cheryl1: Gosh!!! Some girls are pretty dumb...it's a pity

cheryl1: Gosh!!! Some girls are pretty dumb...it's a pity

JoeCutie: What's then your advice?

cheryl1:
It wouldnt be wise of her to abort the pregnancy.
However,its better she leaves that heartless guy before he makes her do worse

JoeCutie: So your advice is she keeps the pregnancy and leaves the guy?

cheryl1:
You dont expect her to undergo a 3rd abortion, do you?

cheryl1:
You dont expect her to undergo a 3rd abortion, do you?

cheryl1:
It wouldnt be wise of her to abort the pregnancy.
However,its better she leaves that heartless guy before he makes her do worse

dave P: I do feel like snapping neck when it comes to this ,but i need serious advice for this real event of which i just happened to know days ago.

This lady met this guy and theyve been dating for 3 years.on the long run, she got pregnant for him on two occasions.
These two occasions, the guy persuaded her to terminate both pregnancies which she did due to pressure, and other factors(school).
Now again,having realized her mistkes,she refused to terminate the very 3RD prenancy for THIS guy again!!! The guy on the other hand is denying this one and thretened her to get rid of it if she wants him to marry her.she's very scared now cos her parents are strict to the extent that when she contacted some relatives,they shivered out of helping,knowing very well the response and reaction of her father.
She is altogether confused and doesnt know what to do.friends are making it worse for her everyday.
N:B- only postive advice needed,no insults please!!!

2sexi: well said, ma'am.

We dealt with a similar topic this year.

As for the gir in question, I would just say she is being used and abused. I am very sure that she has had more than one occassions where a guy was begging to date her and do anything under the sun to care for her, but she turned him down just to stick with a moronic simpleton.

Most of these kind of girls are that reason guy say girls like bad boys. You did the firs abortion and second, you didn't see the hand writing on the wall to know the guy has no plan for you... You went on the third one because of luff abi?

It's her life.

Errrmmmm cheryl1 baby how are you doing? I am hypnotised by your dp.

dave P: @madcow:- mistake of terminating cos of marriage. So you do support she gets rid of it.r u weighing her chances@ all.what if its her last ,and she cant have babies no more?

cheryl1:
I'm doing fine,you

JoeCutie: Ofcourse not. That'd be like the most devastating decision of her life. I'd advice she keeps the pregnancy, but if she leaves the guy who would then take care of her and her unborn baby's needs? The parents?

Mad Cow:



You said she realised her mistakes of terminating the first 2 pregnancies, can you explain that..



@ Positive Advice;

1. Go get the Abortion done now and save herself the stress of a Bad Boyfriend/bad future-Baby Daddy, Save herself the stress of dealing with her father and also save herself from social stigmatisation of single mothers.

2. The longer she stays delibrating her actions, the riskier the abortion process gets.

3. Stop fhucking the dude and move on.

Mad Cow:



You said she realised her mistakes of terminating the first 2 pregnancies, can you explain that..



@ Positive Advice;

1. Go get the Abortion done now and save herself the stress of a Bad Boyfriend/bad future-Baby Daddy, Save herself the stress of dealing with her father and also save herself from social stigmatisation of single mothers.

2. The longer she stays delibrating her actions, the riskier the abortion process gets.

3. Stop fhucking the dude and move on.

mz mariah: Dave p why do you want her to terminate this 3rd pregnancy? you wan kill her? why didn't you use condom?

Hian, if she wants you to marry her then she must terminate this 3rd pregnancy, that's a lie from the pit of hell if you love her to even want to marry her you will not mount so much pressure on her to terminate the pregnancy talk more using it to threaten her

Na wa o, were the love disappear to na? you love and want to marry germ in that case you both should keep the pregnancy abi the love no reach there?


Mark my word today Dave p, that guy will never marry that girl, not after 3 abortions.


BTW, I know its not you o, I just dey pull your legs

Mad Cow:


ABortions are not as life threatening as people make it sound. If she gets a good doctor to do it and not some quack chemist, she should be fine.

Get rid of the baby before its too late.

mz mariah: Dave p why do you want her to terminate this 3rd pregnancy? you wan kill her? why didn't you use condom?

Hian, if she wants you to marry her then she must terminate this 3rd pregnancy, that's a lie from the pit of hell if you love her to even want to marry her you will not mount so much pressure on her to terminate the pregnancy talk more using it to threaten her

Na wa o, were the love disappear to na? you love and want to marry germ in that case you both should keep the pregnancy abi the love no reach there?


Mark my word today Dave p, that guy will never marry that girl, not after 3 abortions.


BTW, I know its not you o, I just dey pull your legs

dave P: lol,uve arrived.

dave P: i want u to leave the life-threatening aspect of the abortion and rather look@ the chances of her getting pregnant again if the guy even goes ahead to marry her.expert or nt,complications are bound to happen.

cheryl1:
But going to her parents seems like the last resort tho

Mad Cow:


No, Complications are possible, but not necessarily bound to happen.. there is a difference. One leaves an open-ended possibility the other is certain.


3-Abortions are not a big deal. Abortions dont mean surgery incase you dont know. If done at an early stage, she would be fine. Dont let the word abortion sound like open heart surgery. Infact, in some cases all it takes is a simple injection.

She should go get the abortion now.. Every day that passes is one day too late.

mz mariah: Yes I don arrive
Tell that guy to stop threatening that babe with marriage because even the devil knows he won't marry her. if he wants the baby terminated he should do it maturedly and not threaten the poor girl. when he was doing the thing nko?
Also tell him that if he continues to impregnate girls and have them abort it then he should stop it before he aborts all the children he is suppose to have in life and when he marries, he will start maltreating his wife for failing to give him a child when he himself is the cause of his problems.
Humans sha, we go dey use our hand dey buy market .
Chai, even the devil will reject some candidate on the last day that guy is wicked ashwear

cheryl1:
It wouldnt be wise of her to abort the pregnancy.
However,its better she leaves that heartless guy before he makes her do worse