Adaeze003:

I guess girls brought such coments upon themselves. SMH. This is why I encourage girls to learn to be independent! May no guy ever talk about me like this!

vickyO:
Then I believe you aren't a true Christian.

Abstinence is the best remedy to sexual related problems.
Have you ever heard the proverb prevention is better than cure.

I preach and I advocate for abstinence and I practice it.
I don't preach abstinence and ignorance.
Learn and know about sex but don't do the real thang. It might be tempting but don't do it.

And lastly a girl who dates has more tendency of yielding to sexual advances than those who don't.

Just abstain from fun driven relationships and embrace mArriage driven relationships.

Sex is sweet as in sweeeeeet but you have to be real and know that you can't eat your cake and have it.

Les: I don't want to argue much but lemme ask you, how many people do you know are abstaining?? With regards to your answer, tell me crusade on abstinence and protectedsex, which one has yieldedpositve results??

vickyO:

Does that make protected sex better than abstinence?

Abstinence yields more positive result than protective sex. It's just that many people choose protective sex over abstinence.

Adaeze003:

O jeez! Mynd easy jor no need of calling names. Like I said, some girls fall into the wrong hands early. I remember when I was still in secondary school, 15 year olds were already 'dating' 25-30 year old men! Now these old men were just taking advantage of them but how were they to know at that age? At such early stage you can make some girls believe any rubbish and I'm no psychologist but that can affect their reasoning. Our parents didn't even give us appropriate sex education, they just pretended that there was nothing like sex! So the problem isn't inherent stupiditty but rather lack of proper sex education.

Les: then let majority carry the vote, concentrate more on what people chose and stop imposing on them what they didn't choose.

Les: then let majority carry the vote, concentrate more on what people chose and stop imposing on them what they didn't choose.

vickyO:
I am not imposing it on anyone.
At the end of the day it's still a matter of choice.

Even if the world goes premarital, I will not and I will keep advocating for what is best and right.




Or are you scared Ladies won't want to have sex with you?

They will, they plenty sef.
Just leave me to my advocacy, let me liberate those who choose to be liberated.

Les: this is not about me but about the ladies you are talking about that will have sex with me, they can have sex with as much as guys as possible and I don't care if only they do it protected, protected and protected. In chemistry, there's something known as ideal,gasses those ate the gasses that exhibit all the good qualities a gas but guess what?? They don't exist, but rather we have real gases. What am I,saying?? Abstinence is the ideal solution to sex related problems but not the real solution, the real solution is PROTECTION. If I were you, get real, be realistic and forget ideal,and you will see how far you can get in life, the last Time I checked,the ideal,solution to any problem don't EXIST. Get real. And you said if even if the world go premarital, you will still preach abstinence?? I can imagine you against the whole world, that will be one hell of a lost battle, unfortunately, the world is getting premarital, get real before you loose the battle at last.
btw, I kinda had a serious car crash, that's why I don't wanna argue much, if not I'll dig up history and give you an argument you can't refute but I won't and end here by telling you to get real in life, less you

Adaeze003: This thread is taking another turn. Not to be religious but I think to say 'I'm a Christian but I don't care if I sin or not' is just funny and ironic I must say.

And I agree with vicky in all she said @ Lez. Abstinence is a REAL solution. Ideal gases do not exist because the conditions are just IMPOSIBLE and you must know that the 'ideal gas' concept was just brought up to teach us scientific theories plus it is just scientists' version of what gasses should be fromed in an atempt to explain everything. But abstinence is real, people observe it so it is POSSIBLE. It has been there since time immemorial and it will continue to be. Do you believe people still abstain in america of all places? So leave that lost battle talk. Besides I see nothing fun in joining the crowd, I like to be different and life has been fun!

NB. I'm not agaist people doing what they please and like I said no one can impose anything on people, all you can do is state your view. Cheers ma peeps

Dee_man:

@Adaeze, i hardly make comments on most threads but seeing your comments about men makes me wanna educate you about the males.
i. Males are naturally goal get-tars; they live for such. to a man chasing and getting a beautiful girl and sleeping with her is makes him feel more like a man.. its like going into battle and winning. how he wins matters not at that point its the sweet taste of victory that satisfies him. for this sole reason he lives after he gets it, or the drive dies.
ii. Guys dont brag about how many times they have slept with a lady but how many ladies they have slept with. the addiction is not the sex but the game, how good you are depends on how many ladies you have been able to conquer.
iii. When there is more i would post...

Odunharry:

u r ryt...i knw many will read it n afta readng thats all...they will still kp repeatng same thing

Mynd44:

And I wonder if they have brains or vacuum inside their skulls