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Re: Is It Safe To Be Friends With "Cuddle Benefit' With A Guy? by boofydon: 11:24pm On Jan 08, 2014
Wow really interesting. From the post u met 2006 during nysc so I guess ur football age den was 26yrs

2014-2006=10yrs
10+26=36yrs

At 36yrs na still bfrnd u dey talk lol! Dnt worry keep on cuddling, u still a long way from menopause grin

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Re: Is It Safe To Be Friends With "Cuddle Benefit' With A Guy? by PeoplesArmy: 11:25pm On Jan 08, 2014
You are kidding me right?
Re: Is It Safe To Be Friends With "Cuddle Benefit' With A Guy? by LadyH(f): 11:26pm On Jan 08, 2014
funny thread. sickindahead op.
Re: Is It Safe To Be Friends With "Cuddle Benefit' With A Guy? by Toks2008(m): 11:42pm On Jan 08, 2014
Lerato9: Ok i am a female and my best friend is a guy. We are extremely close and theres nothing we dont share with each other. We are there for each other during our highs and low points. I have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend. We met during nysc in Nasarawa state in 2006 and have remained close since we both relocated and work in abuja after youth corps.

Recently, though, we have been cuddling alot. When i visit him, or sleep over at his place, we end up cuddling. On the couch, bed etc,. Sometimes he is in only his boxers and i in bra and underwear alone or lingerie.

The thing is we dont even kiss or have sex but he strokes my back, neck, thighs and stomach. I also run my fingers everywhere but never touch his pe.nis.

I derive immense comfort and pleasure from these cuddles and i dont intend stopping. I absolutely trust and adore him and he treats me with utmost respect.

Are we cheating on our partners? Is it a bad thing? Is it a sin as we are both christians and fear God.

OMG i am sooooo confused!!!M

I will simply advice both of you to marry each other. Friends forever.
Re: Is It Safe To Be Friends With "Cuddle Benefit' With A Guy? by khollzz: 11:43pm On Jan 08, 2014
Lerato9:

Guys, he respects me alot and he is a gentleman to the core.


U r both confused...and besides whr ur bf and him gf dey wey una dey cuddle unasef.dnt ur respective partners do it well.Lastly dat guy z impotent abi him dick no dey rise wen una cuddle?

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Re: Is It Safe To Be Friends With "Cuddle Benefit' With A Guy? by Geop(m): 11:43pm On Jan 08, 2014
Joel.:
maybe the guy have a low sex drive or something, so nothing is wrong with him though. but wait a minute, he put on his boxers and you put on your bra. and both of you touching each other right? did you see any bulge or signs of his manliness standing attention down there? please answer this first before i answer you its very important. even if he don't want to Bleep you. but a sign of his boxers show some manliness than it well with him. but if not then there are two things. maybe he is not into you really or .............. i really don't want to say it. maybe someone can help me
D'u mean GAY??
Re: Is It Safe To Be Friends With "Cuddle Benefit' With A Guy? by stremy21(m): 11:44pm On Jan 08, 2014
Osas001: This is lovely, and this is Intimate love.. He's not gay, but only have respect 4 u, datz why he's taking his time.. I'm sure he's alrdy in love with u as much as u re with him, bt the question, can dis intimacy be sweet n lovely when d both of u becomes an item 2geda ?
Retardeen

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Re: Is It Safe To Be Friends With "Cuddle Benefit' With A Guy? by Toks2008(m): 11:45pm On Jan 08, 2014
Abbey2sam:

Picture or it didn't happen

You must be really unattractive, or your body can't arouse him,

Are you that fugly?

i think she is not just ugly but also a cheap slut
Re: Is It Safe To Be Friends With "Cuddle Benefit' With A Guy? by Jesuspistol(m): 11:54pm On Jan 08, 2014
You funny o. You type long romantic story. When you wan end am you say you don't intend to stop. Why you come dey ask for suggestion. Lol

To stop no even pay you. Just de enjoy yaself as far as nobody weh know you no de see you.

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Re: Is It Safe To Be Friends With "Cuddle Benefit' With A Guy? by Sike(m): 11:54pm On Jan 08, 2014
I swear the comments on this topic is Rib-cracking. U guys are damn wicked with ur replies. Haba!!
Re: Is It Safe To Be Friends With "Cuddle Benefit' With A Guy? by alivetofuckonly(m): 11:56pm On Jan 08, 2014
Hmmm. What a nice situation to be in. I wish I were that guy. Well since you have your boyfriend and he has his girlfriend. U guys can go on and enjoy each other.

Its just that u as a girl may have your mind flipping from ur boyfriend to this guy soon while u leave ur boyfriend completely. Especially if this guy's gat some more money. But if I were any of you guys, its a good opportunity to enjoy one another since having a boyfrind/girlfriend is not a hidden matter, jealousy should be less. Just have fun. Move from cuddling to the main thing joor. Stop wasting time.
Re: Is It Safe To Be Friends With "Cuddle Benefit' With A Guy? by ManTiger(m): 11:59pm On Jan 08, 2014
@OP, assuming you served at the age of 23yrs in 2006, you should be 29yrs or so by now which means you're ripe for marriage so instead of indulging in ungodly act, why don't you just settledown with your spouse?
Feel free to send me a message as you might want us to talk about it + i sabi cuddle too and i'm sure u'll like it!
Re: Is It Safe To Be Friends With "Cuddle Benefit' With A Guy? by adsonstone: 12:05am On Jan 09, 2014
Will you like your partner to do exactly the same thing your doing with his 'best (female) friend'......and they'll both be enjoying it?
Re: Is It Safe To Be Friends With "Cuddle Benefit' With A Guy? by InvertedHammer: 12:06am On Jan 09, 2014
Lerato9: Ok i am a female and my best friend is a guy. We are extremely close and theres nothing we dont share with each other. We are there for each other during our highs and low points. I have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend. We met during nysc in Nasarawa state in 2006 and have remained close since we both relocated and work in abuja after youth corps.

Recently, though, we have been cuddling alot. When i visit him, or sleep over at his place, we end up cuddling. On the couch, bed etc,. Sometimes he is in only his boxers and i in bra and underwear alone or lingerie.

The thing is we dont even kiss or have sex but he strokes my back, neck, thighs and stomach. I also run my fingers everywhere but never touch his pe.nis.

I derive immense comfort and pleasure from these cuddles and i dont intend stopping. I absolutely trust and adore him and he treats me with utmost respect.

Are we cheating on our partners? Is it a bad thing? Is it a sin as we are both christians and fear God.

OMG i am sooooo confused!!!M

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Re: Is It Safe To Be Friends With "Cuddle Benefit' With A Guy? by sleekpro(m): 12:15am On Jan 09, 2014
Just pray make your guy no leave you, if he leave you that mumu no go fit satisfy u oooo, because his apkako no d work!
Re: Is It Safe To Be Friends With "Cuddle Benefit' With A Guy? by Akin1212(m): 12:20am On Jan 09, 2014
Usually on a normal day I would just pass.... But this one I aint passing..
Firstly this is blah blah blah
OP are you mad? the guy cuddles you when you are on lingerie and nothing happens? Oh shit..... By the time you realise what's happening I would be in 3rd round.. The guy is either gay( waiting for the right time to ask for ur ana'l hole) or the horse in textbooks(impotent).... 'He respects you? How... By not finger'ing you or squeezing your oranges? Lol jeez this is crazy....even on cloths some guys are already fu'cking... What the hell are you?? A dundee?? well I donno if it's a sin and since you don't intend to stop just continue until your bf catches you someday
Re: Is It Safe To Be Friends With "Cuddle Benefit' With A Guy? by brushesz: 12:50am On Jan 09, 2014
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Re: Is It Safe To Be Friends With "Cuddle Benefit' With A Guy? by mikeakeh(m): 12:53am On Jan 09, 2014
dats exactly wht guys cal friend zoning... dat guy is meant t be ur bf but u prolly made him a friend mayb cuz hez nt rich or very handsome...

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Re: Is It Safe To Be Friends With "Cuddle Benefit' With A Guy? by Equado(m): 1:03am On Jan 09, 2014
And yes I love your cock and bull story grin
Re: Is It Safe To Be Friends With "Cuddle Benefit' With A Guy? by ralpheously: 2:07am On Jan 09, 2014
Lerato9: And he is not gay. He has a girl friend for heaven's sakes. How could he be guy?
Lerato no mak me vex here if u dnt av somtimn 2 postgo nd join apc,notn lik dat has ever hapund 2 u,infact ur illucinating bye abeg
Re: Is It Safe To Be Friends With "Cuddle Benefit' With A Guy? by Cpolicy(m): 2:09am On Jan 09, 2014
@Op u too dey lie, you mean all this you guys are only playing on the fence without entering the main building. Come to think of it i saw this post on fb from anoda poster.
Re: Is It Safe To Be Friends With "Cuddle Benefit' With A Guy? by Nobody: 2:22am On Jan 09, 2014
Lerato9:

Guys, he respects me alot and he is a gentleman to the core.

False. A true gentleman who respects you will NOT put his hands on another man's woman... best friend or not.

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Re: Is It Safe To Be Friends With "Cuddle Benefit' With A Guy? by Nobody: 2:25am On Jan 09, 2014
Lerato9: Ok i am a female and my best friend is a guy. We are extremely close and theres nothing we dont share with each other. We are there for each other during our highs and low points. I have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend. We met during nysc in Nasarawa state in 2006 and have remained close since we both relocated and work in abuja after youth corps.

Recently, though, we have been cuddling alot. When i visit him, or sleep over at his place, we end up cuddling. On the couch, bed etc,. Sometimes he is in only his boxers and i in bra and underwear alone or lingerie.

The thing is we dont even kiss or have sex but he strokes my back, neck, thighs and stomach. I also run my fingers everywhere but never touch his pe.nis.

I derive immense comfort and pleasure from these cuddles and i dont intend stopping. I absolutely trust and adore him and he treats me with utmost respect.

Are we cheating on our partners? Is it a bad thing? Is it a sin as we are both christians and fear God.

OMG i am sooooo confused!!!M

lol i'm sure he either is not aroused by you (really bad sign) or there is something wrong with him sexually.

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Re: Is It Safe To Be Friends With "Cuddle Benefit' With A Guy? by AreaFada2: 2:28am On Jan 09, 2014
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Re: Is It Safe To Be Friends With "Cuddle Benefit' With A Guy? by AreaFada2: 2:38am On Jan 09, 2014
If to say the story na true I for say the guy na bad guy.

Choi, cuddle, rub rub all rubables and him body no stand like spanner? cheesy

It seems you were playing "take clothes off one by one".

Na bra and undie remain na.

If the guy no be gay or his viagra has not failed him, he don push undie (most likely G-string sef) go one corner finger-F and insert the cucumber jeje.

Which correct bobo dey joke with that kind juicy sin-pot?

If na true story the guy no be any gentle guy, na gay, impotent or a very exceptional case suegbe and slowpoke with summa cum laude (distinction).

Na the day his girlfriend go come "cash" una you go know how fire dey kill tortoise.

Ol' girl please just remove christianity from this, all that hypocrisy stink big time.
Re: Is It Safe To Be Friends With "Cuddle Benefit' With A Guy? by Nobody: 3:21am On Jan 09, 2014
Eeja Nla01: Hehehe you both likely gona fall in love soon cheesy
Dz kind flirtationship sweet o

Yes you are cheating
It is Bad
It is a lesser sin cos you haven't penetrated

You derive immense comfort in it and do not intend to stop? shocked
Your bF is a gonner
You are a badt boy.
Re: Is It Safe To Be Friends With "Cuddle Benefit' With A Guy? by Greaaat: 4:39am On Jan 09, 2014
Op will just tell you this when next you're together massage god dick and see if he's gay or not and for the record it's not a sin until you finish the 3rd round ok
Go and sin no more
Re: Is It Safe To Be Friends With "Cuddle Benefit' With A Guy? by Kirinwa: 5:20am On Jan 09, 2014
Lerato9: Ok i am a female and my best friend is a guy. We are extremely close and theres nothing we dont share with each other. We are there for each other during our highs and low points. I have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend. We met during nysc in Nasarawa state in 2006 and have remained close since we both relocated and work in abuja after youth corps.

Recently, though, we have been cuddling alot. When i visit him, or sleep over at his place, we end up cuddling. On the couch, bed etc,. Sometimes he is in only his boxers and i in bra and underwear alone or lingerie.

The thing is we dont even kiss or have sex but he strokes my back, neck, thighs and stomach. I also run my fingers everywhere but never touch his pe.nis.

I derive immense comfort and pleasure from these cuddles and i dont intend stopping. I absolutely trust and adore him and he treats me with utmost respect.

Are we cheating on our partners? Is it a bad thing? Is it a sin as we are both christians and fear God.

OMG i am sooooo confused!!!M

You see your life? How complicated you want to make it? You have a boyfriend who has a girlfriend? It didn't stop there o.You are both 'christians'.Is there anything wrong with sleeping on same bed with oposite sex and cuddling in bed?!

Seriously who are you trying to feign this innocence and ignorance for?
Re: Is It Safe To Be Friends With "Cuddle Benefit' With A Guy? by seanpaul56(m): 5:25am On Jan 09, 2014
There are two things involve.
Re: Is It Safe To Be Friends With "Cuddle Benefit' With A Guy? by Nobody: 5:30am On Jan 09, 2014
When the guy suppose dey use hin pehnis to cuddle you grin

Confirm Jew-man. cheesy
Re: Is It Safe To Be Friends With "Cuddle Benefit' With A Guy? by 2goodbobo(m): 5:41am On Jan 09, 2014
ordinary I dey give fine gurls wey dey pass my front belle for my mind, not to talk of lying on same bed with a gurl on bra and pantie.

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