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"Oh You Need To Grow Up" She Says "But I Am. . . Right?" He Answers. by Sisikill: 11:44pm On Sep 04, 2008 |
Oh Grow up At one time in our lives those words have been flung in our faces (please don't tell me I'm the only one) but what exactly is being “grown up”? Take for instance this little true life situation from a guy’s perspective. I am currently dating a great girl. She is gorgeous, she can cook like no one I have met, she's smart, funny, and all around a great girl. When other girls hear, or meet, my girlfriend they always get bitter and give me that angry girl look. Why? Because I am almost 30 and she is 21. When women get to a certain age, they start to worry about getting married, they want their white picket fence, their 2.5kids and a dog and if a guy doesn’t give in to these demands, he is dubbed immature, a boy, not willing to grow up. Are they right or is it Saltiness ![]() |
Re: "Oh You Need To Grow Up" She Says "But I Am. . . Right?" He Answers. by NegroNtns(m): 12:21am On Sep 05, 2008 |
Moremi, nice and refreshing to see something other than bromance, ![]() Hey, 30 and 21 is not far apart in my opinion. Those women are envious and had to pin their envy on something, the age gap, though balanced, was a quick and obvious one for them to pick and tear into. Its human nature! If it does not meet our approval then we tear it down with our tongue, forget idealism! |
Re: "Oh You Need To Grow Up" She Says "But I Am. . . Right?" He Answers. by Akinagirl(f): 12:24am On Sep 05, 2008 |
To each his own. Not everybody wants the same things out of life. |
Re: "Oh You Need To Grow Up" She Says "But I Am. . . Right?" He Answers. by onyinye2(f): 12:26am On Sep 05, 2008 |
Awwww. . . . . the man really does need to grow up. I mean only a baby boy will give a damn about what folk say about his relationship. Over here whining and balling. I feel sorry for the poor 21 y.o. girl. She has to put with this on a constant basis. @post What the woman wants weighs a bit more than what the man wants depending on the couple. |
Re: "Oh You Need To Grow Up" She Says "But I Am. . . Right?" He Answers. by Sisikill: 12:32am On Sep 05, 2008 |
Negro_Ntns: *Bows from waist down* It pleases me that you are pleased, Sensei! ![]() @ Topic Yeah, it's HUMAN NATURE when it is a guy but FREAK OF NATURE when it is a woman. I told one of my friends who is a guy that I wasn't ready for kids and even when I get married, I don't plan on having 'em until at least 2 yrs into the marriage and you could have sworn I just told him I had a body in my freezer with the look he gave me. "What are you talking about? If you are not ready for kids why are you getting married then?". Imagine that! ![]() |
Re: "Oh You Need To Grow Up" She Says "But I Am. . . Right?" He Answers. by NegroNtns(m): 12:33am On Sep 05, 2008 |
What the woman wants weighs a bit more than what the man wants depending on the couple Excuse me ![]() ![]() |
Re: "Oh You Need To Grow Up" She Says "But I Am. . . Right?" He Answers. by onyinye2(f): 12:33am On Sep 05, 2008 |
Negro_Ntns:You have been excused. ![]() |
Re: "Oh You Need To Grow Up" She Says "But I Am. . . Right?" He Answers. by Sisikill: 12:35am On Sep 05, 2008 |
onyinye2: Rotflmao! Oyinye, I LIKE YOU!!!!!!! @ Topic So because she wants something, he must want it at the same time? Selfishness!! |
Re: "Oh You Need To Grow Up" She Says "But I Am. . . Right?" He Answers. by Sisikill: 12:39am On Sep 05, 2008 |
Seriously, I think it is STUPID to measure one's grown-upness on whether or not they want kids or get married You have a job not moooching off others. You have a place of your own, not slumming with your parents. You pay your Bills But because you are not married and have kids, you are immature? Forgetaboutit! |
Re: "Oh You Need To Grow Up" She Says "But I Am. . . Right?" He Answers. by NegroNtns(m): 12:39am On Sep 05, 2008 |
Yeah, it's HUMAN NATURE when it is a guy but FREAK OF NATURE when it is a woman rotflmao, I can only respond from a male perspective, and yes you are right about the FREAKY gender. But you know you are an exception. When you get a minute please hit me on chat or email Sisi. |
Re: "Oh You Need To Grow Up" She Says "But I Am. . . Right?" He Answers. by NegroNtns(m): 12:42am On Sep 05, 2008 |
You have been excused.You are not right!! So because she wants something, he must want it at the same time? Selfishness!! We are created to be waited on. Oh, Im dead meat for saying that. |
Re: "Oh You Need To Grow Up" She Says "But I Am. . . Right?" He Answers. by onyinye2(f): 12:46am On Sep 05, 2008 |
Negro_Ntns:I couldn't be any more right. |
Re: "Oh You Need To Grow Up" She Says "But I Am. . . Right?" He Answers. by Hannibal: 12:48am On Sep 05, 2008 |
Sisikill: Blame women for the phrase "grow up". They use it more than men. As soon as they suspect u are not ready to propose in the forseeable future, they bawl "grow up" with that evil/sonorous voice. ![]() |
Re: "Oh You Need To Grow Up" She Says "But I Am. . . Right?" He Answers. by Sisikill: 12:49am On Sep 05, 2008 |
Negro_Ntns: Yeah, Yeah. . . it's now about knowing from the male perspective. Okay. |
Re: "Oh You Need To Grow Up" She Says "But I Am. . . Right?" He Answers. by Sisikill: 12:51am On Sep 05, 2008 |
Hannibal: Aaaah Yes, let's blame women for all that is wrong with the world. Seriously, you guys need to stop the blame game and grow up. ![]() |
Re: "Oh You Need To Grow Up" She Says "But I Am. . . Right?" He Answers. by onyinye2(f): 12:52am On Sep 05, 2008 |
Sisikill: ![]() |
Re: "Oh You Need To Grow Up" She Says "But I Am. . . Right?" He Answers. by TheSly: 12:58am On Sep 05, 2008 |
Hannibal:I'm wid you on this one hommie. Especially the frustrated parrot-like ones. Irritants! ![]() |
Re: "Oh You Need To Grow Up" She Says "But I Am. . . Right?" He Answers. by Hannibal: 1:03am On Sep 05, 2008 |
Sisikill: Who got deceived in Eden by a mere serpent?
When y'all stop, we would follow ur foot-steps. The Sly: I can't stand those ones. They moan, gripe, whine, whinge, grunt, grouse, groan and grumble over every little thing. Em kinds should BABE up. |
Re: "Oh You Need To Grow Up" She Says "But I Am. . . Right?" He Answers. by topup: 1:04am On Sep 05, 2008 |
I'm a little confused about this one. Honestly, if I told a guy to grow up, it would imply that he settle down with one female, who he intends to spend the rest of his life with, if he chooses not to marry, that is his choice, I believe friends are only warning the guy to grow up because it is better to do it now, when you have so many options open to you, when you are older, health and age work against you, you can't change you're mind at the age of 70 to have kids with your 65 years old wife, maybe they are simply telling you that you are at your prime. I would most likely tell players to grow up and wouldn't bother interfering with any decent guy's life, as long as he is being mature, god centred and sensible it doesn't matter which direction he takes his life. When a player reaches the age of 30, really it is time to grow up, to finally accept responsibility and behave like a man. To invest in things that don't only benefit you but to help others as well. |
Re: "Oh You Need To Grow Up" She Says "But I Am. . . Right?" He Answers. by Hannibal: 1:07am On Sep 05, 2008 |
topup: When a player reaches 30?? Why not 40? |
Re: "Oh You Need To Grow Up" She Says "But I Am. . . Right?" He Answers. by topup: 1:34am On Sep 05, 2008 |
30 his closest friends and family will say grow up. When it gets to 40, when people hear his age, even strangers will wonder where the wife and kids are. It's the culture. |
Re: "Oh You Need To Grow Up" She Says "But I Am. . . Right?" He Answers. by Akinagirl(f): 3:46am On Sep 05, 2008 |
Oh my gosh, this is a silly thread, everyone, GROW UP! hehe |
Re: "Oh You Need To Grow Up" She Says "But I Am. . . Right?" He Answers. by spikedcylinder: 11:31am On Sep 05, 2008 |
Hannibal: Oh! That fable again. I'm guessing if the snow white story somehow got its way into the bible, dwarfs would be blamed for all of mankind's problems. @topic Sisi, I think the issue usually arises because a lot of men don't state specifically BEFORE the start of the relationship (or whatever) that they would NEVER be interested in marraige, children and the whole picket fence scenario. Smack dab in the middle of the relationship, they open the can of worms and then women become whinners because they WANT yer know. . . . . .the whole enchilada. |
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