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Guys Only: What Women "really Mean" by datemax: 3:16am On Oct 05, 2008 |
Have you ever heard a woman say something like: "I want a guy who is sensitive." "I want a guy who's in touch with his feelings." "I want a guy who's a good communicator." "I want a guy who is strong." "I want a guy who is sexy." , ? Of course you have. Women say this stuff all the time. One of the favorite is: "I want a REAL MAN." Here's the problem, When a woman says one of these things, she actually MEANS something that is different from what a guy would mean if he said the same words. WHAT WOMEN REALLY MEAN, So let's "decode" what women "really" mean when they say common things. Consider this your own personal "female language translator". Refer to it often. WHEN A WOMAN SAYS, "I want a guy who is sensitive." WHAT SHE REALLY MEANS IS, "I want a guy who is busy doing his own thing in life, who has goals and objectives, who has passion for things. If we're out together, he always keeps me on my toes, and I'm always wondering what's going to happen next. He's challenging, interesting, and funny. I would really like it if he was also sensitive enough to know when I need a hug, or to be held, or when I want him to make love to me." Does this make sense? Again, she's not imagining a picture of a boring, predictable, Wussy who is sharing his hurt feelings because he's so "sensitive." Big difference. WHEN A WOMAN SAYS, "I want a guy who is in touch with his feelings." WHAT SHE REALLY MEANS IS, "I want a guy who is strong-willed, and who doesn't get upset about petty things, a guy who can deal with the fact that I freak out emotionally sometimes, and who knows how to be cool when things are tough. But I also want him to be in touch with his feelings so that: 1) He doesn't repress his emotions and then eventually kill 10 people in his workplace, and 2) When he's intimate with me, and he feels a passionate rush, he'll grab me and make love to me like a beast!" What she's NOT doing is making a picture of a meek, afraid guy who calls all the time to ask "Do you like me? Because I sure like you". WHEN A WOMAN SAYS: "I want a guy who's a good communicator." WHAT SHE REALLY MEANS IS, "I want a guy who doesn't talk all the time, because he knows how to let me know what's on his mind without using words. I want the kind of guy that can touch me in a certain way and I feel tingles all over my body. And I want the kind of guy that can say things in a way that I understand, not crudely and man-like." WHEN A WOMAN SAYS, "i want Sexy Man." WHAT SHE REALLY MEANS IS, Do you want to know? then request for the complete article. send your request to dating4men@yahoo.com . use the topic as your subject of your email |
Re: Guys Only: What Women "really Mean" by Nobody: 3:20am On Oct 05, 2008 |
datemax:. . . . .SHE DOES NOT WANT AN UGLY MAN. is that too hard to comprehend? |
Re: Guys Only: What Women "really Mean" by ashleign: 3:21am On Oct 05, 2008 |
I can see you made a list of konkomba ![]() ![]() |
Re: Guys Only: What Women "really Mean" by datemax: 3:28am On Oct 05, 2008 |
Ruby_Pearl, i disagree with you. Being sexy has little or nothing to do with a guys appearance. A guy can be handsome and not sexy while a guy can be ugly and be sexy |
Re: Guys Only: What Women "really Mean" by Nobody: 3:31am On Oct 05, 2008 |
datemax:Plz, dnt try to console your friends and yourself that way. If you ain't sexy, you ain't sexy. Usually, when a woman says she wants a sexy man, she does not want an ugly one. Sure, a guy can be handsome without being sexy. . . . but ugly and sexy? Plz, stop living on grass and weed ![]() |
Re: Guys Only: What Women "really Mean" by davidylan4(m): 3:33am On Oct 05, 2008 |
All that stuff you typed there is so fake . . . ![]() From experience this is my own dictionary - "I want a guy who is sensitive." - She wants a guy who panders to her feelings, cooks for her in bed, helps with the laundary, cleans the house, always has a hanky out to dry her constant stream of tears, forever showering her with gifts, compliments and has the patience of a donkey even when she's being a nuisance. "I want a guy who's in touch with his feelings." - See above. Note: she's not talking of a wuss who cries at the drop of a hat. "I want a guy who's a good communicator." - She just wants a guy who can shut up and listen to her chatter endlessly forever. Dont make the mistake of sleeping straight after sex. "I want a guy who is strong." - She wants a guy who will do everything for her. "I want a guy who is sexy." - She wants a guy she can proudly show her friends. See . . . ur email address wasnt even needed. |
Re: Guys Only: What Women "really Mean" by chessguru(m): 3:40am On Oct 05, 2008 |
davidylan*:CHECKMATE!!
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Re: Guys Only: What Women "really Mean" by datemax: 3:47am On Oct 05, 2008 |
@davidylan, in your opinion the postt is so fake. Who said you must aggree with post ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Guys Only: What Women "really Mean" by Nobody: 3:50am On Oct 05, 2008 |
datemax:Neither did anyone say you must not disagree with the post ![]() |
Re: Guys Only: What Women "really Mean" by cooldud62: 3:50am On Oct 05, 2008 |
chessguru, i dare you to a game of chess on this nairaland. lets create a thread just for both of us and we will play and know who the better player is. you make so much noise and i suspect you are a starter. can we go? |
Re: Guys Only: What Women "really Mean" by cooldud62: 3:54am On Oct 05, 2008 |
I will create a thread at the games section and show yuou the link, are you in on this? Lets see who the chess guru is, not with mouth brodaman! |
Re: Guys Only: What Women "really Mean" by cooldud62: 4:01am On Oct 05, 2008 |
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