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Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by seydam21(m): 10:27am On Jan 07, 2014 |
She especially enjoys feeling the anticipation of finally arriving “down there.” Take the time to work your way slowly down a woman’s entire body. There are a lot of misconceptions about sex and sexuality, particularly when it comes to women. Understandably, men might be confused. Unfortunately, many men end up misinformed about how to please their female partners. As a therapist with more than 25 years of experience, I know that many women endure unsatisfying sex lives without speaking up. And, in fairness to all the great men out there, if women don’t start talking, how are men supposed to know what to do? Sure, there are many great lovers out there and there are no rules that apply to everyone. Still, there are some basic ground rules that apply to most women So, in the spirit of helpingcouples have better sex and better relationships, here are the top five mistakes men make in bed and what they can do differently: 1. Assuming that women do not have the same sex drive as men. Don’t believe for a minute that women don’t like sex or want sex as much as men. While there are certainly individual differences with both genders, women love sex and want sex. They just don’t want bad sex. So if your girlfriend or wife is turning you down, the first thing to ask is how can you make it better for her, not how you can get her to take better care of satisfying your sexual needs. 2. Heading straight for her genitals. A woman enjoys the pleasure of her entire body being touched and caressed. She enjoys being kissed and seduced. She especially enjoys feeling the anticipation of finally arriving “down there.” Take the time to work your way slowly down a woman’s entire body. By the time you reach her clitoris, she will be in heaven. Don’t rush pre-intimacy. Make sure you enjoy the journey as well; a woman knows when her man loves and appreciates every inch of her body. Nothing turns on a woman more than knowing her man is turned on by touching, caressing and kissing her everywhere! 3. Treating her clitoris like a penis. A woman’s body is different from that of a man. Don’t try to treat her genitals like you treat your own. Find out what kinds of touch feel best. Take your time so she does not feel rushed. Don’t move on to intercourse too quickly. Most women enjoy orgasms via clitoral stimulationbefore vaginal penetration. Of course, that does not mean a woman can’t enjoy another orgasm during intercourse — but remember, every woman is different — some have vaginal orgasms and some don’t. 4. Beginning and ending pre-intimacy as quickly as possible in the bedroom. pre-intimacy goes on 24/7 for a woman. The more attentive you are to her overall needs, the more connected she feels. The more connected she feels, the more responsive she will be to sexual advances. So if your mate is tired from a long day and you are in the mood for sex, run a nice hot bath for her, put the kids to bed and I promise, that tired “leave me alone” mood will shift. Nurturing your woman is the best aphrodisiac you can find. Be a great partner to your mate and your mate will be a great lover in return. 5. Doing sex “your way.” Most men take the lead in sexual encounters. And for some, even when a woman does take the initiative to do sex differently (her way), she is redirected to how he wants it. Sometimes this can be a match and sometimes it is not. Don’t assume just because you saw a woman moan on a porn site that this is what your woman will enjoy. Women don’t want to feel like they have to look and act like porn stars. They may love what you love and they may prefer something different. Women tend to have their own preferences on how they like to have sex. Make sure you find out what pleases your mate. Let her run the show from time to time. Make sure her needs are being met. Create a safe space from which to try different things and create an intimate connection. Hot sex, tender sex and anything in-between is all great sex when it comes from a place of love and intimacy. 3 Likes
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Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by hotwax: 10:43am On Jan 07, 2014 |
Nice piece |
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by ObiOkpor(m): 10:49am On Jan 07, 2014 |
This is really interesting. |
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by piratedcopy(m): 12:03pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
It will sha make front page |
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by chefdoeuvre: 12:39pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
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Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by lanrizil: 12:45pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
I had a resolution never to visit sex threads again but omg! ......the flesh is weak |
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by zuma4k(m): 12:46pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
Noted Noted |
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by iamtewwy(m): 1:43pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
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Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by Nobody: 1:48pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
Cool tips. For those who have sex. |
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by GHKWAME1: 1:54pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
For one Seattle woman, a mind-blowing orgasm sent her to heaven - and then to the emergency room. Liz had just had sex with her partner Eric, but well after he climbed out of bed, Liz was hitting new peaks of pleasure. About an hour into her epic climax, Liz started to panic. By the second hour, the panting woman was rushed to hospital where medical staff thought she was in labor. Liz's orgasm lasted for over three hours before she finally found relief. The young couple shared their bizarre story during last night's TLC show 'Sex Sent Me to the ER'. Liz, who didn't give her last name, recounted how she tried everything from jumping to drinking to shake the ache. 'I started hopping up and down to see if that would do anything,' Liz said about her first frenzied hour. 'I started trying to drink wine to see if that would calm down my system. I tried just about every possible thing I could do to stop having an orgasm.' Eric drove his partner to the ER, where, he recalled, some people stared and shared their insights. 'As much of a relief as it was to have her in the hospital, now there were eyes on me and I was still feeling very tense and uptight and uncertain about what was going on and what was going to happen,' Eric said. Liz's orgasm continued for another hour in the hospital before it finally waned. http://citifmonline.com/index.php?id=1.1652968 |
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by Terix(m): 2:13pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
That was good tip lets get down 2 practice[/color][color=#990000][color=#000099][/color][color=#000099][/color] |
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by GHKWAME1: 2:13pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
Women are never satisfied. |
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by ObiOkpor(m): 2:35pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
jossi994: Cool tips. For those who have sex.Don‘t you,or is your joystick just there for manhood sake? |
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by Rawpidgin(m): 2:47pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
GH^KWAME:not blowing my own trumpet, but i satisfied every woman i've bangged |
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by seydam21(m): 3:02pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
Is this not good for front page |
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by seydam21(m): 3:04pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
piratedcopy: It will sha make front page |
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by GHKWAME1: 3:15pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
Rawpidgin: not blowing my own trumpet, but i satisfied every woman i've banggedermm! If that was the case, women will stop opening threads and writing books about how women are not being satisfied. |
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by xynerise: 3:15pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
GH^KWAME:Not true. You need to ask yourself questions |
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by GHKWAME1: 3:28pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
xynerise:I will do that with a bottle of alomo. |
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by xynerise: 3:32pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
GH^KWAME:Goodluck |
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by riskit33: 3:50pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
Interesting |
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by Rawpidgin(m): 4:40pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
xynerise:u took it outta my mouth |
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by Rawpidgin(m): 4:48pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
as a matter of fact i don't put my 1 inside 0 without playing with her pu**y(cl*t & Gsp*t precisely), after doing this 4 the next 20-30min she will cum b4 i start murdering her pu**y |
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by Ashabie(f): 5:03pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by loswhite(m): 5:59pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
Rawpidgin: not blowing my own trumpet, but i satisfied every woman i've banggedkip deceiving urself |
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by 190daclown: 6:02pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
No woman born of a Woman can ever complain of me Infact they applaud me every time im done with em in bed some even cook for me - others cant even walk properly after im done true story |
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by chiwob(m): 6:25pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
190daclown: No woman born of a Woman can ever complain of me You are the Son Of ur Father |
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by 190daclown: 6:26pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
chiwob: |
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by Nobody: 7:09pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
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Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by frankpessu(m): 7:28pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
Rawpidgin: not blowing my own trumpet, but i satisfied every woman i've bangged Dat's wat u tink..... I once banngged a gal so hard dat sh wz pleadin for me to stop..... Feeling lik a king..... On getting home I got a tx from ha saying I wasn't gud in bed...... Since dat day sh neva even called me....... @op tanx a lot I will try ur steps...... |
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by ignis: 7:30pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
Copied and forwarded to the right person supposed to read this. |
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by 190daclown: 7:36pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
frank pessu: how hard where u banging her thats making you feel like hercules here You see one mistakes you young nicca's make is to think fucc-ing her with all your strength is the deal, stop watching Indecency's a woman's genital's should be handled with care and should be touched at the right places I could go on and on and on - pay me for a lecture |
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