The common phenomenum that I always been noticing is this: "When are you bringing your husband ?" Your mates are now mothers,when are we seeing our grand children? Blah blah blah...... All these are usually directed to ladies.

I think this is an unfair, situation in the path of our sisters.
Thus,my question is when is the right time or age for males to get married?
Should age or money be an issue to consider for a man to get a wife?
A mature contributions please. Thanks The common phenomenum that I always been noticing is this: "When are you bringing your husband ?" Your mates are now mothers,when are we seeing our grand children? Blah blah blah...... All these are usually directed to ladies.

I think this is an unfair, situation in the path of our sisters.
Thus,my question is when is the right time or age for males to get married?
Should age or money be an issue to consider for a man to get a wife?
A mature contributions please. Thanks

Don't let anybody deceive you,Age is important . Especially for women because they have limited number of healthy eggs that they they can use to procreate. The problem is that these eggs reduce faster after age 35. So I think a woman should be married between 25 to 30 years.

For men, between 28 to 35 is good. I don't see sence in a man starting a family at age 40 when some people are getting ready for retirement.

The ryt time for a man to get married is when he has atleast, little to take care of ur wife and ur unborn kids.

From 28 years

@farano:
From 28 years

E too far.

@farano:
From 28 years

28 years ke? Why?

nitrogen:

28 years ke? Why?

Mutuwa:
E too far.

For men

@farano:
For men

Yes na.....too farrrrrr! By the time we do some additions and subtractions, you will realise that 28 is just over the bar for guys.

meine:
Don't let anybody deceive you,Age is important . Especially for women because they have limited number of healthy eggs that they they can use to procreate. The problem is that these eggs reduce faster after age 35. So I think a woman should be married between 25 to 30 years.

For men, between 28 to 35 is good. I don't see sence in a man starting a family at age 40 when some people are getting ready for retirement.

To me ooo

A guy should marry between 25 -30 , Infact , 30 is late Marriage if u really wanna be in the game with your children in order to avoid :

'' don't mind that old man.. He's living in the past ''

anything above 30 is OverDue !

For a lady .... 23 - 27 is ideal because @ 27 and u never marry .... Nne , Something aint right somewhere and You know it !!

What if u havent met d right partner at dis age, do u just marry whoever is available to fulfil the age righteousness? Smh

nitrogen:
Yes na.....too farrrrrr! By the time we do some additions and subtractions, you will realise that 28 is just over the bar for guys.

hmmm ok o

25-30 is a ripe age for guys. 22-28 is OK for ladies.

Younger or older is not always advisable especially for the female gender.

ATSOMEH: What if u havent met d right partner at dis age, do u just marry whoever is available to fulfil the age righteousness? Smh

Then you are in for a long ride.

nitrogen:
Then you are in for a long ride.

How?

Age n money (regular source of income) are two big factors plus meeting d right one.
Females: 18 - 32yrs (depending on when he shows up)
Males: 25 - 37yrs (depending on wen u can provide for a household n u meet ur wife)

Nb: d story of life is different for everyone n God's time is d best.

right time is when the man is mature enough to handle the challenges that come with marriage.

Hi,pls I'm new here,how can I create an account or reply dis post,pls I dnt mean to derail dis topics.

For women 23 to 27years , anything more na old school.

Sophyrocks:
How?

Hmmmmm! I trust you aren't among them (in for a long ride)

nitrogen:

Hmmmmm! I trust you aren't among them (in for a long ride)

Explain. How?

Age: 30 for men and 25 for women

Time: when you are financially stable and mentally matured and ready

I think 23 to 27 is ok for female and male 25 to 30

Sophyrocks:
Explain. How?

The first question is this, is there anything like right partner?

nitrogen:

The first question is this, is there anything like right partner?

O.k i will be a typical Nigerian in this discussion. Is a lady who is a wh0re that will sleep with another man once you get broke the right partner for you?

Sophyrocks:
O.k i will be a typical Nigerian in this discussion. Is a lady that will sleep with another man once you get broke the right partner for you?

Maybe, because there is the tendency that every lady would think it, some will just do without thinking about it, while some others will do both. Since every lady would think about it, or better-put, less than 0.000000000001% of ladies wouldn't do both (think and do), and probably your assertion is that a lady that wont ever think about sleeping with another man when broke is the right partner, then, there is nothing like the right partner

Sophyrocks: who is a wh0re

I intentionally took that quoted off.

nitrogen:

Maybe, because there is the tendency that every lady would think it, some will just do without thinking about it, while some others will do both. Since every lady would think about it, or better-put, less than 0.000000000001% of ladies wouldn't do both (think and do), and probably your assertion is that a lady that wont ever think about sleeping with another man when broke is the right partner, then, there is nothing like the right partner



I intentionally took that quoted off.

Look at how you are intentionally dodging the question. Yes or No. Will you marry such a lady who has proven to be disloyal to you? YES OR NO?

Sophyrocks:
Look at how you are intentionally dodging the question. Yes or No. Will you marry such a lady who has proven to be disloyal to you? YES OR NO?

Loyalty can only be accessed after marriage, if am dating a lady, and she is quite loyal, we can actually get together (marry), and she goes gaga afterwards, so pretence was actually the mainstay before we came together.

Am sorry, some stuffs have got to be sorted out before a yes/no answer to a question.

nitrogen:
Loyalty can only be accessed after marriage, if am dating a lady, and she is quite loyal, we can actually get together (marry), and she goes gaga afterwards, so pretence was actually the mainstay before we came together.

Am sorry, some stuffs have got to be sorted out before a yes/no answer to a question.

English Bro, Engggggggglllllisssssh. I spoke english. I'm talking about BEFORE marriage. I SAID WILL YOU MARRY HER? Jeeeeeezzzzzzzz. since everybody is good to go and marriageable even prostitutes, then you must have no particular choice of a wife since you dnt believe in marrying the Right person right?

#shocked#

Sophyrocks:
English Bro, Engggggggglllllisssssh. I spoke english. I'm talking about BEFORE marriage. I SAID WILL YOU MARRY HER? Jeeeeeezzzzzzzz. since everybody is good to go and marriageable even prostitutes,

#shocked#

So it is only infidelity that defines the so called 'Will of God'? #Justcurious.

Okay, it is very possible that a prostitute will become an evangelist tomorrow, does that make her the right person for me tomorrow?

So many questions begging for answers....

Sophyrocks: then you must have no particular choice of a wife since you dnt believe in marrying the Right person right?

Nah, I think I have a particular choice or better-put I have some qualities I look for in a lady, but I just want to disprove assertions especially with respect to 'right partners'.

nitrogen:
So it is only infidelity that defines the so called 'Will of God'? #Justcurious.

Okay, it is very possible that a prostitute will become an evangelist tomorrow, does that make her the right person for me tomorrow?

So many questions begging for answers....



Nah, I think I have a particular choice or better-put I have some qualities I look for in a lady, but I just want to disprove assertions especially with respect to 'right partners'.

You still are dodging. Thats your problem. I willl take the answer to my question as NO. Good. Therefore you have a 'type', a choice which contradicts your belief of No right partner.

2ndly, the 2nd bolded shows you have a particular choice of a lady. If a lady is NOT your particular choice, what will you say she is? Why do you still have a choice since there is nothing like a right partner? I isnt any lady of any character or lifestyle enough for you? why must a lady fit into what you want her to be?

Sophyrocks:
You still are dodging. Thats your problem. I willl take the answer to my question as NO. Good. Therefore you have a 'type', a choice which contradicts your belief of No right partner.

2ndly, the 2nd bolded shows you have a particular choice of a lady. If a lady is NOT your particular choice, what will you say she is? Why do you still have a choice since there is nothing like a right partner? I isnt any lady of any character or lifestyle enough for you? why must a lady fit into what you want her to be?

But then, in this insane society, do you think attributes alone makes someone the so called 'right partner', what about this belief that a right partner is God's will, or God's will is always the right partner? What's up with you picking out some factors without considering religion, the fact that religion plays a major part in everything we do, believe and follow, then you have to include that, meanwhile, to be frank with you, that is really where I want this to start from......

Except we are on the same page wrt this...

nitrogen:

But then, in this insane society, do you think attributes alone makes someone the so called 'right partner', what about this belief that a right partner is God's will, or God's will is always the right partner? What's up with you picking out some factors without considering religion, the fact that religion plays a major part in everything we do, believe and follow, then you have to include that, meanwhile, to be frank with you, that is really where I want this to start from......

Except we are on the same page wrt this...

I can see you have a twisted understanding of what THE RIGHT PERSON means to people.
Your contradiction is very glaring. Do you know what people mean when they talk about the 'right person'? They are talking about attributes or qualities they seek in a partner. Personalities they can put up with or live with for the rest of their lives. If they come across someone who doesnt fit into what they want OR has characters unbearable or questionable lifestyle UNFIT for them to live with for the rest of their lives, then they can say, such a person IS NOT RIGHT for them. Remember that a person who is right for your brother WILL NOT be the right person for you. We are all different with varying degrees of tolerance. What you may tolerate, another man would not tolerate.

So since you as an individual, have made it clear in your earlier comment that you have a 'choice' or 'qualities' of what you seek in a partner that she must possess in order for you to successfully stay with her for the rest of your life, therefore, you also Believe in getting the RIGHT PERSON FOR YOU. If you really believe that there is no right person on earth, then you will also have no problem marrying a prostitute.

Finally, you talked about God choosing for you, religion playing a role. Now you are also contradicting yourself. Why are you concerned about God choosing for you when you beleive there is no right person? You wouldnt bother about religion but choose to marry any lady from any religion if you TRULY believe there is no right person on earth.