Why is it that ladies have a phobia for mother in laws,whats up with wives and mother in law

its all mind set, most ppl believe what they see and hear. they go by wat the society dictates to them. no mind of their own. most gals believe mother inlaws anr their enemies, witches and are all out to frustrate them.

skipo87 thanks its not mindset i feel it has to do with d love of a mother and maybe competition u know am a girl and i guess its a major problem especially in nigeria

Guys, everybody is free to air his/her view about this issue but I tell you, it is better experienced than told. Some mothers-in-law are very good but majority are crazy.

Hear me, my mother hated my wife badly from the first day I married her simply because I did not marry the village girl she arranged for me. She arranged that one so that she could use her as a remote control over me (I know my mother very well). When what she planned did not work, she openly boasted that the one I married must give way for her to do what she wants and 6 years later (just last may), my wife died. To tell you the truth, my mother was very happy and she kept telling people that what she wants has happened. She stayed away from the burial. Can you imagine?

Know that I am the 1st son and I provide for everybody 'cos dad is no more.

What can you guys say about this.