin d impact in his entire life.

Sex is marriage

Ephesians 5:31: As the Scriptures say, "A man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife and the two are united into one"

Many ladies have become ONE with so many men(When sexual inercourse takes place) before ever getting joined together to one(When the marital knot is tied whether you chose the traditional marriage,Church/mosque marriage or legal marriage)

But the Devil has manipulated our sense of reasoning and you see a lady parading herself as unmarried even after been laid by several men and we now spend so much organising wedding ceremonies with ladies who have been thouroughly used and dumped by many men.

Must a lady open her legs for a man simply because they are having an affair?

I believe parents should start telling their daughters from younf age that before they marry any man, virginity test will be carried out on them and if they are found out not to be one, no marriage ceremony of any kind will be conducted for her.

Maybe this will make our daughters keep their legs closed against all odds until their wedding night. hence reduce the arrant Nonsense seen today.

adorable29:

Pastors preachin prosperity all the time, why won't this girls want to prosper by chasing married men for money!

Word.

Coldfeet: Tufiakwa BIG LIE!!! Its all about the mint abeg! Why date an old married man for fvck sake? No! that's what we do with the broke fine young studs! Dating a married man = to money money and more money!! Shikena.

& who told u all married men are old? face d fact n stop all d pretence

latestsunny: i will like to view ds from d spiritual aspect. Has d lady claimed dt she Is nt benefittin anytin frm d relationshp. She mit b benefitin frm d man spiritually by tappin from d man's glory. U cn neva undarate all ds ladies, most of dem r spiritually superior to man. i believe she knws wat she Is doin. B4 u realise wat Is goin on, d man ll b feelin d impact in his entire life.

Many dont even know that sex is a covenant.

When you make love to someone with any form of evil spirit, you automatically share the number of the spirits.

When you make love to someone with nymphomaniac spirit, you suddenly get it in you and whatever it is that the person has, whether it is good-luck, bad-luck, curses and so on, you share it.

This is why many success stories take a nose dive after illicit affairs takes place.