Your wedding is tomorrow, your kits and kins from far and wide are in town for the wedding of the century, distinguished members of the royal families and govt dignitaries, old school mates,professional colleagues etc are painting the town red just for you. But, while exchanging pleasantries with few friends in a pre wedding party, he/she disappeared to Bleep an old fling. You walked into your hotel room and caught them butt naked in bed. Will you cancel the wedding because of that or will you let it go and continue the wedding?

What if the cheater is the man, do you think your family and his family will find it funny that you are canceling the wedding because of that after all men unofficially obtain cheating licenses in Nigeria.

I'd cancel ma wedding if she cheated 3 seconds before i say "I DO"

Marriage canceled.

Cancellation Mehn! Fa Realz!

I'd cancel ma wedding if she cheated 3 seconds before i say "I DO"

Will you expect her to do the same to you because you are capable of such behaviour?

Cancellation Mehn! Fa Realz!

But you once claimed here you'll forgive cheating to a considerable extent. If that was his first cheating, what happened to your much publicized forgiveness?

Cancell the wedding and be happy it did not happen on the night after your wedding. If I did that then he should cancell the wedding too. What the point of starting off the marriage with distrust, guilt and anger. It only does disservice to the institution of marriage.

DeepZone:

Your wedding is tomorrow, your kits and kins from far and wide are in town for the wedding of the century, distinguished members of the royal families and govt dignitaries, old school mates,professional colleagues etc are painting the town red just for you. But, while exchanging pleasantries with few friends in a pre wedding party, he/she disappeared to Bleep an old fling. You walked into your hotel room and caught them butt naked in bed. Will you cancel the wedding because of that or will you let it go and continue the wedding?

What if the cheater is the man, do you think your family and his family will find it funny that you are canceling the wedding because of that after all men unofficially obtain cheating licenses in Nigeria.

Uhunnmmmm, what is he/she looking for in an hotel room b4 he was caught by the bride/groom
which means say na the same both of them wan do,perhaps deh do self.
man post some thing reasonable some other time have read and heard bout this same old story.can't even remember.

DeepZone:

But you once claimed here you'll forgive cheating to a considerable extent. If that was his first cheating, what happened to your much publicized forgiveness?

eh eh please quote where I stated that so I can see for myself, c'mon, this is a day before my weddding!

Uhunnmmmm, what is he/she looking for in an hotel room before he was caught by the bride/groom
which means say na the same both of them wan do,perhaps deh do self.
man post some thing reasonable some other time have read and heard bout this same old story.can't even remember.

Local man; You forgot that most couples that wed out here operate from a hotel room even if they live in town.

eh eh please quote where I stated that so I can see for myself, c'mon, this is a day before my weddding!

I can remember clearly that you once preached the gospel of forgiveness when your guy cheats but not up to 3x. may be am wrong, ma bad.

DeepZone:

Will you expect her to do the same to you because you are capable of such behaviour?

Let her do the same thing if she wants.

Let her do the same thing if she wants.

Get ready for that now because your weenie is restless.

DeepZone:

Local man; You forgot that most couples that wed out here operate from a hotel room even if they live in town.

see internaltional man,
mumu even if them use hotel room na him make the bride/groom deh open all the hotel rooms,
talk 2 me,

sorry, posted this twice

READ IT BELOW THIS ONE.

Everybody is canceling the wedding up there.
This is a very sensitive matter.

I will have to sit her down and find out why she did that.

What if she was being blackmailed
by someone who wanted to reveal her past life by demanding for sex?
(Peharps she was a prostitute and the guy knows and threatened to reveal that with pictures and she wanted to seal that with sex)
(bad move many will say but what if she doesnt want the hubby to know at all)
I am sure that many of us guys will prefer not to know
that our wives were prostitutes rather than forgiving them.

What if she did that just to secure your future relationship with her
which could be in jeopardy if she didnt do that?
A lot of strange things happen in our imperfect world
and thats why i advice that people should be cautious
when they make decisions that involve other human beings.

SAM MILLA:

Everybody is canceling the wedding up there.
This is a very sensitive matter.

I will have to sit her down and find out why she did that.

What if she was being blackmailed
by someone who wanted to reveal her past life by demanding for sex?
(Peharps she was a prostitute and the guy knows and threatened to reveal that with pictures and she wanted to seal that with sex)
(bad move many will say but what if she doesnt want the hubby to know at all)
I am sure that many of us guys will prefer not to know
that our wives were prostitutes rather than forgiving them.

What if she did that just to secure your future relationship with her
which could be in jeopardy if she didnt do that?
A lot of strange things happen in our imperfect world
and thats why i advice that people should be cautious
when they make decisions that involve other human beings.

Bros, i nor wan know wetin make am do the thing. It's better to let her go rather than live with the fact that she was caught cheating .

Caught them butt naked? O Ti Laaaaaaaaaaaaaa
No Question about it, bye bye

I don't see how I can look her in her face and say "I Do" cuz the images of him on top of her will cloud my mind. I'll cancel it.

Everybody is canceling the wedding up there.
This is a very sensitive matter.

I will have to sit her down and find out why she did that.

What if she was being blackmailed
by someone who wanted to reveal her past life by demanding for sex?
(Peharps she was a prostitute and the guy knows and threatened to reveal that with pictures and she wanted to seal that with sex)
(bad move many will say but what if she doesnt want the hubby to know at all)
I am sure that many of us guys will prefer not to know
that our wives were prostitutes rather than forgiving them.

What if she did that just to secure your future relationship with her
which could be in jeopardy if she didnt do that?
A lot of strange things happen in our imperfect world
and thats why i advice that people should be cautious
when they make decisions that involve other human beings.

You are a very considerate man. Prolly one in every 10M men in Nigeria.

Bros, i nor wan know wetin make am do the thing. It's better to let her go rather than live with the fact that she was caught cheating

Do you expect her to treat you that way if you were caught pants down?

its not a new thing - next topic - given the chance - i am sure you will fok another on your wedding eve, on your wedding day and even after your wedding day and u will never stop.

DeepZone:

You are a very considerate man. Prolly one in every 10M men in Nigeria.

He is prolly lying. . . .
SAM would faint if he sees his bride to be getting humped doggy-stylishly.
Sit who down for which blackmail. . . . . . .Why didn't she tell me about the blackmail??
Did i just meet her??

Then thou shall have wedding cancelled

tope2000:

Then thou shall have wedding cancelled

just like dat

fine girl, how u dey?

i don't give a damm,
even if the president of america is coming 4 d wedding,
the wedding will be cancelled immediately, and i don't owe anybody any xplanation

You know what on second thought. I might just go thru with it, enjoy the reception, take home the gifts and anull the wedding the next day.

That is a tough one, i will carry one with the marriage, but only me know what i will do later, but she is safe sha

I would not have to anull the marriage cuz here you are not married until you file the marriage licence. I would never file it.

sistawoman:

I would not have to anull the marriage because here you are not married until you file the marriage licence. I would never file it.

so u will marry him and stay in the marriage and be happy ?

gabe_logan:

just like that

fine girl, how u dey?

just like that o
im fine o , u nko?

tope2000:

just like that o
im fine o , u nko?

im kool