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How Tolerable Is Your Past? by 2dye4(m): 11:37pm On Sep 24, 2008 |
i was in d galleria 2 weeks ago with a friend who walks there, while were there catching up on ol' times in the lounge close to ticketin area, we met another friend of his who had come to see a movie with his fiancee and after the brief introduction and small talks, he left with his fiancee to get tickets for a movie. while he did the purchasin of the tickets, his fiancee stood some meters away gazing at a movie poster and then these 3 guys emerge. to everyone's surprise one of them screams her name, rushes over to her and hits on her bum. the lady though embarrassed, greeted the guys while that particular guy held her in a suggestive manner while she tried to discharge them. it was obvious they had a past together. the shock and awe on her fiance's face was so glaring but surprisingly, he walked over greeted the guys and left. i admired his composure i met friend again later today and he told that his friend had plans of calling the wedding off, he said even though he knew her past was not particularly spotless, that incidence indicates it mite be more ugly that he could imagine, and he cannot stand the thought of more ugly things happenin when they are wedded. he said the only condition is if she comes clean totally to all, do u tell your lover, spouse, fiance, husband, wife the whole truth about your past or do u give the revised standard edition? also if u were to tell the truth about ur past, who u were, where u have been, things u did , ur regrets how tolerable do u think it will be or are there some secrets u just have to take to ur grave ? |
Re: How Tolerable Is Your Past? by benincitys(f): 1:27am On Sep 25, 2008 |
yes i do i have no secrets for my husband as long as there is love . |
Re: How Tolerable Is Your Past? by spikedcylinder: 10:58am On Sep 25, 2008 |
2dye4: How does this make it obvious? He hits her on her bum (which I hardly believe anyway) and that means they had a past? There are some really lousy and brazen guys (and girls), I hope you realise that? |
Re: How Tolerable Is Your Past? by Gamine(f): 11:58am On Sep 25, 2008 |
I dont have a past. Just a BRILLIANT future!! |
Re: How Tolerable Is Your Past? by ayomifull(f): 1:00pm On Sep 25, 2008 |
Gamine: I love that |
Re: How Tolerable Is Your Past? by k1banty(m): 1:31pm On Sep 25, 2008 |
most women will never tell you the truth about their past. if the guy is lucky, he finds out and if not, the past is rested. |
Re: How Tolerable Is Your Past? by Andyjoy(f): 1:58pm On Sep 25, 2008 |
some things in the past are better untold. It could cause another casala. ur present and future is what maters most |
Re: How Tolerable Is Your Past? by kokoye(m): 2:06pm On Sep 25, 2008 |
Can we get serious for a minute?? someone I do not know comes and grab my fiancee's bum and another hold her in a nasty manner , and she does not check them right there , all this in my presence?? Please!!!!!!! I cannot marry a lady who does not command respect and holds herself in high regards. You dont have to say it out, it should be all around you. Thank God I am happily married to a woman of class. |
Re: How Tolerable Is Your Past? by iice(f): 2:20pm On Sep 25, 2008 |
2dye4: Did it ever occur to the man that she may have been a different person in her younger days and has grown into a different person now with him? I will always love my friends I have no regrets, love my past and present (else i wouldn't be who i am) Yes i tell him. Sometimes i fabricate extreme scenarios to just see the look on his face (he doesnt deliver), fortunately have never dated anyone shocked by anything Even my friends aren't shocked by anything |
Re: How Tolerable Is Your Past? by Nobody: 3:19pm On Sep 25, 2008 |
Everyone has a pst and I think it should remain there . . . in the past. I've done several things I'm not proud of, things I wont want to repeat to any person again. So I guess that makes me . . . . bad |
Re: How Tolerable Is Your Past? by 2dye4(m): 10:36pm On Sep 25, 2008 |
spikedcylinder: hon, u really dnt need to believe cos it is what it is. @ all, the past may be history and future sparklin, but how deal when ur past decides to rear its ugly head? -like iice said, who she was them mite be entirely different frm who she is now, but that still prevent the incidence frm happenin - i cant state categorically what her relationship with the guy must av been, but that action speaks volumes. as a lady would any guy just walk up to u and hit ur bum without a prior extended invitation? the chances are slim. - also like iice said, nobody is shocked by ur anything related to u or ur past, i guess thats becos ur honest and bare enouf about it but what of those who are not? |
Re: How Tolerable Is Your Past? by iice(f): 3:44am On Sep 26, 2008 |
Each unto his/her own But i always honesty is good for the relationship especially if its going to be long term. |
Re: How Tolerable Is Your Past? by Boslo: 9:05am On Sep 26, 2008 |
There are some pasts that shld be told and there are some that shld be left untold.For example if You had a child in ur teens,that definitely will still be opened someday no matter how You try to hide it,so is beta You say it out.If there are things that does not av anything to do wit present or future. leave it -File |
Re: How Tolerable Is Your Past? by arianne(f): 11:10am On Sep 29, 2008 |
the whole drama is sickening! cant believe the guy didnt loose it. most guys can be jealous n possessive u know. since he knew she was not a saint from her past, he shouldnt blame her totally, i guess the guys thot she was still d same person she used to be. life has a way of throwin our crap back @ us so i guess she just as to deal. honesty is a relative, some pple just tell u things they think u should know, the rest is for them alone. |
Re: How Tolerable Is Your Past? by Outstrip(f): 3:52pm On Sep 29, 2008 |
Even if he indeed "spanked that ass" How does that prove that she used to play around. I think you should be up front about your past though. She should have used the opportunity to introduce her fiance so that the he goat will have a chance to atleast apologize |
Re: How Tolerable Is Your Past? by arianne(f): 10:32pm On Sep 30, 2008 |
Outstrip: nice thot. only that the guy would be properly introduced to the fiance's jaw-breakin fist! |
Re: How Tolerable Is Your Past? by ikamefa(f): 10:46pm On Sep 30, 2008 |
while i agree with a few posts in here who can stand up and raise his /her head high and say : he or she does not have a past? kokoye: i agree with this ! even if the girl was the worst "ashawo" in that area, she should have put those guys in their place and she should be able to command some respect for herself and her man in that situation. |
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