I've been part of the Committe of Friends for two weddings now...contemplating on declining a third request. So before I take the decision, I wanna know what y'all think of it.

Here's the thing, the first one I was part of, the to-be couples specifically asked us to help them raise money amongst ourselves to help them with the wedding. Now this is added to the job of handling the logistics of the wedding day et all.

This recent one again, I didn't attend two previous meetings but got an sms with a hormongous amount of money to contribute for the wedding.

Is the right thing? What is the actual job of Comm of Friends? Looks like the trend now is to get people to sponsor your wedding financially.

NB: Trashy posters are highly welcome!