Based on the nature of relationship I have with my best friend, I would tell her.
Others, a big no-no. Don't want anyone pouring acid in my eye balls while chanting "liar liar pants on fire".

sistawoman:

I have three very best friends and all three I would tell this to. All of my other friends they would find out on their own.

I know that I can tell this to my very best friends because we have all discussed this together. We have decided that we would want to know what the other has seen and what is going on.

With the rest of my friends the relationships are too new to be able to deal with something like this.

My family of course I will tell, in fact one of my best friends, screwed one of my brothers girlfriends and i told my brother. . . it damaged their relationship for a couple of months but did nothing to ours. he understood why i told my brother and understood that i will always tell me brother and respected me more after it came out.

So it really depends on the type of friendship you have with person and what type of person they are. Some can handle the truth and others prefer to burry their heads in the sand.

Usually, men don't have problems discussing stuffs of this nature.
It's a pub/bar discussion. . . . . . . ."Andrew, a geezer is screwing your wife, whatchu gonna do about it?"

well, as for me, i will rather keep my tiny little mouth short.

It depends on d nature of d person and d kind of friendship we have. If she's a very close frnd and i feel she's strong enof 2 handle it,i'd tel her,but if i dont,i'll do 1 of d ffg: 1-confront the guy/gal and hope he/she has the decency to tell my frnd him/herself.
2-keep my mouth shut.afterall,its not my secret to reveal.

it is the best if u just leave it like that.let te guy or the babe find out,sooner or later the truth will receal itself.u culd just put mouth afterwards.

Make una c wetin dey happen for this thread oooooo! It is either u tell or keep ur mouth shut , Period! No long thing.

Gucci, Whats the point. You tell your friend, then soon your friend will go blaming you and if you dont tell, you feel wrong. So what you gonna do? I would just rather keep quiet. Am tired of telling people when the person dont appreciate it.

It Depend on your friend understanding, if it's the one that will go and tell His/Her partner you will no do such a thing and if you guys have come a long way, like you childhood friend, you don't have a choice than to tell him/her.

But it hard for someone to accept the fact.

to everyone

dragonslay:

Gucci, Whats the point. You tell your friend, then soon your friend will go blaming you and if you don't tell, you feel wrong. So what you going to do? I would just rather keep quiet. Am tired of telling people when the person don't appreciate it.

you nailed the nail on its head. its such a confusing situation, i even tried to distance myself a bit from my friend just to avoid feeling the guilt. the worst part is that she goes on ranting about him all day long, and i sometimes want to loose my mouth and just talk, but its so delicate cause she is madly in love.

seal ur mouth guccibabe

jeni_kadi:

seal ur mouth guccibabe

lol!!!!!!

haba

Amebos get a way to tell am without being implicated.

a convo between Nkechi (married), and Tope (Nkechi's friend)

Tope: Nk how now? this one wee you no de greet person again. na because you and your husband de go enjoy for Hilton hotel make you bone me. I de call you no even turn to even say hi. abi you no no my voice again?
Nkechi : which Hilton hotel? me I never see my husband today. which time be this
Tope : eeh  na round 1 Pm yesterday. I think say una de go for special lunch na. No be you? I dig that your skin as e de reflect for the sun. Nne you fine for that hairdo, why you come remove am.
Nkechi : which hairdo? na this i don carry for 2 weeks now. don't worry. But are you sure?  
Tope : stop pretending. haba, your husband even said hi but you wee be my friend no even turn. Don't worry my husband go get money one day and we go go break for hilton (meanwhile tope husband na Oil magnet)
Nkechi : OK ooh.
The message is already passed. NK's husband went to a hotel with some damsel entering a hotel. Nkechi's house will trun to Afghanistan

agaba123:

haba

Amebos get a way to tell am without being implicated.

a convo between Nkechi (married), and Tope (Nkechi's friend)

Tope: Nk how now? this one wee you no de greet person again. na because you and your husband de go enjoy for Hilton hotel make you bone me. I de call you no even turn to even say hi. abi you no no my voice again?
Nkechi : which Hilton hotel? me I never see my husband today. which time be this
Tope : eeh na round 1 Pm yesterday. I think say una de go for special lunch na. No be you? I dig that your skin as e de reflect for the sun. Nne you fine for that hairdo, why you come remove am.
Nkechi : which hairdo? na this i don carry for 2 weeks now. don't worry. But are you sure?
Tope : stop pretending. haba, your husband even said hi but you wee be my friend no even turn. Don't worry my husband go get money one day and we go go break for hilton (meanwhile tope husband na Oil magnet)
Nkechi : OK ooh.
The message is already passed. NK's husband went to a hotel with some damsel entering a hotel. Nkechi's house will trun to Afghanistan

lmaooooo, nice one, thats reallly funny hahahahahahahahahahaaaa