Have you ever heard a woman say something like:

"I want a guy who is sensitive."

"I want a guy who's in touch with his feelings."

"I want a guy who's a good communicator."

"I want a guy who is strong."

"I want a guy who is sexy."

, ?

Of course you have.

Women say this stuff all the time.

One of the favorite is:

"I want a REAL MAN."

Here's the problem,

When a woman says one of these things, she
actually MEANS something that is different from
what a guy would mean if he said the same words.

WHAT WOMEN REALLY MEAN,

So let's "decode" what women "really" mean
when they say common things.

Consider this your own personal "female
language translator". Refer to it often.

WHEN A WOMAN SAYS,

"I want a guy who is sensitive."

WHAT SHE REALLY MEANS IS,

"I want a guy who is busy doing his own thing in
life, who has goals and objectives, who has
passion for things. If we're out together, he
always keeps me on my toes, and I'm always
wondering what's going to happen next. He's
challenging, interesting, and funny. I would
really like it if he was also sensitive enough to
know when I need a hug, or to be held, or when I
want him to make love to me."

Does this make sense?

Again, she's not imagining a picture of a
boring, predictable, Wussy who is sharing his hurt
feelings because he's so "sensitive."

Big difference.

WHEN A WOMAN SAYS,

"I want a guy who is in touch with his
feelings."

WHAT SHE REALLY MEANS IS,

"I want a guy who is strong-willed, and who
doesn't get upset about petty things, a guy who
can deal with the fact that I freak out
emotionally sometimes, and who knows how to be
cool when things are tough. But I also want him
to be in touch with his feelings so that:
1) He doesn't repress his emotions and then
eventually kill 10 people in his workplace, and
2) When he's intimate with me, and he feels a
passionate rush, he'll grab me and make love to
me like a beast!"

What she's NOT doing is making a picture of a
meek, afraid guy who calls all the time to ask "Do
you like me? Because I sure like you".

WHEN A WOMAN SAYS:

"I want a guy who's a good communicator."

WHAT SHE REALLY MEANS IS,

"I want a guy who doesn't talk all the time,
because he knows how to let me know what's on his
mind without using words. I want the kind of guy
that can touch me in a certain way and I feel
tingles all over my body. And I want the kind of
guy that can say things in a way that I
understand, not crudely and man-like."

WHEN A WOMAN SAYS,

"i want Sexy Man."

WHAT SHE REALLY MEANS IS,


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datemax:

WHEN A WOMAN SAYS,

"i want Sexy Man."

WHAT SHE REALLY MEANS IS,

. . . . .SHE DOES NOT WANT AN UGLY MAN.

is that too hard to comprehend?

I can see you made a list of konkomba ,but don't worry alikaraji will shorten it to gogonba

Ruby_Pearl, i disagree with you. Being sexy has little or nothing to do with a guys appearance.

A guy can be handsome and not sexy while a guy can be ugly and be sexy

datemax:

Ruby_Pearl, i disagree with you. Being sexy has little or nothing to do with a guys appearance.

A guy can be handsome and not sexy while a guy can be ugly and be sexy

Plz, dnt try to console your friends and yourself that way.

If you ain't sexy, you ain't sexy.
Usually, when a woman says she wants a sexy man, she does not want an ugly one.
Sure, a guy can be handsome without being sexy. . . . but ugly and sexy?
Plz, stop living on grass and weed

All that stuff you typed there is so fake . . .  
From experience this is my own dictionary -

"I want a guy who is sensitive." - She wants a guy who panders to her feelings, cooks for her in bed, helps with the laundary, cleans the house, always has a hanky out to dry her constant stream of tears, forever showering her with gifts, compliments and has the patience of a donkey even when she's being a nuisance.

"I want a guy who's in touch with his feelings." - See above. Note: she's not talking of a wuss who cries at the drop of a hat.

"I want a guy who's a good communicator." - She just wants a guy who can shut up and listen to her chatter endlessly forever. Dont make the mistake of sleeping straight after sex.

"I want a guy who is strong." - She wants a guy who will do everything for her.

"I want a guy who is sexy." - She wants a guy she can proudly show her friends.

See . . . ur email address wasnt even needed.

davidylan*:

All that stuff you typed there is so fake . . .  
From experience this is my own dictionary -

"I want a guy who is sensitive." - She wants a guy who panders to her feelings, cooks for her in bed, helps with the laundary, cleans the house, always has a hanky out to dry her constant stream of tears, forever showering her with gifts, compliments and has the patience of a donkey even when she's being a nuisance.

"I want a guy who's in touch with his feelings." - See above. Note: she's not talking of a wuss who cries at the drop of a hat.

"I want a guy who's a good communicator." - She just wants a guy who can shut up and listen to her chatter endlessly forever. don't make the mistake of sleeping straight after sex.

"I want a guy who is strong." - She wants a guy who will do everything for her.

"I want a guy who is sexy." - She wants a guy she can proudly show her friends.

See . . . ur email address wasnt even needed.

CHECKMATE!!

@davidylan, in your opinion the postt is so fake.

Who said you must aggree with post??

datemax:

Who said you must aggree with post??

Neither did anyone say you must not disagree with the post

chessguru, i dare you to a game of chess on this nairaland.
lets create a thread just for both of us and we will play and know who the better player is.
you make so much noise and i suspect you are a starter.
can we go?

I will create a thread at the games section and show yuou the link,
are you in on this?

Lets see who the chess guru is,
not with mouth brodaman!

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-179241.0.html#msg2896156

are you still on guguru?