cidieschat: I strongly believe this generation of girls will look for husbands even more than ever... Becos of too much high standards. Learn to knw the age @ which u stop flirting, learn to knw when is the perfect time for marriage, the mistakes girls make is to see a guy who truly loves and address him as a client. Extortion becomes the order of the day, ever wondered why women in banks, high-class offices remain mostly single all there life, its cos they unconsciously build a wall around themselves, when u do so, men feel you're too big for them, and trust me, every man wants a submissive woman.

These days too many men hawk, hustle out of school cos of no money and educational support, ask ur self, who will marry all the highly educated girls?

Bear in mind a man who is wealthy, will rarely value u, cos he knows he's money is an asset, he feels u're attracted to his popularity and money. These are most problems u find in homes, wealthy women, bt no joy. So if u feel u're waiting for Dangote's son to come marry u, then u might wait for ever. All u need do is put this men through little test and u'll know if they are what having as husbands. I might tell u how, I've been through such... 28A77016-thats my pin.

Vivly: So, why you drop your bb pin?

adeola_drg: Everything is very bad now. Wife materials are scarce to come by, the girls of this age are not submissive. They don't know the meaning of equity.

Marriage is overrated jor, e koshi!!!

cidieschat: If u like don't take lessons, take the post personal. Every saturday ugly girls marry, and the pretty ones doing the Ashebi as usual.

stefikal: @OP: I don't get ur point...
So we should not be learned uhn?
The last time I checked education does not kill your character.
If you like go school, the bad character will still remain and if you are good, your good attitude will still reflect.
Please don't hitch the blame on education.
#CaseClosed

cidieschat: If u like don't take lessons, take the post personal. Every saturday ugly girls marry, and the pretty ones doing the Ashebi as usual.

Vivly: So, why you drop your bb pin?

he wants cuties like you to add him up

cidieschat: @Padeolu, not yet... Am only 24. This modern world man de find wife?

cidieschat: @Padeolu, not yet... Am only 24. This modern world man de find wife?

mayorall: Some girls have decided never to marry a man without car.smh

cidieschat: If u like don't take lessons, take the post personal. Every saturday ugly girls marry, and the pretty ones doing the Ashebi as usual.

Temihatz: What i think @OP is trying to say is for girls to get married soon b4 is too late. Marrying immediately after Bsc or PGD is cool and the decision of whether to further will be btw u both as a couple. I know some friends of my aunt that's still single @ their late 30s reason because they carried this education thing on their head like wyclef. They are busy pursuing Msc and PhD which is just too intimidating for the men (of their lower class) who wanna approach them.

I know of a girl who's still planning to get married in 7yrs time, for God sake she's 22 and in her final year. When i asked her why, she said she wanna complete her Msc and PhD and some little time for her self b4 marriage. For me it's rubbish because your suitors will be intimidated esp. when they are of lesser degree.

Finally, I'm not saying girls shouldn't pursue their degrees but always consider different factors because the assumption of Ceteris paribus is not always right.
Have a nice day all

stefikal:

Nobody is taking anything personal, from your post you are obviously trying to blame education.

Its true that some girls set ridiculous standards for themselves but puuleease quit with the generalisation.

A lady who isn't educated can still have terrible attitude. #MyPoint

Temihatz: What i think @OP is trying to say is for girls to get married soon b4 is too late. Marrying immediately after Bsc or PGD is cool and the decision of whether to further will be btw u both as a couple. I know some friends of my aunt that's still single @ their late 30s reason because they carried this education thing on their head like wyclef. They are busy pursuing Msc and PhD which is just too intimidating for the men (of their lower class) who wanna approach them.

I know of a girl who's still planning to get married in 7yrs time, for God sake she's 22 and in her final year. When i asked her why, she said she wanna complete her Msc and PhD and some little time for her self b4 marriage. For me it's rubbish because your suitors will be intimidated esp. when they are of lesser degree.

Finally, I'm not saying girls shouldn't pursue their degrees but always consider different factors because the assumption of Ceteris paribus is not always right.
Have a nice day all

padeolu: Its obvious you're being economical with truth, or you live in a world absolutely opposite to reality.

stefikal:

If the OP had presented his case like this, it coulda been a whole lot better.

Its good for a woman to dream and work towards achieving her dreams but one has got to be realistic.. I have married women in my class, doesn't stop them from pursuing their degrees.

The key is to create a balance in every aspect of ones life.

#I rest my case.




@OP: I get your point now

kulyie: so it is now a crime for a woman to be ambitious :/ or dream big or get to the highest state of her potentials.smh
all these men with internal insecurities and inferiority complex will never cease to amaze me.if her educational ambition is what is intimidating you,you too go and do phd.husband get phd,wife to get phd so no body fit bully anybody case closed,lobatan.
Afterall what a woman can do,a man too should be able to do.
Shiiioorrr

stefikal:

Bros I'm just speaking my mind ooo, I'm sorry if I did not get to say what you'd love to hear...

But that's my opinion