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Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by seydam21(m): 10:27am On Jan 07, 2014
She especially enjoys feeling the anticipation of finally arriving “down there.” Take the time to work your way slowly down a woman’s entire body.



There are a lot of misconceptions about sex and
sexuality, particularly when it comes to women.
Understandably, men might be confused.

Unfortunately, many men end up misinformed about how to please their female partners. As a therapist with more than 25 years of experience, I know that many women endure unsatisfying sex lives without speaking up. And, in fairness to all the great men out there, if women don’t start talking, how are men supposed to know what to do?

Sure, there are many great lovers out there and there are no rules that apply to everyone. Still, there are some basic ground rules that apply to most women So, in the spirit of helpingcouples have better sex and better relationships, here are the top five mistakes men make in bed and what they can do differently:

1. Assuming that women do not have the same
sex drive as men.
Don’t believe for a minute that women don’t like sex or want sex as much as men. While there are certainly individual differences with both genders, women love sex and want sex.

They just don’t want bad sex. So if your girlfriend or wife is turning you down, the first thing to ask is how can you make it better for her, not how you can get her to take better care of satisfying your sexual needs.

2. Heading straight for her genitals. A woman enjoys the pleasure of her entire body being touched and caressed. She enjoys being kissed and seduced. She especially enjoys feeling the anticipation of finally arriving “down there.” Take the time to work your way slowly down a woman’s entire body.

By the time you reach her clitoris, she will be in heaven. Don’t rush pre-intimacy. Make sure you enjoy the journey as well; a woman knows when her man loves and appreciates every inch of her body. Nothing turns on a woman more than knowing her man is turned on by touching, caressing and kissing her everywhere!

3. Treating her clitoris like a penis. A woman’s body is different from that of a man. Don’t try to treat her genitals like you treat your own. Find out what kinds of touch feel best. Take your time so she does not feel rushed. Don’t move on to intercourse too quickly.

Most women enjoy orgasms via clitoral stimulationbefore vaginal penetration. Of course, that does not mean a woman can’t enjoy another orgasm during intercourse — but remember, every woman is different — some have vaginal orgasms and some don’t.

4. Beginning and ending pre-intimacy as quickly as possible in the bedroom. pre-intimacy goes on 24/7 for a woman. The more attentive you are to her
overall needs, the more connected she feels. The
more connected she feels, the more responsive she will be to sexual advances.

So if your mate is tired from a long day and you are in the mood for sex, run a nice hot bath for her, put the kids to bed and I promise, that tired “leave me alone” mood will shift. Nurturing your woman is the best aphrodisiac you can find. Be a great partner to your mate and your mate will be a great lover in return.

5. Doing sex “your way.” Most men take the lead in sexual encounters. And for some, even when a woman does take the initiative to do sex differently (her way), she is redirected to how he wants it. Sometimes this can be a match and sometimes it is not. Don’t assume just because you saw a woman moan on a porn site that this is what your woman will enjoy.

Women don’t want to feel like they have to look and act like porn stars. They may love what you love and they may prefer something different. Women tend to have their own preferences on how they like to have sex. Make sure you find out what pleases your mate.

Let her run the show from time to time. Make sure her needs are being met. Create a safe space from which to try different things and create an intimate connection. Hot sex, tender sex and anything in-between is all great sex when it comes from a place of love and intimacy.

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Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by hotwax: 10:43am On Jan 07, 2014
Nice piece
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by ObiOkpor(m): 10:49am On Jan 07, 2014
This is really interesting.
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by piratedcopy(m): 12:03pm On Jan 07, 2014
It will sha make front page
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by chefdoeuvre: 12:39pm On Jan 07, 2014
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Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by lanrizil: 12:45pm On Jan 07, 2014
I had a resolution never to visit sex threads again but omg! ......the flesh is weak
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by zuma4k(m): 12:46pm On Jan 07, 2014
Noted
Noted
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by iamtewwy(m): 1:43pm On Jan 07, 2014
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Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by Nobody: 1:48pm On Jan 07, 2014
Cool tips. For those who have sex.
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by GHKWAME1: 1:54pm On Jan 07, 2014
For one Seattle woman, a mind-blowing orgasm sent her to heaven - and then to
the emergency room.


Liz had just had sex with her partner Eric, but well after he climbed out of bed, Liz was hitting new peaks of
pleasure.


About an hour into her epic climax, Liz
started to panic. By the second hour, the
panting woman was rushed to hospital
where medical staff thought she was in
labor.


Liz's orgasm lasted for over three hours
before she finally found relief.
The young couple shared their bizarre
story during last night's TLC show 'Sex
Sent Me to the ER'.


Liz, who didn't give her last name,
recounted how she tried everything
from jumping to drinking to shake the
ache. 'I started hopping up and down to see if that would do anything,' Liz said about her first frenzied hour.
'I started trying to drink wine to see if
that would calm down my system. I tried
just about every possible thing I could
do to stop having an orgasm.'


Eric drove his partner to the ER, where,
he recalled, some people stared and
shared their insights.
'As much of a relief as it was to have her
in the hospital, now there were eyes on
me and I was still feeling very tense and
uptight and uncertain about what was
going on and what was going to happen,'
Eric said.


Liz's orgasm continued for another hour
in the hospital before it finally waned.






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Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by Terix(m): 2:13pm On Jan 07, 2014
That was good tip lets get down 2 practice[/color][color=#990000][color=#000099][/color][color=#000099][/color]
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by GHKWAME1: 2:13pm On Jan 07, 2014
Women are never satisfied.
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by ObiOkpor(m): 2:35pm On Jan 07, 2014
jossi994: Cool tips. For those who have sex.
Don‘t you,or is your joystick just there for manhood sake?
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by Rawpidgin(m): 2:47pm On Jan 07, 2014
GH^KWAME:
Women are never satisfied.
not blowing my own trumpet, but i satisfied every woman i've bangged
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by seydam21(m): 3:02pm On Jan 07, 2014
Is this not good for front page
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by seydam21(m): 3:04pm On Jan 07, 2014
piratedcopy: It will sha make front page
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by GHKWAME1: 3:15pm On Jan 07, 2014
Rawpidgin: not blowing my own trumpet, but i satisfied every woman i've bangged
ermm! If that was the case, women will stop opening threads and writing books about how women are not being satisfied.
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by xynerise: 3:15pm On Jan 07, 2014
GH^KWAME:
Women are never satisfied.
Not true. You need to ask yourself questions
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by GHKWAME1: 3:28pm On Jan 07, 2014
xynerise:
Not true. You need to ask yourself questions
I will do that with a bottle of alomo.
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by xynerise: 3:32pm On Jan 07, 2014
GH^KWAME:
I will do that with a bottle of alomo.
Goodluck
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by riskit33: 3:50pm On Jan 07, 2014
Interesting
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by Rawpidgin(m): 4:40pm On Jan 07, 2014
xynerise:
Not true. You need to ask yourself questions
u took it outta my mouth
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by Rawpidgin(m): 4:48pm On Jan 07, 2014
as a matter of fact i don't put my 1 inside 0 without playing with her pu**y(cl*t & Gsp*t precisely), after doing this 4 the next 20-30min she will cum b4 i start murdering her pu**y
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by Ashabie(f): 5:03pm On Jan 07, 2014
cool
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by loswhite(m): 5:59pm On Jan 07, 2014
Rawpidgin: not blowing my own trumpet, but i satisfied every woman i've bangged
kip deceiving urself undecided
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by 190daclown: 6:02pm On Jan 07, 2014
No woman born of a Woman can ever complain of me

Infact they applaud me every time im done with em in bed

some even cook for me - others cant even walk properly after im done

true story grin grin
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by chiwob(m): 6:25pm On Jan 07, 2014
190daclown: No woman born of a Woman can ever complain of me

Infact they applaud me every time im done with em in bed

some even cook for me - others cant even walk properly after im done

true story grin grin


You are the Son Of ur Father
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by 190daclown: 6:26pm On Jan 07, 2014
chiwob:


You are the Son Of ur Father
grin grin grin
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by Nobody: 7:09pm On Jan 07, 2014
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Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by frankpessu(m): 7:28pm On Jan 07, 2014
Rawpidgin: not blowing my own trumpet, but i satisfied every woman i've bangged

Dat's wat u tink..... I once banngged a gal so hard dat sh wz pleadin for me to stop..... Feeling lik a king..... On getting home I got a tx from ha saying I wasn't gud in bed...... Since dat day sh neva even called me....... @op tanx a lot I will try ur steps......
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by ignis: 7:30pm On Jan 07, 2014
Copied and forwarded to the right person supposed to read this.
Re: Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In Bed by 190daclown: 7:36pm On Jan 07, 2014
frank pessu:

Dat's wat u tink..... I once banngged a gal so hard dat sh wz pleadin for me to stop..... Feeling lik a king..... On getting home I got a tx from ha saying I wasn't gud in bed...... Since dat day sh neva even called me....... @op tanx a lot I will try ur steps......

how hard where u banging her thats making you feel like hercules here angry

You see one mistakes you young nicca's make is to think
fucc-ing her with all your strength is the deal, stop watching Indecency's
a woman's genital's should be handled with care and should be touched at the right places
I could go on and on and on - pay me for a lecture grin

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