How do you know that the relationship is real. . .and not just a phase or facade?

When your heart, head and intestines are in perfect sync, that is real

Mynd_44: When your heart, head and intestines are in perfect sync, that is real

intestines? 0.o errmm what. Are u suggesting love is like a bowel movement? LOL

Dietrich92:

intestines? 0.o errmm what. Are u suggesting love is like a bowel movement? LOL

Obviously you can't read between the lines

Mynd_44:
Obviously you can't read between the lines

my bad bro, i thought u were making some sort of joke. . . i get wat u mean

when u re been real to ur self won't u knw?if a girl z real to u,u don't even need any one to tell u that.

Real luv?na ur money.

It's hard to tell when a girl is genuine at times, people in general learn to be manipulative for whatever dishonest reasons.
I am not sure what real love is, I came close to it a couple times but. . .sometimes the spark ain't enough to light the cigar.

I am very honest in what I want in a relationship, but the women I have had previous relationships with weren't [even if they were good spirited]
I do think it's true that having money makes the relationship easier but not stronger.
A relationship based on bread-winning and sex is basically continuous prostitution or as they say in hip hop "tricking".
I never will trick on a female especially for sex, that is a poor decision.

I believe a relationship should have a sense of deeper intuitive connection that is stronger than materialistic/sensual gains. Like a life-long friendship that always sticks through if you can understand?
A certain elegant flow that vibes with it. A sense of oneness and being.