i just need an answer from you guys in the house. what will you do if you find out that your girlfriend is having sexual relationship with one of your big bros and this girl claims to love you very much.it is not rumour.please, what will you do to her?

well all you can do is just leave the girl and search for someone better but probably don't leave her without giving her your own trademark you know what i mean. safe. Sorry for the heartbreak.

I've been in this situation - my man bonking my sis

I know what you're going through, I'm sorry they decided to disrespect you so much.

My advice to you is to show her the door!

This girl DOES NOT love you. Does she bonk your bro as an expression of her love for you?

You deserve someone who actually knows what 'Love' means.

Your bro has some serious explaining to do also - don't let him off the hook while you're busy deciding what to do with your girl.

Joe, show her the door. She doesn't have respect for you. As for your brother, he should know better than to allow her. You don't have to live with that.

she doesn't deserve u and u can better than her. Let her know that u know bout the whole thing and leave her alone, take care!

leave her, as simple as that

I just want to remind you that any form of physical assault is against the law. Because you know you can't beat your brothers you want to beat the girl. I can read between the lines; that's what you mean by "what do I do to her?"

that's bad

my man, just fu*k her for the last time and make sure u do it well, den tell her to kindly leave your house and never comeback. if she utters one word. throw her out. she is crazy. wonder y people act like this.

Nah diddy, he shouldn't be encouraged to f*ck her one last time he knows his bro has been there now that's just naaasty

which one, let it be dat both of them fu*ked same girl, dat way the girl will feel low about herself, the next time she dates a guy, she will stay away from his brother.

We're talking about a girl who doesn't have enough morals to keep herself away from her boyfriend's bro - clearly she's not capable of feeling low about herself.

If he is to f*ck her one last time, she'll walk away feeling like she's all that. She'll most probably think he couldn't resist her. I doubt her ego needs that kind of boost.

awwwwwwwww baby gurl U've been thru that?? Aww Im Sorry baby gurl

@2c

i feel u girl, guess u right.

follow ur heart

'Bonk her ass off!'

lol

u don't need to hurt her physically. U'll definitely not want to continue with such a person, so, just leave her, and find another.

well, i really appreciate all that you've all said. I will like to say thank you very much.i believe so much that there is nothing i can do again.the deed has been done! you have all advice me so well and in fact i am impressed. i will also want to say thanx to those that actually initiated a site such as this. Is wonderful!
I felt i have all in my care and that i have people though i don't know in my care to share my feelings with. I thank you very much.

As for the girl, i have ignored her and asked her to stay off me. for my bros, he is very sorry.you know i can't kill him.i just have to forgive him but i don't think i can forget.

seun, a kudos to this great work.

there aint no love like a brothers love for his brother.

yeah, i comend you for forgiving him. dont worry, you gon get a better girl and remember to tell her to stay 200 meters away from your brother.

My comment here is that u have to watch ur brother closely. Ur "Brother" uh?. Did he know that u two are going out? If yes dont allow him much space in your matrimonial home. Anything cud happen u knw. Be warn!!!!! if he couldnt control his drives towards ur girl, i doubt it if ur wife could not be the same victim sumday!

@topic
Pally, u still dey ask?. The girl na every (as Faze go talk). Bone

Must u be taught everything,she''s obviously an Alan Sharer[shearer].

I think big bros is doing u a favour, seriously - cos obviously, u are not doing your job!

Sorry bros and take heart but then becareful, with ur bros, too bad oh for him to do that.
Abi na d girl go ask am abi na ur bros get eye no say una 2 dey common and na dat one sweet tam abi ur bros too no get chick??

@ seun,
who said anything about being physical?
they only advised him to be more PHysical in bed not with his fist.

@ post,
well i dont support it and its bad for a bro to do that to his younger one.
shows he is jealous of u or something.
thats unhealthy sibbling rivalry.

@ poster
I will go straight to the Big Bros and ask him myself.Some girls are professional liars.

yeh guy take heart but wait oh if dis girl luv u she no go do dis kain thing.
abi u no sabi do am well well.hmm

shegirl71:

@ poster
I will go straight to the Big Bros and ask him myself.Some girls are professional liars.

Ask him what
God help you, if he didn't beat hell out of you.

How about confronting your brother about this issue? and also let your parents know what your brother did and if it all comes out that girl would have the worst reputation and that would be damage enough to her life.

In Nigeria people care too much about saving your family name and reputation. if you mess with her rep she would back off.

Guy no bounce d chic just continue banging her till she tire from brothers banging.

I say forgive her cos nobody is perfect.

Thereafter you can open your eye carefully and be on the look out for any junior bros with a really fine babe.  

Caveat emptor: It doesnt always end well and you may not be as successful as your snr bros.