olanajim:

From what I read, the lady indicated the man is unwilling to marry the pregnant woman.

OHH PUHLEASE!!! He's just saying that to make her stay, so selfish of him!
Imagine what would've happened if t he poster was teh one that got pregnant for another man, smh

@ Poster, you guys have come a long way but you need to move on. It's gonna be hard, in fact I should invent another word for "hard", that's how terrible it's gonna be, if you wanna be miserable for the rest of your life then you can stick with him.

but you need to move one, some things happen for a reason.

Don't waste your time over something you cannot change.

ayomifull:

He cheated on you yes idiot! but then how many of them guys are clean? he was only unfurtunate that the other lady was clever enough, boyfriend, fiance, husbands cheat on daily basis but once it doesnt result in pregnancy its coo? I can see some strong feeling from both sides with what you said. Look, that a man cheated (which of course is bad, unGodly and unfair) that does not mean he did not love his g/f or spouse forget about the talk about the guys sleeping with someone because he did not love you. You yourself can say if he loves you or not and when did having a babay for a man makes her his wife? . . .

Busy_body:



He is being forced at gunpoint, :o did you miss the part of the story about the involvement of the [b]the police[/b] Because of this she has to step aside and let the other girl move in till the baby shows face.

The other lady has categorically stated that she does not mind being the second wife. So pray what is Babyooo supposed to do during this waiting period? Wait on the Lord? Prep and psyche her mind and practice the role-play position of first wife. 

Sister, look back, go after the man of your heart, that is if you like the juice of polygamy.

Dont even think bout it. That girl is not going. She is the first wife. He is deceiving you and himself to think he can go ahead with that strategy. He can only say what he wants to do, tomorrow is not in his control.