It was a saturday morning, guys were not busy. I came across a company of three guys, we were chating. At a point were there seems to be nothing to talk about, you can guess that the next topic will be girls girls girls, but, this one got narrowed to one particular path, SEX.

The first guy exclaimed with delight, "its been a year since i had sex." I was surprise to hear that knowing i never had sex, i taught it was a funny statement and should'nt be talked about until the second person replied, "your own na play, e don reach two years wey i no do am." It's obvious they were hungry for more. But then, the third guy said, "i did it twice withen the last four months and i dont know if i can do without it."

Hmmm! I stood speechless like a spectator seating in front of a screen. The taughts of what i will contribute about the topic kept bordering me. I wonder how there reaction will be when the realise i am a virgin. "I will be a laughing stock," i said to my self.

The kept talking while i listen since am not a guru in dat field. What surprise me most is that, the third guy wished he was still a virgin, he even went on to say he would advice any virgin to keep his or her virginity because when they loose it, its going to be the begining of a new era in their life.

So many questions kept coming to my mine and i wonder, relating to the third guy's final statement, is that how those who loose there virginity feel? Do they ever wish to be virgins again? Does ending one's virginity means one will keep hustling for sex?

Being a virgin isn't easy cus when the thoughts of sex arouse you fill like giving it a go. Its not easy to resist unless you re single and that i am. The immagination of how sweet sex is keep tempting, and the fear of not having the experience to satisfying your wife after marriage, which often create problems in marriages today kept
bordering.

In need of advice felas, cus i fill like throwing it all away.

ok

homeboy205: ok

ok isn't just enough. Ur advice will be better.

I wud advice u go with wat d third guy said,and u knw it also depends on u as a person,watsoeva advice u recieve on dis forum wudn't change anytin,make up on ur mind,if u wana lose go ahead,and if u don't want 2,don't!






My advice
Life is nt all abt s*x,pple that claim they can't do without s*x 2day has once done without it(datz wen they aven't tasted it)itz wen u taste it 2 much u get addicted 2 it,find other tinz doing,u can av a gf,love ha,care 4 ha don't s*x ha,sum pple say love is s*x and s*x is love bt i don't blieve dat,i blieve love and understanding is everytin u need in a relationship!!i once read a thread on Nl wen an op said love brings two pple bt s*x binds them 2gether,i cudn't laff,s*x 2 me is jst lyk d law of diminishing marginal utility,d level satisfaction gotten 4rm it wud eventually drop one day!!

First, you should know this, the fact that you haven't had s.ex before doesn't mean you won't be able to please your wife.

Also, you're a guy & a lot of guys tend to lose their virginity early so if you're more than 18 & still a virgin, you might feel inferior but don't let peer pressure decide your life for you.


But ultimately, just do what you feel is the right thing to do. Stay safe, use "raincoat"

Op. Dnt evn knw wat to say to u. How old are u?

Are u a male or female?

Go and read ur Bible op. Resist the temptation as always. And most importantly, stay single.

U know, I laugh at guys who av sex and later say the girl is an 'animashaun'. Truth is if u know what uve lost after sex, u'll cry and won't get it back.

Last bullet: Sex is a spiritual transaction. Run for ur life!!!!!

@op. Its not easy to remain a virgin especially when you've been having many opportunities. Just imagine if ladies walk around you with skimpy clothes.

But you should tell yourself the truth. Why do you want to remain a virgin ? If your motive is right, that is to pls the Lord, then keep it till marriage.
There's so much promiscuity in our generation.

u don't av 2 depend on what anyone says to know what u should do, know what u want nd stick to it

Spedy: The immagination of how sweet sex is keep tempting, and the fear of not having the experience to satisfying your wife after marriage, which often create problems in marriages today kept
bordering.

In need of advice felas, cus i fill like throwing it all away.

Sex is an instinct just like bre@st feeding. Who taught you as a baby how to suck your mom's bre@st? Sex is not rocket science. As a virgin you can do it well when you are married.

Zip up until marriage!!

FOOl see watin u dey ask

Blessedman58: FOOl see watin u dey ask

y d insult na?nawao 4 u oh

Harbosede02: I wud advice u go with wat d third guy said,and u knw it also depends on u as a person,watsoeva advice u recieve on dis forum wudn't change anytin,make up on ur mind,if u wana lose go ahead,and if u don't want 2,don't!






My advice
Life is nt all abt s*x,pple that claim they can't do without s*x 2day has once done without it(datz wen they aven't tasted it)itz wen u taste it 2 much u get addicted 2 it,find other tinz doing,u can av a gf,love ha,care 4 ha don't s*x ha,sum pple say love is s*x and s*x is love bt i don't blieve dat,i blieve love and understanding is everytin u need in a relationship!!i once read a thread on Nl wen an op said love brings two pple bt s*x binds them 2gether,i cudn't laff,s*x 2 me is jst lyk d law of diminishing marginal utility,d level satisfaction gotten 4rm it wud eventually drop one day!!

when would you learn how to write properly and make statements like an adult?

Olugbenger:

when would you learn how to write properly and make statements like an adult?

u knw,there is natin wrong if u correct any mistake in my statement.

Harbosede02: u knw,there is natin wrong if u correct any mistake in my statement.

That's true, i agree. But i don't mean the typos or mistakes which are normal.

21. Please spell words correctly when you post, and try to use perfect grammar and punctuation.

Olugbenger:

That's true, i agree. But i don't mean the typos or mistakes which are normal.

motigbo

Can someone summarise what the fella post up there?anyway if truly u are still a virgin in this age and time.....U should be ashamed of yourself.

Womanitarian: Can someone summarise what the fella post up there?anyway if truly u are still a virgin in this age and time.....U should be ashamed of yourself.

R u kidding me?

Funny thread. My first experience as a virgin was glorious. A virgin can still satisfy a woman on bed. What matters is how exposed you are

abeeeegi.new year tins on my mind.

OP! No mind dem...all dem babes and dudes..nobody will ever tell yu dey have sex..dey wl all tell yu to stay virgin..
somebodi loves you!
OP, I take God swear, I'm also a virgin...sex is like alcohol...yu get high..d feeln wl soon go down..and d whole drama doesn't make sense anymore..
Somebodi's Advice






Romance is good..sex is bad (till marriage)
Romance is good..sex is bad (till marriage)
Romance is good..sex is bad (till marriage)

Read your Bible more. Get closer to God.

Its best you make the right decision as regards your sexual life. The ball lies in your court. You need to choose between the options you have got,besides i feel its a personal issue. All you have to do is make your choice......all the best!

D 3rd guy knows ur a V.I understand how u feel,bliv me,d moment is gon come soon....grab it! I was once in ur shoes but now nigga can't count d legit and em hoe*s

Be like me, I am still a virgin and loving it.

Womanitarian: Can someone summarise what the fella post up there?anyway if truly u are still a virgin in this age and time.....U should be ashamed of yourself.

Sharappp...!!
If u gat nothing sensible to say,BOUNCE..!

Nigg.a go and get some pussay for ur own good

All i can say to you now is that everything that God made is good, if you want to keep your virginity its ok, and if you want to lose it its equally fine but if only you can lose it to me.
Thanks baby.

If u r tired then fcck a puzzy na, abi na a**hole u want? A fellow man? Ogbeni dat na 14yrs for naija oh! Dnt go there.