you see a nice looking girl and approach her.
may be bcoz she sense that you are bouyant
financially she falls for you and says she doesn't
have a date.

on the first day you treat her nice. subsequently you
start minimising hands- you don't give har transport
when she visits, etc. you just do what is NORMAL for a girl.

when she ask for money to do her hair-ask her of her parents.
when she ask of credit -ask her who bought the phone.
when she ask of clothes- tell her she can walk naked if she wish.

next- she starts running away calling you stingy, miser, etc
(does it matter) if you are nice you are called FOOL. if you are
good you are called WEAK. what the hell,

, is it complusory that a guy must feed/cater for a girl all in the
name of love? what the hell? what are girls really looking for

Must we contiune to revisit this conversation over and over and over again.

Enough all ready. . . . . Start dating men if you dont like us women. . . . or maybe up your class of women you date.

Tshew.

Why did you give her money in the first place?

spikedcylinder:

Tshew.

Why did you give her money in the first place?

she sort of wanted help or may be lied about
something she needed money for -desperately.

when i succumb, less than a week later another request.
she's always handy withy some tricks. i know not all women
are the same. but isn't wise for a girl to declare what's she's
looking for before 'falling over heels with a guy?'

Cant you ask her intentions/expectations from the start?

For me if want something long term with the guy i can't ask him for money.

Like me hubby, when we met i never ever asked him for money. He would slip money in my purse and fuss at me for not asking him for money. Now that we are married i have no problem telling him to leave a few dollars at home for me before he leaves for work.

If i was just out to play a dude i also had tons of "emergencies" that needed his attention. But a true playa knows how to get the cash w/o raising concern in the dude. And a true playa knows just when in the relationship you should ask for the money.

wen i get home, i will ask my girl, y she choose to friend me, and what is she looking for in me.

I don't like when people generalize like that. It's not all girls. I've never asked for/taken money/credit/transport etc from a guy I was going out with and I'm a girl. And most of my friends would say the same thing cos of self-respect. Especially when the relationship is new,

self respect?

some ladies are missing that.

Having a girl who is not overtly concerned with money is a blessing. I've been lucky and blessed not to have met such girls after all these years. or maybe, just look before I leap

@topic
The day that answer is discovered half of mankind's problems would be solved

D bitter fact is dat women are directly proportional 2 money,provided dat the man nd all oda external constraint remains constant,while d square root of money= evil.mathematically,it then follows dat women are proportional 2 EVIL! Ths is d outcome of my research nd interactions with ladies, though am still lukng 4 1 that'l counter ths hypothesis,and that 1, would SURELY be my wife,

sistawoman:

For me if want something long term with the guy i can't ask him for money.

you are very correct.
most girls dont know
when to draw the line
so they dont look like
MONEY-DEMANDERS!

am proud of you. u r
married. but am scared
i dont know if women love
me or my money.

and i wonder if they wont
callme monkey when am broke.