1. Not all relationships must lead to marriage.. Some relationships are either for a reason, a season, and only few are for a lifetime.. If it doesn‘t work as wished/hoped on, then don‘t kill yourself about it, because it was for something.. Atleast, Discover the purpose of that lost relationship, and Move on.. 2. Don‘t give a man or a woman the totality of your heart before giving the totality of your heart to GOD.. Love the person “YES“, but put GOD and yourself “FIRST“..
3. Don‘t get carried away with BEAUTY/MONEY.. If
that person‘s inner person can‘t keep you, then neither can his money or her beauty, keep you too..
4. Love is never ever enough.. Understanding,
compatibility, wisdom, honesty, communication,
respect, committment, contentment, patience, and tolerance are extremely important too..
5. When you see more of Negative signs than Positive signs in it, its better to withdraw your heart before it gets broken.. The truth is, most people see these warning signs, but yet chose to endure endure and endure till they get seriously hurt, dumped and woken up by REALITY..
6. Extreme jealousy is one of the quickest way to breaking up a relationship.. Insecurity,Fals e assumptions, distrust, blames does this..
7. Don‘t demand TRUST.. Rather, earn it by building it
or showing it..
8. Never compare your partner to someone else.. Be it your friends‘s good going relationship, or your EX.
9. Your relationship should not only be marriage driven, but Care, love and concerned/ interest Driven..
And finally
10. The best way to love a person freely without
getting sooooo hurt, is to love him/ her without HOPES.. Because, no one can promise you tomorrow, rather, the Future meets up with our Readiness.. What readiness?, comfortability, choice, and satisfaction.