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Re: Should Sex Really Wait Until Marriage. A Case For Both Sides. by Havilah93(m): 6:28pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
Each to his or her own opinion. Nobody is forcing anything on anyone. The truth has been told. Do what is right! 2 Likes |
Re: Should Sex Really Wait Until Marriage. A Case For Both Sides. by mayor007(m): 6:29pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
Pre-marital sex is one of the causes of the World's major problems. 1 Like |
Re: Should Sex Really Wait Until Marriage. A Case For Both Sides. by Waspy(m): 6:36pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
Seems we can't get enough of this topic. Maybe we shld first trash out what we all mean by Sex because i think a lot of us ( esp Males) see Deep kissing/ Smo.oching, Light Rom.ancing, Fing.ering and all those other things, asides penetration has normal and shldn't or can't be counted as Sex per say. I think its best we first define what Sex is, where it starts/ stops and all what it entails. 1 Like |
Re: Should Sex Really Wait Until Marriage. A Case For Both Sides. by dotcomnamename: 6:40pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
Matthew briggs: Why you shouldn't wait for Sex Until Marriage [size=30pt]Heyyy, very simple to agree with you, but on one condition,: Can you swear with God, Shango, Ogun, Shopono, Obatala, and Instant Death that u won't run from a man if u discover he is an impotent man after you got married to him and maybe you've waited for 3 to 5 years or not.. Oya Swear.......[/size] 3 Likes
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Re: Should Sex Really Wait Until Marriage. A Case For Both Sides. by Waspy(m): 6:40pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
To be realistic (Lying will make me more of a Sinner), Can a normal guy trully love a girl, say a chick like Genny or Mercy Johnson or Beyonce or K. kardash.......e.t.c and not imagine or attempt to go sensually physical with her? I don't think its possible in this age. Imagining it already makes a man a sinner sef. Make God give more grace sha, all spirits are truly willing oo |
Re: Should Sex Really Wait Until Marriage. A Case For Both Sides. by tensor77(m): 6:43pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
Waspy: Cos, to be realistic (Lying will make me more of a Sinner), Can a guy trully love a girl, say a chick like Genny or Mercy Johnson or Beyonce or K. kardash.......e.t.c and not imagine or attempt to go sensually physical with her?Confused Wasp. There is a difference between lust and love you know. |
Re: Should Sex Really Wait Until Marriage. A Case For Both Sides. by zeongeon: 6:45pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
Na wa ooh......this sex off a thing has really made pple blind.....if sex before marriage meant a blissful marriage why do pple still break up with very good sex partners, divorce and cheat on their spouses...there is more to marriage than sex..u can claim to enjoy the sex after testing but the person or babe may not even b happy with ur performance and some babes that are desperate will close eyes marry u and b getting D..I..C..K outside..how has ur testing helped u...some men even father kids that are not their's....one should put his/her mind on other challenges that could arise in marriage cos sex dis days is so cheap and shouldn't b considered d worst problem that can arise in marriage CAUTION: when pple tend to go against God's constitution they invite problems |
Re: Should Sex Really Wait Until Marriage. A Case For Both Sides. by tensor77(m): 6:46pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
dotcom_na_me_na_me:Dumb poster asking daft questions and revealing his fetish inclinations. What concerns you with what happens after a couple is married? How does that concern you in any way shape or form. If the couple are really Christians they know what to do anyway. |
Re: Should Sex Really Wait Until Marriage. A Case For Both Sides. by DMainMan: 7:05pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
leatherman: This is an over-flogged topic on NL lately, but I don't mind taking some time to comment because, THE TRUTH CANNOT BE OVER-EMPHASIZED. Nyc 1. Sex afta marriage ni o |
Re: Should Sex Really Wait Until Marriage. A Case For Both Sides. by teemy(m): 7:23pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
i am really pleased with reading sister ngokafor's testimony. God bless you dear. keep your resolve and help others achieve same. God bless you all. |
Re: Should Sex Really Wait Until Marriage. A Case For Both Sides. by tensor77(m): 7:28pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
teemy: i am really pleased with reading sister ngokafor's testimony. God bless you dear. keep your resolve and help others achieve same. God bless you all.Silly TEEMY SPOUTING HYPOCRISY get a life man and stop fornicating |
Re: Should Sex Really Wait Until Marriage. A Case For Both Sides. by teemy(m): 7:29pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
i came into this world not knowing how to put on a vcr, use the computer or play soccer but learning made the input chips of the almighty activated. all things can be learnt by s/he who wills, but there is a time and a place for all things |
Re: Should Sex Really Wait Until Marriage. A Case For Both Sides. by tensor77(m): 7:29pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
teemy: i am really pleased with reading sister ngokafor's testimony. God bless you dear. keep your resolve and help others achieve same. God bless you all.STUPID TEEMY SPOUTING HYPOCRISY get a life man and stop fornicating |
Re: Should Sex Really Wait Until Marriage. A Case For Both Sides. by tensor77(m): 7:32pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
teemy: i came into this world not knowing how to put on a vcr, use the computer or play soccer but learning made the input chips of the almighty activated. all things can be learnt by s/he who wills, but there is a time and a place for all thingsHypocrite GET A LIFE. How does the life you live correspond with your words? |
Re: Should Sex Really Wait Until Marriage. A Case For Both Sides. by teemy(m): 7:32pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
tensor77:hello friend. since when did sleeping with one's wife become fornication? guess you made a wrong conclusion. no hard feelings ore |
Re: Should Sex Really Wait Until Marriage. A Case For Both Sides. by yhemster(m): 7:37pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
I respect the writers point on both side even though it very obvious that he's pro-abstinence. I agree with almost everyones point of view expect those hypocrites who always claim that the bible is against this 'sex before marriage' and that.... For your information the bible is against so many things that we easily find ourself doing nowadays (lying, cheating/stealing) and there is no classification or ranking of sin; but as religious as we are, we tends to judge others who commit sin that we aren't guilty of yet. For example, you all can imagine the judgmental attitude we have when its obvious that ur friend get pregnant outside wedlocks or stole something and get caught. I believe that we are all survivals (who we are today) by his grace, and everybody has a different level of grace in different endeavors just as we are have different weaknesses. Sex is just 15-20% of what make ur marriages, its getting over-rated with this everyday discussion. Once you are married you will understand what I am talking about. Lets there be more discussion of planning and building a successful Marriage (family) in terms of relationship with inlaws, old/new friends, neighbors, children and finances. These factors are good determinant for successful Matrimony. Abeg let "Sex and Marriage discussion" get pullover off this forum (especially the front page) 1 Like |
Re: Should Sex Really Wait Until Marriage. A Case For Both Sides. by tensor77(m): 7:37pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
teemy: hello friend. since when did sleeping with one's wife become fornication? guess you made a wrong conclusion. no hard feelings oreAll your CODED posts here do indicate you have engaged in fornication.. But if you are now TRULY married then all well and good. |
Re: Should Sex Really Wait Until Marriage. A Case For Both Sides. by EmmyDe25(m): 7:45pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
Lucky gurl: That was a very nice evalaution from an unbiased perspective.You fit swear by the grave of your ancestors sey you still be virgin? Practice what you preach! |
Re: Should Sex Really Wait Until Marriage. A Case For Both Sides. by teemy(m): 7:47pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
tensor77:thanks love. |
Re: Should Sex Really Wait Until Marriage. A Case For Both Sides. by drnoel: 7:49pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
[size=28pt]To ur tent oh Isreal[/size] |
Re: Should Sex Really Wait Until Marriage. A Case For Both Sides. by Gabrielsylar(m): 7:50pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
@op d evil in u still more dan d good |
Re: Should Sex Really Wait Until Marriage. A Case For Both Sides. by Smily202(m): 8:03pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
Hmmmmmmmmmm. .....Everyone is entitle to his/her opinion.........Me ..I stand with my mind..... |
Re: Should Sex Really Wait Until Marriage. A Case For Both Sides. by Matthewbriggs(m): 8:10pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
yhemster: I respect the writers point on both side even though it very obvious that he's pro-abstinence. I agree with almost everyones point of view expect those hypocrites who always claim that the bible is against this 'sex before marriage' and that.... For your information the bible is against so many things that we easily find ourself doing nowadays (lying, cheating/stealing) and there is no classification or ranking of sin; but as religious as we are, we tends to judge others who commit sin that we aren't guilty of yet. For example, you all can imagine the judgmental attitude we have when its obvious that ur friend get pregnant outside wedlocks or stole something and get caught. I believe that we are all survivals (who we are today) by his grace, and everybody has a different level of grace in different endeavors just as we are have different weaknesses.+1 i could"nt help it i had to quote this guy. + VIST THIS THREAD https://www.nairaland.com/1550867/making-love-raising-family |
Re: Should Sex Really Wait Until Marriage. A Case For Both Sides. by dotcomnamename: 8:33pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
tensor77: You accusation is not even commensurate with my post, so obviously you're either drunk or on drugs! I sorry for you! 1 Like |
Re: Should Sex Really Wait Until Marriage. A Case For Both Sides. by prettylydia: 8:43pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
[color=#990000][/color] Vikta10: this topic reminds me of asticker I saw somtym bak lemme jus quote, "if am not suppose to have sex before marriage, why do I get an er**tion. Very lame post....infact so so dumb... Funny enough he will be feeling like he just made a reasonable comment...thewwwww |
Re: Should Sex Really Wait Until Marriage. A Case For Both Sides. by Waspy(m): 8:52pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
tensor77:those two are siamese bro 1 Like |
Re: Should Sex Really Wait Until Marriage. A Case For Both Sides. by rasqie4me(m): 8:53pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
Daughter Of A Former Oyo State Governor Kemi Olunloyo Insults Pastor Adeboye Aga by rasqie4me(m): 8:49pm Controversial activist, Kemi Omolulo-Olunloyo, daughter of a former Oyo state governor, Victor Omololu Olunloyo is in the news again, and this time she talks about Pastor E.A Adeboye. She took hear Facebook page with over 22,000 followers to warn the people about the upcoming visit of Pastor. see full gist here....http://clicknewznigeria..com/2013/12/daughter-of-former-oyo-state-governor.html |
Re: Should Sex Really Wait Until Marriage. A Case For Both Sides. by SavoG(f): 9:29pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
Dis married ppl wit bfs nd gfs. Dis married virgins dat cant give birth. Dis married women who tk k of their children alone while their husband is always drunk nd beatin them. Its not weda u wait or u dnt. Its God! If pastor chris okotie can divorce his wife, then tell me y evryting needs not God's help to work. Marry a virgin wit a bad character nd u'll knw wadup! |
Re: Should Sex Really Wait Until Marriage. A Case For Both Sides. by teemy(m): 9:40pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
#lessontoall if someone regrets the past and tries to turn a new leaf, oblige them rather that trying to rub it in. learnt the hard way when the sins of those i was accusing became my temptations on a silver platter. #teamjudgenot 1 Like |
Re: Should Sex Really Wait Until Marriage. A Case For Both Sides. by Lordlexyy: 10:11pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
zeongeon: Na wa ooh......this sex off a thing has really made pple blind.....if sex before marriage meant a blissful marriage why do pple still break up with very good sex partners, divorce and cheat on their spouses...there is more to marriage than sex..u can claim to enjoy the sex after testing but the person or babe may not even b happy with ur performance and some babes that are desperate will close eyes marry u and b getting D..I..C..K outside..how has ur testing helped u...some men even father kids that are not their's....one should put his/her mind on other challenges that could arise in marriage cos sex dis days is so cheap and shouldn't b considered d worst problem that can arise in marriageCan't agree with you less. Godless and emotionaly thriving society will seek ways to justify and enthrone just about anything for fleshy passion. The society is wrecked today, vices is on the increase, immorality is on the high due to sexual expedition. Like it or not, so many evil past and present is link to unwarranted sex. Though, virginity doesnot equate respect, responsibility and good character, but the self worth, confidence and psychological balance that comes with it is enomours. However you paint it, especially the ladies, the emotional trauma and the indecisiveness to stick with the wrong guy is a huge lost that will take divine intervention to get bail. 1 Like |
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