A lot of people have relationships that are up to 2yrs,3yrs,5yrs and even more,,I always wonder how you guys make it possible.the longest relationship I've had was 10 months,and it was like ten yrs to me,,so pls peeps hw do u really do it,,
Pls drop some points if u dnt mind
Let's discuss

The point is that,you must focus on that girl that u date,don't look down on her because you have seen her naked.do things together.prolong relationship is never advisable because girls will be uselessed Α̣̣̥и̣̣̣̥d̶̲̥̅̊ abandoned.don't date when u don't have any intention of marrying soon

mark joshua: The point is that,you must focus on that girl that u date,don't look down on her because you have seen her naked.do things together.prolong relationship is never advisable because girls will be uselessed Α̣̣̥и̣̣̣̥d̶̲̥̅̊ abandoned.don't date when u don't have any intention of marrying soon

@bolded ,do u rili tink dats d coret word to use?

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sweetestguy: A lot of people have relationships that are up to 2yrs,3yrs,5yrs and even more,,I always wonder how you guys make it possible.the longest relationship I've had was 10 months,and it was like ten yrs to me,,so pls peeps hw do u really do it,,
Pls drop some points if u dnt mind
Let's discuss

Sometimes its as simple as you have not met the right fit. Your exes may have been pretty, well mannered, kind and have all the good gal criteria but may not be what you need. The right person for you may come in an unexpected package so follow your heart.

Are you afraid of being your real self? If you are too busy pretending to be who and what you are not you will definately be with miss wrong start being authentic and the real deal may show up.

You may be afraid of being abandoned, of being vulnerable, of being hurt and have built walls around your heart to protect yourself.

You may be repeating patterns you learnt
From your parents subconsciously and creating thesame dynamic in your own relationships.It could also be you have not fully healed from a previous heartbreak.

For reasons buried deep within you, you may have lost respect for women and hey you may be gay.

You need to start work on releasing the barriers to a healthy,happy longterm rship in your mind. Keep digging into your heart the answers are all within you.

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mark joshua: The point is that,you must focus on that girl that u date,don't look down on her because you have seen her naked.do things together.prolong relationship is never advisable because girls will be uselessed Α̣̣̥и̣̣̣̥d̶̲̥̅̊ abandoned.don't date when u don't have any intention of marrying soon

God will bless u for this advice! Don't date when u don't have intentions of marrying soon.

Choices are what makes a
relationship last. The choice to not cheat.
The choice to not lie. The choice to work
through things. Two people choosing to
make it work...

you dont really need to do anything to make a relationship last long tbh , there are some wonderful women out there , you just need to meet one and you wont even feel the time passing . if u wanna cheat , dont get caught and also most importantly , give yourselves space .

andromida:

Sometimes its as simple as you have not met the right fit. Your exes may have been pretty, well mannered, kind and have all the good gal criteria but may not be what you need. The right person for you may come in an unexpected package so follow your heart.

Are you afraid of being your real self? If you are too busy pretending to be who and what you are not you will definately be with miss wrong start being authentic and the real deal may show up.

You may be afraid of being abandoned, of being vulnerable, of being hurt and have built walls around your heart to protect yourself.

You may be repeating patterns you learnt
From your parents subconsciously and creating thesame dynamic in your own relationships.It could also be you have not fully healed from a previous heartbreak.

For reasons buried deep within you, you may have lost respect for women and hey you may be gay.

You need to start work on releasing the barriers to a healthy,happy longterm rship in your mind. Keep digging into your heart the answers are all within you.

ok tnx, I'm nt gay,,jus dat I get tired after 3-5 months

Dovahkiin: you dont really need to do anything to make a relationship last long tbh , there are some wonderful women out there , you just need to meet one and you wont even feel the time passing . if u wanna cheat , dont get caught and also most importantly , give yourselves space .

on point bro

Pls ill love some1 to share his/her personal experience,,hw u overcame d challenges and all dat,,it wil be appreciated

youngchopper: God will bless u for this advice! Don't date when u don't have intentions of marrying soon.

haven't u seen people dat dated for 8yrs and got married,,van vicker dated his wife for 10 yrs, so ure nt rily right

Passing by

sweetestguy: ok tnx, I'm nt gay,,jus dat I get tired after 3-5 months

Why do you get tired?

Olly barbie219: Passing by

Pulls her closer

Hmmm...

D-Explorer:

Pulls her closer

Olly barbie219:

C'mon baby, a smile won't hurt

D-Explorer:

C'mon baby, a smile won't hurt

ok.....

bobphrisel: haven't u seen people dat dated for 8yrs and got married,,van vicker dated his wife for 10 yrs, so ure nt rily right

van Vicker is just 1 out of millions who Thiers failed

Olly barbie219: ok.....

I said smile, not show me molars
Anyways, I'm beginning to like you

Lol...thnkx tho

Nice post andromida, am impressed

andromida:

Why do you get tired?

jus rili can't tell

Olly barbie219: Passing by

dnt jus pass by, contribute ,,barbie..

Guy just be urslf,honest and sincere with a mind to forgive "tolerable misdeeds" of ur gurl.however he who comes to equity MUST come wit clean hands,so ur intentions that ushered u into d relationship should b "clean" if not,tit for tat na fair play o! Even d baddest gurl in d world loves an honest n sincere guy..just don't allow the mistakes to come from u.

Olly barbie219: Lol...thnkx tho

I'm DX and you are?

WackyJ1: Nice post andromida, am impressed

Thank you.

sweetestguy: jus rili can't tell

Can't tell or don't want to? Anyway its good you are aware but awareness amounts to nothing if you are unwilling to do nothing about it. You can be aware that your car needs to be serviced, you may service your car or keep on driving it until it knocks.

The 3-5 mnths mark is usually when bonds begin to get deeper and that's when you get tired could it be that's when you feel overwhelmed by your emotions, get scared and back off because you are afraid of being rejected if the woman gets to see who you really are,are you afraid of losing the adoration? So you get another woman to get you high again, keep your distance when bonds are being formed again and the cycle continues.

You believe you are protecting yourself yet you keep yourself away from experiencing what you crave, a deep emotional connection with someone else.