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My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by maborukoje(f): 11:23pm On Aug 23, 2008
i am worried now my boyfriend left me because he saw me taking just small stout pere should I go and beg him to forgive. Advice please nairalanders.
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by Gamine(f): 11:28pm On Aug 23, 2008
lolol

missus drunkard!

u no even shame

STOUT!

grin grin grin grin grin
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by idupaul: 11:36pm On Aug 23, 2008
maborukoje:

i am worried now my boyfriend left me because he saw me taking just small stout PERE should i go and beg him to forgive .ADVICE PLS NAIRALANDERS

Abeg forget that ur fake boyfriend , he aint worth it, haba for common small stout, what if had seen u smoking weed. abeg shun him. grin
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by henryspice: 3:01am On Aug 24, 2008
it does not really matter dat's wat i think undecided
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by yongbabe(f): 11:17am On Aug 24, 2008
Because u drank stout
Loool, some guys are idiots o!
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by maborukoje(f): 1:22pm On Aug 24, 2008
pc guru:

Brash thats very Harsh. though u rite
Thanks o, i even called him he is not picking my call moreover he also takes STAR and palmwine just because of ordinary small stout mixed with yougurt oooooooooooooo can u imagine,i was even tkin it in my room o not beer parlour  grin angry shocked
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by Nobody: 4:42pm On Aug 24, 2008
which kind combo be stout and yogurt?

anyways, i bow for ur bobo sha oooo.
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by brinebaba(m): 10:32pm On Aug 24, 2008
your bf doesn't want u to drink d 'forbidden drink' . . . lol

i have not seen any adverts on Tv where a lady takes beer/alcohol for d advert!!I hope u get my plight??

Like i always hear frm such adverts,e.g "for d strong men","smart drink for smart men" e.t.c
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by papadims: 10:44pm On Aug 24, 2008
you were wrong to taken that. try and answer this question,
can you drink it publicly?
why did you mix it with yogurt?
can you advise your younger sis to take one?

my sis you are wrong, stop the habit and go plead for mercy, if he refuses forget him, you dont need a drunkard as a guy.
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by onyinye2(f): 12:00am On Aug 25, 2008
he broke up with you for drinking stout. . . . . i have seen everything now. Just waiting for someone to post up that they BF/GF broke up with them because they breathe to loud.
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by maborukoje(f): 12:02am On Aug 25, 2008
papa_dims:

you were wrong to taken that. try and answer this question,
can you drink it publicly?
why did you mix it with yogurt?
can you advise your younger sis to take one?

my sis you are wrong, stop the habit and go plead for mercy, if he refuses forget him, you don't need a drunkard as a guy.

NO i cant take it publicly,dat was d reason why i took at home,and i mixed it wiht yougurt so i wont get drunk,and if my junior si like it she can take
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by debosky(m): 12:05am On Aug 25, 2008
small stout PERE! grin grin grin grin

abeg forget the guy jo, as long as you aren't a drunkard there is no problem. In fact, if you are a fine girl I can be your new boyfriend. tongue

we'll drink our small stout + yoghurt in peace cheesy
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by agaba123(m): 12:06am On Aug 25, 2008
That guy is not good for you. He is a typical naija guy who is still living 100 years behind when they believe a woman who drinks alcohol is a  halot.

Leave him.

DO NOT BEG HIM.

drink Nigeria stout where he will see you.
If you can handle it, what's his problem. Just do not get drunk so that you won't be stupid
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by idupaul: 12:08am On Aug 25, 2008
debosky:

small stout PERE! grin grin grin grin

abeg forget the guy jo, as long as you aren't a drunkard there is no problem. In fact, if you are a fine girl I can be your new boyfriend. tongue

we'll drink our small stout + yoghurt in peace cheesy

lol grin grin grin grin
abeg follow debosky and u mite even be able to take hennessy and yoghurt grin
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by TheSly: 12:11am On Aug 25, 2008
Ok no need to fret. . . . .Lemme explain how your Guy sees you cool

From your guy's view. . . . . .
It shows how irresponsible and uncultured you are and prolly. . . . . . .
He thought you would be a menace should he consider walking down the aisle with the likes of you. sad
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by maborukoje(f): 12:13am On Aug 25, 2008
brine baba:

your boyfriend doesn't want u to drink d 'forbidden drink' . . . lol

i have not seen any adverts on Tv where a lady takes beer/alcohol for d advert!!I hope u get my plight??

Like i always hear frm such adverts,e.g "for d strong men","smart drink for smart men" e.t.c


frm all d advert have been seeing girls are alwys involve,tke guiness 4 example dont u see girls and as a COMMUNICATOR we are taught ADVERT and dis type of ADVERT is called DRINK APPEAL.thanks
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by maborukoje(f): 12:56am On Aug 25, 2008
some of you hv girl friends who shayo so y are u criticising me
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by agaba123(m): 12:58am On Aug 25, 2008
maborukoje:

some of you hv girl friends who shayo so y are u criticising me
You seem to see only the criticisms. Why not look at both sides. At least someone like me will not take you if you will not be able to manage a bottle of small stout
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by KarmaMod(f): 12:59am On Aug 25, 2008
Does he drink?
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by KarmaMod(f): 1:04am On Aug 25, 2008
The Sly:

Ok no need to fret. . . . .Lemme explain how your Guy sees you cool

From your guy's view. . . . . .
It shows how irresponsible and uncultured you are and prolly. . . . . . .
He thought you would be a menace should he consider walking down the aisle with the likes of you. sad

Do you agree with him?

What are you doing with a dude that drinks palmwine anyway? Is he 80 yrs old? Yuck
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by Nobody: 6:55am On Aug 25, 2008
KarmaMod:

Do you agree with him?

What are you doing with a dude that drinks palmwine anyway? Is he 80 years old? Yuck

SMH at this comment!
whats the problem with palmwine?
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by tammyswits(f): 7:06am On Aug 25, 2008
A woman who drinks is a turn off to some men, in this case your man involved, on the other hand maybe he's been looking for a reason to break up with you, sorry sweety! Theaz life after alcohol, Oops!
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by topup: 7:34am On Aug 25, 2008
Are. You. Sure. That's. Why?

Simple, because it just seems to me to be quite a dramatic ending to your relationship. There were no words said, he just saw you with it and left? Wow, drama queen! Anyways, maybe he has had issues with alcohol in the past.

If you love him more than the alcohol, then why not, but to be honest, he really didn't leave anything for discussion. If you are willing to leave all alcohol behind, then chase away (if you think he's worth it, because you're going to regret changing for someone who you eventually find out isn't worth it).

Finally, no, alcohol isn't just meant for guys, last time I checked it was unisex. Though it may also come in colours of blue and pink, it can be enjoyed by everyone.

You need to ask for the true opinion from your boyfriend, this case sounds too simple to be true.

Boy - 'It was the bottle in your hand that made me run.'
Girl - *Smashes bottle*
Boy & Girl run off into the sunset together and live happily ever after.
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by Huawei: 10:50am On Aug 27, 2008
u dont have to be a drunkard b4 u marry pere will surely turn to pupo embarassed[color=#990000][/color]
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by spikedcylinder: 11:30am On Aug 27, 2008
Hypocrites. . . . all these silly people that subscribe to the "men can drink alcohol but women can't" school of thought.
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by Ibime(m): 11:54am On Aug 27, 2008
KarmaMod:

Do you agree with him?

What are you doing with a dude that drinks palmwine anyway? Is he 80 years old? Yuck

Wetin palmwine do you na? Palmwine is my favourite beverage oh! Got 2 bottles in my fridge right now. Keeps you young  wink

Anyway, ladies should stick to classy drinks like Wine, Rose, Southern Comfort and Coke etc. . . . .a lady drinking stout looks a little crude and uncouth.
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by Nobody: 12:15pm On Aug 27, 2008
@ spikedcylinder

Let us assume he caught her smoking , from your inference if a man can drink so can she which also means if a man can smoke ,

The point there is what would you do if you caught your brothers wife , as you are a lady and might not see it the way we guys do , smoking and feeling at ease about it.

This is Africa and it is regarded as a manly thing to do
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by smooooooth: 12:26pm On Aug 27, 2008
small stout!!!! what a shame, the guy was disappointed, all that toughness about u, and na small stout. when he has been thinking you do gulder mixed with shekpe and igbo water. and was even more annoying you dey mix am with yoghurt.

please send sms to am say u just felt like taking soft that day, make he no vex. i am sure he will understand and forgive.
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by spikedcylinder: 12:32pm On Aug 27, 2008
apocalypse:

@ spikedcylinder

Let us assume he caught her smoking , from your inference if a man can drink so can she which also means if a man can smoke ,

The point there is what would you do if you caught your brothers wife , as you are a lady and might not see it the way we guys do , smoking and feeling at ease about it.

This is Africa and it is regarded as a manly thing to do

And why would I be "catching" my brother's wife? Whats my business with her habits?

As regards to your comment about Africa and manliness, I guess my first post was directed at the likes of you.

Sheesh!
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by abikelat(f): 12:39pm On Aug 27, 2008
Omo nuffin do you jooo, keep it up,forget the guy
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by Nobody: 12:46pm On Aug 27, 2008
@ spikedcylinder

   Don't need to get upbeat bout it am just trying to make a point here.Be true to yourself , you wouldn't like the idea that your brothers wife smokes.

   I am teetotal and I don't smoke , even if I can stand my friends drinking or smoking I wouldn't want to be friends with a woman who does let alone my g/f


  p/s: I no be SU but I believe what is bad for the man is badder is worse for the woman
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by Seun(m): 12:48pm On Aug 27, 2008
he also takes STAR and palmwine
Forget the guy.  If he drinks, then he should not have a problem with you drinking.

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