there is this guy that broke my heart and dumped me,i sitll love him very well but after all my plea he still went on with some other girls but i dont give a damn to it cos i know he will come back to me but up till date the guy hasnt shown up and the worst part is that i have refused to date any other guy, so i really need advice from my fellow nairalander on what to do about my situation now.

Oka this calls for a dose of Tough Love.

You need to sit up and listen. You need to get over this guy. You are far to good to be wasting your time for some guy to come crawling back. Go and experience a new guy. Who could end up being the best thing in your life.

if he dumped you, then he is not that into to you in the first place. let go and move on. you dont want him to come back because you wouldnt leave alone or better yet he feels sorry for you. dont ever force love, the only person that is irreplacable is God. move on dear and stop dreaming,

chinwe dear, i sympathize with you. but u just have to move on by forgeting this guy.

Templa:

chinwe dear, i sympathize with you. but u just have to move on by forgeting this guy.

I agree!
Sometimes, it' best to just move on.

u must really have low expectations 4rm dis guy 4 u to give him a free-pass card 2 date oda women den reeturn 2 u whenever he likes . . . . , . . . . dn't u think u're makin it all 2 easy 4 him. gosh u're being pathetic move on

Dont be like that girl, ur lettin' me down, he dumped you,translation, I DONT WANT U ANYMORE, get that into your head, its hard 2 get over sm1 u love, but it sh'dn make u stoop so low, stay away from him n eventually you'll 4get him, stop makin him feel that he is more important than he really is, let the pus*yfreak go!