can u go out with two people and love them equally. ( male or female) let me hear your views please.

so u r calling another womans man ur boyfriend?are u mad

Leave the married man alone, as simple as that and if he kills you, you deserve it in the first place for shacking up anotha woman's man.

i want 2 quite d affair but he refused. infact i thearten to call his wife he said i should go ahead, dat he must get me pregant. b/4 anything else. wht do i do

why did u enter a relationship wt a mrried man in d first place?wen u were busy enjoying another womans man u did not know u will call his wife right?now dat u want to settle down ,u want to call d wife isnt it?watever seed u sow on earth u will reap,im not cursing u but get ready to cry d same way d other woman cried wen she noticed her husbands unfaithfulness

dis is life

@ dreswa20

You know what darling? I hope he kills you. I really do.

spikedcylinder:

@ dreswa20

You know what darling? I hope he kills you. I really do.

not only killing her spikey,but burning her too

this is crazy,why can't we babes get our own man instead of going for another womans man,now that she wants to settle down ,she wants peace


poster u r not getting any peace ,except God himself decides to have mercy upon u

Poster what you should do?? Check the kind of men you associate with? All this pple crying wolf are the ones causing problmes for us. Like you dont know all these threats are just a tactis to get you. He wants to get you pregnant first. Ha.  .  Ha , If he loves you so much let him divorce his wife and marry you. Wait let his wife catch you first.

@poster,

obviously you are not ready to leave the married man. . . if you were, u know exactly what to do and you won't be here on NL asking stupid questions.

my dear people in Nairaland pls 4give me, it was not really my fault. i had heartbreak three times even dis my boyfriend when he travelled i realise dat while we were going out he had other two girl he is going out with.

it was as a result of the heartbreak frm young men dat my friends advice me to moving a married man chance, dis married man is just 2years my senior is not dat is old, anyway i no is bad pls 4give me, dont curse me i run to u 4 help dnt kill me.

plsssssssssssss i beggggggggggggggggg u

are u serious?

u need to change and make new friends . . . besides have you gone to them for advice and what did they tell you to do since they got you in this mess in the first place.

dreswa20:

my dear people in Nairaland please 4give me, it was not really my fault. i had heartbreak three times even this my boyfriend when he travelled i realise that while we were going out he had other two girl he is going out with.

it was as a result of the heartbreak frm young men that my friends advice me to moving a married man chance, this married man is just 2years my senior is not that is old, anyway i no is bad please 4give me, don't curse me i run to u 4 help dnt kill me.

plsssssssssssss i beggggggggggggggggg u

First take responsibility for your actions and stop blaming other people. Take a hard look at yourself. You dont have to keep making yourself cheap for men. There's no law that says you must date. People break people's heart everyday but it dosent justify anything. Even if you continue with this guy, in the long run, you'll get hurt. I'll advice you to leave him and damn the consequence. _{thats if you are not enjoting too much to let go}

dreswa20:

my dear people in Nairaland please 4give me, it was not really my fault. i had heartbreak three times even this my boyfriend when he travelled i realise that while we were going out he had other two girl he is going out with.

it was as a result of the heartbreak frm young men that my friends advice me to moving a married man chance, this married man is just 2years my senior is not that is old, anyway i no is bad please 4give me, don't curse me i run to u 4 help dnt kill me.

plsssssssssssss i beggggggggggggggggg u

I feel sorry for you.Nice post

Change your friends and leave the married man.
You need your own man not sm1 else's hubby.

thanks MISSY B 4 ur advice i will.

dreswa20:

my dear people in Nairaland please 4give me, it was not really my fault. i had heartbreak three times even this my boyfriend when he travelled i realise that while we were going out he had other two girl he is going out with.

it was as a result of the heartbreak frm young men that my friends advice me to moving a married man chance, this married man is just 2years my senior is not that is old, anyway i no is bad please 4give me, don't curse me i run to u 4 help dnt kill me.

plsssssssssssss i beggggggggggggggggg u

Eeya.

You need to know that even a dog who's main purpose in life is to be loyal to his master can let you down sometimes, talk less of some men.
The fact that he's married makes it more likely that he'll break your heart so why are you wasting your time?

Change your number, dont speak to him when he comes knocking and have an older brother or other male friend around to help him understand he should back off.


You have to go cold turkey if you want to end it. By no means should you accept any gifts from him.

that he must get me pregant. b/4 anything else. wht do i do

I seem to like this guy ooo,  the Alpha male optimus,    he must be the long awaited pregnator sorry terminator

Be the first woman to ave 2 husbands
marry the one in nigeria
and marry the one out of the country.

well you actually never mentioned that the married guy rapes you since he wants to impregnate you which means that you are a willing participant. Why not spare the guy who came from out of town the drama and dump him and continue living the life of a home breaker.
Remember that no good is going to come to you until you do right by that man's wife and the guy from out of town

omega25red:

well you actually never mentioned that the married guy rapes you since he wants to impregnate you which means that you are a willing participant. Why not spare the guy who came from out of town the drama and dump him and continue living the life of a home breaker.
Remember that no good is going to come to you until you do right by that man's wife and the guy from out of town

how does she do that?

@poster
are u male or female, just saw a post where u sounded male and here ur female, i think all ur posts are lies.

First of all ask God for forgiveness, then avoid the married man with numerous girl friends and everything about him.

Dreswa20 or whatever, you are a stupid ass bitch, you really are. And if you call his wife, it aint him you gotta worry about killing you.

But for real, you need to value yourself a little more than that. Do not let him make decisions for you. Become a woman and take charge of your life. This man is useless, and here you are letting him use you. Have more self esteem honey. everyone gets their hearts broken, you just have to dust yourself off and try again. NEVER GO AFTER A MARRIED MAN, that is stupid. And those dumb ass friends of yours, dump them.

Please I beg you on everything that is holy do not call his wife.

So you've been heartbroken before? So friggin damn what? So have a lot of ppl? That u've been heartbroken b4 does not excuse what u did. I'v been heartbroken b4,bt did i go hook up wit a married man? No,i dint. There are som things in life that u dont mess with. There are some things in life that are sacred,& marriage,family,those r some of them,& u just showed u hav absolutely no respect for 'em.

All these gals won't learn.The love of money, Well, you can marry him, after all you want married men because single guys were giving you heartbreaks, why want out now, that is if you really want out.For him to threaten to have you pregnant, means you are still rocking his bed.Good luck!

All these new members and their wahala.

Drama queen.

You knew he was married but you chose to commit adultery, when it's time to dance to the tone of the music,you come here to ask for help.

^ ewu kama nwanyị