Just being curuous, is it the girl or the guy? Wealth, background, beauty/handsomeness and the pride of either sex not withstanding. I mean natural softhearted forgiver in a case such as squabble that puts the relationship at a knife edge of falling apart. Experienced and mature contributions from this honourable house will be welcome.

Women tolerate and forgive more

Mondisweets: Women tolerate and forgive more

It all depends on who invested more in the relationship.

xynerise:
It all depends on who invested more in the relationship.

~Women usually are more tolerate if they find out that their husband had an extra marital child, they are likely to forgive the husband, unlike men who would probably ring the first divorce lawyer they know.

~If a husband cheats, the wife is more likely to forgive and move on. If a woman does, is she doesnt find herself 6ft under, she will find herself back at her fada's house upon him finding out.


This is regardless of whether they equally invested in the marriage or not

I think its the woman

Mondisweets:

~Women usually are more tolerate if they find out that their husband had an extra marital child, they are likely to forgive the husband, unlike men who would probably ring the first divorce lawyer they know.

~If a husband cheats, the wife is more likely to forgive and move on. If a woman does, is she doesnt find herself 6ft under, she will find herself back at her fada's house upon him finding out.


This is regardless of whether they equally invested in the marriage or not

Ehen na. Women forgive easily in Africa because they invested more in a relationship. Marriage is what majority of Nigerian girls see as the ultimate achievement in life. No wonder you see a woman being manipulated and abused by her husband and she still declares her love for him. What I am saying is, our girls of nowadays are so dependent on a man that even if they caught him with their sister on bed, they will still forgive him just to save their marriage . A man who has no job and depends on his wife's income must forgive her even if she cheats on him . Hope you understand where I am driving at?

xynerise:
It all depends on who invested more in the relationship.

true point

xynerise:
Ehen na. Women forgive easily in Africa because they invested more in a relationship. Marriage is what majority of Nigerian girls see as the ultimate achievement in life. No wonder you see a woman being manipulated and abused by her husband and she still declares her love for him. What I am saying is, our girls of nowadays are so dependent on a man that even if they caught him with their sister on bed, they will still forgive him just to save their marriage . A man who has no job and depends on his wife's income must forgive her even if she cheats on him . Hope you understand where I am driving at?

Great contribution sir but I actually meant natural softhearted forgiver irrespective of wealth/income/background and the pride of either party.

nationwide24: Great contribution sir but I actually meant natural softhearted forgiver irrespective of wealth/income/background and the pride of either party.

Forgiveness is a virtue.

The strongest forgives easily,irrespective of gender.

Women are built to forgive it comes with ease part of it u thought at a young age,

man are capable of forgiving but they never forget. Dangerous..

He who loved more in a relationship forgives more.

Homguy: He who loved more in a relationship forgives more.

gbam

Homguy: He who loved more in a relationship forgives more.

gbam, but d love suppose dey equal, no b say 1 person go love pass, abi

slimED: gbam, but d love suppose dey equal, no b say 1 person go love pass, abi

Love between two people is never equal regardless of any other factor. One person always loves more. IMO tho

Houseofglam7: The strongest forgives easily,irrespective of gender.

Houseofglam7: The strongest forgives easily,irrespective of gender.

Hi

amiskurie:

Hi

My blackie...how are you?

Houseofglam7:

My blackie...how are you?

Lately,u haven't been rplyn my emails

Women forgive easily

amiskurie:
Lately,u haven't been rplyn my emails

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It depends on the individual and his/her level of emotional maturity.

the person that can move on easily btw the two that are in a relationship

Houseofglam7:
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Av been asking for the ringer u know

OBIORAA: It depends on the individual and his/her level of emotional maturity.

gbam! Another good point

Men

Houseofglam7: The strongest forgives easily,irrespective of gender.

My missus

Houseofglam7:
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You had one of the best dp's in Nairaland. It

disappeared after the great blackout. I hope

you'll put it up again soon. I'm a big fan of yours.

Generally, women possess a softer heart than men. They're capable of forgiving wholeheartedly.
However, putting other factors into consideration...
Both gender are capable of forgiving equally!

Believe me. I forgive more even before you offend moi.

Afterall Sweet Jesus says 70 x 7 times per day!

Houseofglam7:
Cnt access my mail at the moment.
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How do u do,and family too?...I just wanna ring your bell.