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My Fear Of Marriage by truth2: 7:02pm On Aug 02, 2008 |
is it just me or other men out there are also adversed to the idea of settling down with 1(one) woman? |
Re: My Fear Of Marriage by Nobody: 7:04pm On Aug 02, 2008 |
Lmao!!! |
Re: My Fear Of Marriage by studio43(m): 7:13pm On Aug 02, 2008 |
keep it single for life then, |
Re: My Fear Of Marriage by truth2: 7:32pm On Aug 02, 2008 |
am a recent graduate, and my galfriend has already started putting pressure on me,asking me questions like: "what is the future of this relationship?" "are u serious with me"? i love her but , |
Re: My Fear Of Marriage by Gonorrhea(m): 7:33pm On Aug 02, 2008 |
@poster marriage no be by force naw! getting cold feet at the thoughts of marriage |
Re: My Fear Of Marriage by Okijajuju1(m): 7:36pm On Aug 02, 2008 |
play the feild till you are satisfied then pick a girl and have kids, period. |
Re: My Fear Of Marriage by Hannibal: 7:37pm On Aug 02, 2008 |
truth2: U love her but what. . . . . It seems u don't really know what u want. . . If she pressures u, tell her to slow down cos u belong to her. |
Re: My Fear Of Marriage by onyinye2(f): 7:39pm On Aug 02, 2008 |
so OP, why did you make a big emphasis to being married to (one) chic? are you looking to marry multiple wives? is that why you are apprehensive? |
Re: My Fear Of Marriage by rubi(f): 7:40pm On Aug 02, 2008 |
Hannibal: How can she know without commitment? |
Re: My Fear Of Marriage by Hannibal: 7:44pm On Aug 02, 2008 |
rubi: There are other ways of showing commitment than tossing a ring to every woman a guy meets. Pressure only sends the wrong signals that she is DESPERATE. Men don't like that(at all)! |
Re: My Fear Of Marriage by rubi(f): 8:02pm On Aug 02, 2008 |
Hannibal: Tossing a ring is the only language a woman understand you know anything can happen anytime and it becomes "to your tent oh Isreal" [b][/b] who is the looser the woman because years has been wasted. most men give women false impression standing at the door go in no come out no |
Re: My Fear Of Marriage by Hannibal: 8:05pm On Aug 02, 2008 |
rubi: No wonder many women are left stranded in the Church on their wedding days. Now i know why men do such stuffs. . . . . Thanx for telling me a woman only understands the ring language. . . . Tiffanys should be expecting me next week. |
Re: My Fear Of Marriage by rubi(f): 8:11pm On Aug 02, 2008 |
Hannibal: If you are in this womans shoe what will you do? |
Re: My Fear Of Marriage by Hannibal: 8:14pm On Aug 02, 2008 |
rubi: I will try and make maself better for ma boy/f. Do the things he likes seeing and leave the rest to the Almighty. I still cannot understand why some women cannot read their men. Men are so easy to decipher. . . . . |
Re: My Fear Of Marriage by onyinye2(f): 8:16pm On Aug 02, 2008 |
Hannibal:You are lying like a rug. do you actually think all this you just said really works? |
Re: My Fear Of Marriage by rubi(f): 8:17pm On Aug 02, 2008 |
onyinye2: You can say that again |
Re: My Fear Of Marriage by truth2: 8:18pm On Aug 02, 2008 |
"ring tossing",c'mon,marriage is more than dat,a woman should know dat @ the rite time a man will propose,sending signals and issuing threats will only increase the pressure |
Re: My Fear Of Marriage by onyinye2(f): 8:20pm On Aug 02, 2008 |
truth2:So what do you say to the chic who's has been with her man for 6 years? Don't you think that the girl should at least be sending some signals about marriage? |
Re: My Fear Of Marriage by rubi(f): 8:21pm On Aug 02, 2008 |
Hannibal: Personally I don't believe in bothering a man for marriage but men play games too much |
Re: My Fear Of Marriage by onyinye2(f): 8:22pm On Aug 02, 2008 |
rubi:so true. |
Re: My Fear Of Marriage by Hannibal: 8:30pm On Aug 02, 2008 |
onyinye2: Lying?? U sometimes take the piss. A man that's meant for u will always be for u. . . .U don't need any strategy or pressure to make him walk the aisle with you. So why stress urself. . . . .Do ur best, let God handle the rest. rubi: Women play games too. |
Re: My Fear Of Marriage by rubi(f): 8:32pm On Aug 02, 2008 |
truth2: If you love her you will not see it as a threat rather you tell her you are not ready or you can marry and decide not to have knids till when you are ready for that if you guys are have been leaving together for like five years then what stops you from doing little marriage rights |
Re: My Fear Of Marriage by rubi(f): 8:34pm On Aug 02, 2008 |
Hannibal: But in this case she is the one that wants the guy I don't think she is playing any game |
Re: My Fear Of Marriage by lechatte(f): 8:35pm On Aug 02, 2008 |
If you are afraid of marriage,it might mean you are not ready to settle down.Best let your girl know so she won't be wasting her time with you if marriage is her goal. |
Re: My Fear Of Marriage by rubi(f): 8:37pm On Aug 02, 2008 |
lechatte: thats true, instead of giving false impression |
Re: My Fear Of Marriage by Okijajuju1(m): 8:38pm On Aug 02, 2008 |
@ Poster Dont worry my brother, chicks have the tendency to start panicking as soon as they are approaching 25. She is trying to trap you. Just keep posting her for as long as it takes you to be ready to make a decision. Youu just graduated, the world is yours for the taking. Dont commit to her o!! lest she get all pshchopatic on your ass when you finally dump her for a much hotter and younger chick. You might think you are in ove now, but just wait till you see what on the outside. Your fear is well placed, If she asks you bout the future of the relationship again, just tell her to wait till tomorrow and see. |
Re: My Fear Of Marriage by Hannibal: 8:40pm On Aug 02, 2008 |
rubi: She wants a fresh graduate to commit?? Why can't women be realistic for once. . . .This dude is still trying to find his feet. Let him get a job first. . . .lay a solid foundation before u begin to drill his head with marriage thunks. |
Re: My Fear Of Marriage by onyinye2(f): 8:41pm On Aug 02, 2008 |
lechatte:True but the guy should atleast be up front with the woman. Tell her he aint ready to be married to her yet. It is better that way then having the woman's hopes up thinking that you are about to marry her. |
Re: My Fear Of Marriage by rubi(f): 8:48pm On Aug 02, 2008 |
Hannibal: what is a fresh graduate looking for in a lady that is ready for marriage just bang and say goodbye |
Re: My Fear Of Marriage by Nobody: 8:50pm On Aug 02, 2008 |
Hannibal:Roflmao, gosh you are a joker to behold, my goodness |
Re: My Fear Of Marriage by Hannibal: 8:51pm On Aug 02, 2008 |
rubi: My dayz. . . . . .Did u really say that?? God forbid, if this guy misplaces his priority and puts the babe in the family way, women would be complaining that she was made to suffer. Everything should be planned out . . . . U would be surprised that the babe in question is still an undergraduate. I don't know why most of em are in a hurry these days. U meet a babe and within a month, she is showing u the kinda wedding dress she wants. |
Re: My Fear Of Marriage by Nobody: 8:52pm On Aug 02, 2008 |
@poster you thinking of settling wiv 2 women then? |
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