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Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Adaeze003(f): 7:52pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
kandiikane: I'm just now knowing that there is a difference between a slut and a prostitute 2 Likes |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Joshkeyz(m): 7:55pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
sakaguchi: It depends on the type of girl you're in relationship with.wrong notion about relationship. |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by justplainpaul(m): 7:56pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
Harbosede02: Op,u are daft#no offence,u knw y i said so?cos of d way u tink,wtf!!how dare u generalise!itz nt all naija babes dat ask their guy 4 tinz,every1 has a different way of thinking some gurls tink wen they are dating a guy d guy sud spend all he has on them,while some tink d orda way round!carry out ur research very well next tym b4 u cum hr and start spitting awt trash!if you use space, u go die |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by justplainpaul(m): 7:59pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
Adaeze003:A girl like u, i don't mind giving u 5Million naira cash. Go figure. |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by jakesund(m): 8:00pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
hollandis: blah blah blah brat **thinking aloud *** and there'll be a day when one man would marry this hopeless brat and claim he has a wife... holy Moses help mankind from the likes of this troll 8 Likes |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by kandiikane(m): 8:04pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
Adaeze003: Yea, a slut nyashes for free and a prostitute gets paid. Have you been a slut lately? |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by xynerise: 8:07pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
justplainpaul: A girl like u, i don't mind giving u 5Million naira cash. Go figure.Mugu |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by InvertedHammer: 8:14pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
/ In all, your gf will not dip her hands in your pocket to extract money. Why give and complain? If you cannot afford her...move on! Looking good costs money. If you want your girlfriend to be "fly" , well "good soup na money make am". A girl can only have the most generous boyfriend she can attract. A guy can only have the most beautiful girlfriend he can afford. If you earn N50K in a month and your gf demands for Brazilian hair, Samsung S4, etc. It should be an indication that she does not care about your well-being and you need to move on or trade down. My advice: If you can afford her, keep her ELSE trade down. Most importantly, STOP COMPLAINING! No one is holding a gun to your head to be in a relationship \ 6 Likes |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Supokayos: 8:26pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
Well said. 1 Like |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by monie(f): 8:28pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
[quote author=hollandis] Canada ?where there are prostitutes up and down.They call themselves escorts.Please standard of life in Nigeria and Canada are almost the same[/quote At least they have their jobs defined which is exports, they r known for it, they dnt deny it and r proudly excorts. But in nigeria 8 out of 10 girls r now excorts, or prostitutes or runs girls or just depending on men for money. And when u say standard of life in nigeria and canada r almost thesame, am not even going to have that argument cause I dnt want to derail from topic and no comparisms 4 Likes |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Kei144(m): 8:29pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
One factor no-one has mentioned is IQ. I once read, even here on Nairaland, that the average IQ of Nigerians is 67.That happens to be the cause of Nigeria's poverty. Low IQ leaders cannot move the country towards prosperity. Low IQ citizens are unenterprising. Low IQ youths do follow-follow--they want to be like others, without considering the benefits. Years ago when I was a fresher in a Nigerian university, I and my fellow freshers gathered in a room in a hostel and one of us who claimed to know a lot about girls began to tell us what it took to maintain a girl friend in the university. He listed some of the things people have posted on this thread. I was 18-19 then and I wasn't so financially buoyant and I was very interested in my academics. After hearing what was listed as requirements for maintaining a girl friend in the university, I made up my mind that it means that girl friend was not for me. I actually did a five-year course in the university; there were girls that showed some interest in me, but I never got into any relationship. I was friendly with many, but relationship was no-go. I never minded that other boys had girl friends. It takes reasonable IQ for a person to decide for her/himself what is good for her/him and keep to it no matter what others are doing. 4 Likes |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by PreciousBro: 8:30pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
monie: I have lived in 2 continents, lived in nigeria for 20 something years before living for canada abt 3yrs ago. The difference is clear, first of all there is contentment here, u dnt see poverty steering at u in d face, u dnt see ppl unemployed for months, I live in calgary where there is 2% unemployment, if u loose ur job u file for unemployment benefit where half of your former salary is given to u monthly until u can get another job. You are correct. A nation where you have people bathed with insecurity traits from a fundamental state to its roof stage, mentality such as I must have the best out of nothing(that includes no hard work input and lack of mental development), surely you don't expect the weaker vessel in that said failed society to belong to the pedestal of providers,they would rather feast/pest from the actual providers(male). In any slightest opportunity and manipulate whatever jargons to term it right. A Nation where you have majority of its females striving on this mentality and mind-set for survival than the minority that know what being Independent is in actuality, my dear its safe to generalize that Nigerian women are gold-digging money-leeching prostitutes in this contemporary era. You even see them on here defending it,trying so hard to make it a norm rather than eradicating the pest-like mind-set. Shameful to say the least,I tell you. 6 Likes |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Nobody: 8:31pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
sexylogan: I have had discussions with several of my female acquaintances and work colleagues over the issue of the "Responsibilities" of a boyfriend in a relationship and to my dismay, almost all had the same beliefs. Most of them believed that their boyfriends wer the ones saddled with the responsibilities ofBoth but more of greed inferiority complex |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by incometrader(m): 8:33pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
Wen i see a beautiful girl pass by and that voice says 'go and toast her, u got all d skills'... another voice reminds me 'if she agrees, u'll be d one to pay for her next hair do.' You know wat i do? I keep my f**king skills to myself. @OP, i suggest u do d same and u wont have a problem wit 9ja babes. 3 Likes |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by PreciousBro: 8:44pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
incometrader: Wen i see a beautiful girl pass by and that voice says 'go and toast her, u got all d skills'... another voice reminds me 'if she agrees, u'll be d one to pay for her next hair do.' You know wat i do? I keep my f**king skills to myself. @OP, i suggest u do d same and u wont have a problem wit 9ja babes. In other words,you you equate money to the true criteria to wooing her right ? Well,your skills and good mannerly personality are what is required by just and truth. You are somewhat the male version of the sick mentality of these females. |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by uzornoble: 8:54pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
Dubemkelly: Misplaced priority,not knowing wat dey want,lack of contentment,poverty,self value loss n foolishness |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by PreciousBro: 8:56pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
Men were born to be providers,we would always ignite in us our designating responsibilities,however,when our women see this as a routinely means of survival,problem breeds. You find it a necessary means to foot your astronomical bills, you say he's stingy,not-caring,not-romantic,selfish etc when he can't provide that you selfishly place on him out of reason and logic. Smh for our generation, with this kinds of women we have now as future mothers. lol Omo,I am no bill gate but should I become wealthier ,I certainly won't wife a woman with this disease infected mentality o. 3 Likes |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by IfyAwazie(f): 9:00pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
sexylogan: I have had discussions with several of my female acquaintances and work colleagues over the issue of the "Responsibilities" of a boyfriend in a relationship and to my dismay, almost all had the same beliefs. Most of them believed that their boyfriends wer the ones saddled with the responsibilities ofTo me, Its neither Poverty nor Greed. They lack DIGNITY. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Nobody: 9:01pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
kandiikane:So being in a premarital relatnshp equals premarital sex,is a marital relatnshp possible witout premarital relatnshp or ur mama don promise 2 bring u village gal 2 marry witout courtin? |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by 1stimpression(f): 9:02pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
deeplow: Neither of the two,it is plainly due to wrong orientation and upbringing. I know a girl who is from a wealthy family,and still believes a guy must give her everything. I asked her why,she said that is how it should be,and that's what her mother told her. you right |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Adaeze003(f): 9:05pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
kandiikane: Well not in difinition but rather that one is better than the other. As 4 your question NO. I believe I respect myself too much 4 that. |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by STENON(f): 9:06pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
Av bin followin dis topic for a yl....Let go to d academics part.....Tis so rare n scarce seein a Lady to b leadin d department interms of CGPA.......@times...I ask myself som questns...is dis struglin of bin successful meant for guys alone? Cant We as a Lady contribute our quota 2b sombody?..Pls i'm nt against dis topic bt let combine d two words....Greed plus Poverty...to our academics/our Educational lyf....n let us tink of Avin somtin tangible for our life rada dan dependin on Guys.....Is it a must for u to make expensive hairs....Y nt make ur own natural Hair n luk simple n Respectful?...Must u colect frm Guys in orda to look Big....I beg....To hell wit all D Guys wit deir Money...Ow much can a guy giv to a Workin class lady dat'l b enof.....LADIES ...pls let work harder n change dis nairaland stories to a good one.........We wil all get to our Destined Land.......Ladies...Pls Our Brain is dere....tis nt meant for sign post....Pls let make use of it for a reasonable thought for our Future..... 4 Likes |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by PreciousBro: 9:09pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
Ify Awazie: To me, Its neither Poverty nor Greed. They lack DIGNITY. You are also right. Dignity being one of the many virtues of mankind, womanhood is held in high esteem of these traits. The same way we'd expect out of courtesy and civility to say No to food offered by strangers. You'd be highly respected and more food would even be given to you by this stranger in subsequent contingency. |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by PreciousBro: 9:30pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
Ladies don't get the whole thing wrong, Men are to entice you with whatever they deem fit to lure you to their wooing nest its tradition, even a civilized one at that. However, your notion of disregarding the potentials of goodness in his gesture is what cracks the gallantry bowl. Taking advantage of it by singling out a material of the enticement such as Money is what differs you from good/bad, money is not the paramount item to entice you, his words, his undying and promising affection,love, care, attention, often times, even gifts. Now how you respond to this is the determining factor of his opinion towards you, whether he'd take you serious or not, some men have money and all to entice you, you fall cheap to this and eventually fall in love and he doesn't see you fit to be wifely,you then nag,cry..lol,curse and all ,saying men are this ,men are that.. Wise girls get the ring, wise girls are mannerly upright. They were trained well , they are mentally free and independent not enslaved and dependent. Use your head Nigerian Girls. Smh 1 Like |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by optimism91(m): 10:09pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
feeekey: Sorry wats today's date?04-01-2014 |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Norajones(f): 10:14pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
U collect him say na grred,,u no collect him say anoda man dey take care of u,,WTF |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by silverspring4ev(f): 10:20pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
My frnd stop bn stingy nd do what u re suppose to do as a man. Be realistic,this is 9ja wr guys always want 2 act like d king..."To be a man isn't a day job"(flavour)lolz...buh like serzly I feel loved wen a man spend on me even though I can afford to buy myself anyfin I want... So 4 me,is not a question of greed or poverty. |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Nobody: 10:25pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
STENON: Av bin followin dis topic for a yl....Let go to d academics part.....Tis so rare n scarce seein a Lady to b leadin d department interms of CGPA.......@times...I ask myself som questns...is dis struglin of bin successful meant for guys alone? Cant We as a Lady contribute our quota 2b sombody?..Pls i'm nt against dis topic bt let combine d two words....Greed plus Poverty...to our academics/our Educational lyf....n let us tink of Avin somtin tangible for our life rada dan dependin on Guys.....Is it a must for u to make expensive hairs....Y nt make ur own natural Hair n luk simple n Respectful?...Must u colect frm Guys in orda to look Big....I beg....To hell wit all D Guys wit deir Money...Ow much can a guy giv to a Workin class lady dat'l b enof.....LADIES ...pls let work harder n change dis nairaland stories to a good one.........We wil all get to our Destined Land.......Ladies...Pls Our Brain is dere....tis nt meant for sign post....Pls let make use of it for a reasonable thought for our Future.....Sincery i hope they listen 2u |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by vivalavida(m): 10:34pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
You guys are just wasting your time here. Call them wat u like,from ignorant to greed etc,they dont care. It flies in goes in from one ear and leaves the other. Even if u will elicit any response from them,what u will get is *whatever*. This present generation of girls are da worst to thread on this country Monie,the lady in canada,i loved your contribution to the topic. It was quite expository. Adaeze,kudos to you. 1 Like |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by donem: 10:36pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
Ain't poverty Just one word Greed |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by brightnelly(f): 10:38pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
silverspring4ev: My frnd stop bn stingy nd do what u re suppose to do as a man. Be realistic,this is 9ja wr guys always want 2 act like d king..."To be a man isn't a day job"(flavour)lolz...buh like serzly I feel loved wen a man spend on me even though I can afford to buy myself anyfin I want... So 4 me,is not a question of greed or poverty.so what is it then? |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by optimism91(m): 10:39pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
sexylogan: I have had discussions with several of my female acquaintances and work colleagues over the issue of the "Responsibilities" of a boyfriend in a relationship and to my dismay, almost all had the same beliefs. Most of them believed that their boyfriends wer the ones saddled with the responsibilities ofSome of them are being insighted by their parents. When a mother would ask her (poverty stinking) daughter to ensure she dates or marries a wealthy man. What do we expect. The most annoying part of the whole thing is that some of them demand (not even beg) for these gift and money with impunity. |
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