Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,191,300 members, 7,943,706 topics. Date: Sunday, 08 September 2024 at 10:27 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / Unmarried Couples Living Together Before Marriage (1493 Views)
Living Together Before Marriage - Is It A Good Idea? / Husband, Wife And Lover Living Together / Unmarried Couples Living Together On Campuses (2) (3) (4)
Unmarried Couples Living Together Before Marriage by elozino: 4:46pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
Is it right for lovers to live together b4 marriage and live the daddy and mummy life and sleeping on the same bed |
Re: Unmarried Couples Living Together Before Marriage by nana(f): 4:47pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
Nah. I dont think it's good |
Re: Unmarried Couples Living Together Before Marriage by tope2000(f): 4:48pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
no no no |
Re: Unmarried Couples Living Together Before Marriage by Gamine(f): 4:53pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
I have a friend who did it and they got married last december. He said, it isnt the best but some good can come out of it. He said he wont really advice anyone to do it |
Re: Unmarried Couples Living Together Before Marriage by MissyB1(m): 4:53pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
common sense should tell pple wats wrong |
Re: Unmarried Couples Living Together Before Marriage by Ezinwannem: 4:53pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
dont know about others but I will personally wont do it |
Re: Unmarried Couples Living Together Before Marriage by ssRhino: 6:25pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
I dont see what is wrong in it, they wil save money off rent, and eat together, and sleep together. But the man cld take advantage of that and dont wanna marry anymore, cos why would he wanna pay for it when he is already having it all for free? |
Re: Unmarried Couples Living Together Before Marriage by Gamine(f): 6:35pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
Whats all this save money, save money You guys eh! |
Re: Unmarried Couples Living Together Before Marriage by ssRhino: 6:39pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
Gamine: Say mr A and Miss B are dating and living apart Mr. A will be paying like 1000$ for rent Miss B will be paying 1000$ for rent that will b2 2000$ so if they reside together, they only pay 1000$ and cld save more on feeding, and even going to bed together makes you more sane. |
Re: Unmarried Couples Living Together Before Marriage by Gamine(f): 6:43pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
I know! So saving bill is more important than saving hearts |
Re: Unmarried Couples Living Together Before Marriage by ssRhino: 6:47pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
Gamine: if a man isnt so much in love with the woman, he will never allow living together, imagine a man that still playing games, how will he play his games, so that means we have already moved passed the saving heart, cos na only love fit make man co-habit with a woman oh. |
Re: Unmarried Couples Living Together Before Marriage by Gamine(f): 7:08pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
Hahaha You really expect me to believe what you posted. oh my! A cheating man will cheat regardless of who dey hin house o!!! |
Re: Unmarried Couples Living Together Before Marriage by ssRhino: 7:12pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
Gamine: i never said a cheating man wont cheat, but what i am saying is that, for a man that is yet to take a babe to the alter and agreed to house same woman to live under same roof, i personally think that such man must have real love for the woman, cos not easy to have ur space clouded and a woman in ya face all the time? it gotta be love. |
Re: Unmarried Couples Living Together Before Marriage by Gamine(f): 7:13pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
Yeah what happens when it dies Thats why a marriage is binding |
Re: Unmarried Couples Living Together Before Marriage by Nobody: 7:17pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
Recycled thread na. Nywaz, it's wrong |
Re: Unmarried Couples Living Together Before Marriage by ssRhino: 7:23pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
Gamine: Nothing is binding, cos even in marriage when love dies, the only thing that holds it is the commitment. |
Re: Unmarried Couples Living Together Before Marriage by Gamine(f): 7:26pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
Its binding, you cant throw your wife out legally. A girlfriend is still just a girl friend, too many cases of one being thrown out and another steps in. |
Re: Unmarried Couples Living Together Before Marriage by ssRhino: 7:28pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
If u are freshly married, u cld divorce easily and if no kids are involved, u guy cld path ways and no money will exchange hands. Dont get me wrong, i am not in support of thrwoing out of ur wife or even girlfriends, i think it is all about understanding jare. |
Re: Unmarried Couples Living Together Before Marriage by Gamine(f): 7:30pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
Yeah, Understanding The girl understanding that if the guy no wan do again na she go pack her load comot. Such kinds of understandment, i no want! |
Re: Unmarried Couples Living Together Before Marriage by ifyalways(f): 7:35pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
Its worked for some,it turned some others to recyled Okirika.From Johnnys house to Polycarp room.I personally wont go for that. |
Re: Unmarried Couples Living Together Before Marriage by Gamine(f): 7:37pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
LOL. yeah, its worked out for some but they wont even advice it for anyone else |
Re: Unmarried Couples Living Together Before Marriage by ssRhino: 7:54pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
So what difference does it make when they aint married, but yet the babe comes every weekend and spend weekend, and in my house, she has some few things, like clothings and shoes and all stuff, when we break up, she will still have to leave, i rather see them work things out and be4 they start lving together, make sure they know what they want and really wanna be together, and nto just some arranged free 'in house pu**Y" or "in house d**k" |
Re: Unmarried Couples Living Together Before Marriage by iice(f): 11:03pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
Whatever works for one, works for one. If it works for you, good, if it doesn't good. |
Re: Unmarried Couples Living Together Before Marriage by lucabrasi(m): 11:11pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
nigerians and pretence, there s nothing wrong with unmarried couples living together once they have made a conscious decision to eventually get married,though the christian religion frowns at it, some couples dont live together and they have done every taboo under the sun 3some,swinging e.t.c its not about conforming to societal values but what works for a couple especially if they have to save for that wedding and evetually married life,mortgage e.t.c |
Re: Unmarried Couples Living Together Before Marriage by Ibime(m): 11:15pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
Well, I have been living with my chick for 2 years now . . . . . . I must say it takes all the excitement out of relationships. . . . . not because of any religious stuff but because familiarity breeds contempt. |
Re: Unmarried Couples Living Together Before Marriage by Nobody: 5:22am On Aug 09, 2008 |
@ thread whatevere is wrong is absolutely wrong, no matter how we paint it |
Re: Unmarried Couples Living Together Before Marriage by hymen(f): 8:56am On Aug 09, 2008 |
Essentially OSU(now OOU) runs |
Re: Unmarried Couples Living Together Before Marriage by Seun(m): 12:57pm On Aug 09, 2008 |
I must say it takes all the excitement out of relationships, not because of any religious stuff but because familiarity breeds contempt.So you're inevitably going to have a lot of contempt for your wife? And she for you? |
(1) (Reply)
Stephen Come In Here / Parting With Half Of Your Wealth During Divorce. / Can I Get A Husband Online?
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 21 |