my problem is that my bf still talks to his ex and hides it from me. i found it out on a networking site and i also found that he went and met her a month ago but his ex clearly written thanx to his friends for sending him there. when i asked him about it he denied it and asked for a week's time to figure out and fix the matter. he is a very caring and loving guy. he loves me alot and is always there for me but now i have trust issue with him. please suggest me what should i do. i dont want to lose him because i love him alot, and i know he loves me but i cant take his ex taking to him. please advice me, i m very sad and depressed,

If you want him to stop hiding it from you, then you need to accept that he sorta still likes his ex.
If you want him to stop lying to you, then you need to start accepting the truth like a woman.

A r/ship without trust is nothing. U have to trust him. I also sense insecurity from what u typed. Allow him the one week he asked for. When the one week is over,have an heart to heart talk with him.
If he's yours,no one would come between both of u!

@ topic

He loves you bla bla
He cares for you bla bla
bla bla bla

Why do you lack so much confidence?

michelin89:

@ topic
He loves you bla bla
He cares for you bla bla
bla bla bla
Why do you lack so much confidence?

even 19yr old dey give advice on relationship??!!

na wa oh!

gabe_logan:

even 19yr old dey give advice on relationship??!!

na wa oh!

wisdom is not by age man !



@poster, give him a timeout !

The guy and the ex still have feelings for one another, and i am not sure if u have what it takes to make it go away, u might have to just accept it or risk losing him entirely, and u cld be the type that causes volcanic eruption when u face a situation with ur man, so to avound another tsunami, he might chose to lie to you.
Approach him with all gentility and dont let him think u are jealous, even though, u know u are jealous.

gabe_logan:

even 19yr old dey give advice on relationship??!!

na wa oh!

*walks away*

be patient. tell him your mind. let him speak to you, then study him so well.

Your ex is your ex. I dont know why if he wanted to be friends with her he would be hiding it. Your boyfriend is being dodgy and that is not a good sign. it might be that he has reached a weak point and is trying to see if the pasture is greener on the other side. am not trying to hurt you, but it just doesnt sound right for him to behave like this. You can be friends with ur ex's without hiding it, dont you think? Like the rest have said talk to him but be careful with your heart incase this is the end.

I have been in this situation before.i think he still has feelings for his ex,thats why he is hiding it from you.Well give him the one week he asked for.My advice to you is that,you should prepare your heart for the worst.i dont want you to get hurt.

i talk to me ex oh. . . he is on of my best buds and i dont hide the fact

if he feels the need to hide it from u then u hav cause to worry sha. . . for all u knw they might just be friends

i suggest u make it clear that he gets his priorties straight, have a clear discussion where u make ur feelings known, then dont mention it again unless u hav evidence confirming ur suspicions

Hmn poster, thats tricky. Did he leave her for you?? Or did she leave him first before he met you?? If its the later, then you dont need to worry. . If its the former, then too bad . . Nemesis has caught up with you for snatching the guy from the poor girl. What most girls dont understand is that when a guy leaves his girl for them, there's 80% chance he's going back to her after getting what he wants from you. And he's hiding it from you . . . Sorry dear, you are being duped

But HR's right. Talk to him about it, then just ignore it, act like you dont know what's happening. Time will tell whats' on his mind.

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iice:

Please some people can be friends with their exes without it meaning they are in love with the person.
I thought in a relationship, you guys can talk about stuffs between yourselves sheeshh

i agree

very easy, beat the truth out of him.
ti owo iya ba te, he go talk quick quick.

I think the most important thing is TRUST.
If you don't trust him then there is no point wasting your time.

Ex babes! currently hanging out with my ex simply because my babe is not always around. I'd advice u spend more time with him and show lots of commitmnt. okay?