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Advice For A Skin Bleacher by ayukdaboss(m): 1:29am On Jul 04, 2014
She needs your advice please.

2 years ago I got dumped by my
boyfriend and he left me for a very fair
girl.That affected my self esteem and I
decided to bleach my dark skin .I was
hoping he would come back to me but
he never did..After using creams, I was
advised to take bleaching injection to
lighten me from inside.They said it
won't make me have black knuckles.The lady who took me there used to be as dark as Lupita but now looked like Beyonce. I was advised to take 2 shots . After that I became so light skinned but wanted to be lighter and ended up taking up to 6. Now I'm so light that my old school mates can't
recognize me. They didn't tell me I have
to keep maintaining it over the years.

When I got lighter, many men were chasing me and didn't know my skin tone was from bleaching. Now, I met a man who I've been dating for 4 months and he really loves me and has proposed to marry me..

Just last week, he was telling me how he hates women who bleach and that his friend married a fair lady only to discover their child was so black. He thought she cheated on him and almost divorced her till she confessed the child was so dark because that was her real colour and her skin tone was from bleaching.

My family have advised me to tell him the truth now before he finds out later..I have
deceived him for long because even when he asked for my throw back pictures, I photo-shopped them to look lighter.

Please should I confess to him that I'm
a bleacher or just let him marry me
first?
Re: Advice For A Skin Bleacher by PapaNnamdi: 1:41am On Jul 04, 2014
*throws one seed of groundnut in the air and catches it with mouth*


one question before i give my candid advice





















OP please as the girl for me





is her nyash blaq?
is it blaq like tiwa savage's nyash??
so that i dont giv a wrong advice, an answer to this question is of great importance
Re: Advice For A Skin Bleacher by tosyne2much(m): 2:06am On Jul 04, 2014
Ladies ar quite competitive in nature and easily get in d league of contest of perishable parameters .... I dnt evn knw wat advice to offer cos I av Phobia for dating bleachers jst as ur fiance
Re: Advice For A Skin Bleacher by Nobody: 2:28am On Jul 04, 2014
Lemme laugh first brb

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Re: Advice For A Skin Bleacher by Nobody: 2:30am On Jul 04, 2014
P.S your profile picture must be a throw back pic I suppose.
Re: Advice For A Skin Bleacher by BukkyDan(f): 2:39am On Jul 04, 2014
Taking 'shots' just to change her skin colour? :-o
nawa oo
I thought 'dem bleachers' use soaps and creams? sad
upgrading thingz abi? cheesy
weldone o embarassed

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Re: Advice For A Skin Bleacher by Smhart1(f): 4:28am On Jul 04, 2014
do you have a mother ?....#justCurious#
Re: Advice For A Skin Bleacher by stinggy(m): 5:08am On Jul 04, 2014
You took 2 shots yet you weren't satisfied?
You should have taken 12 then, instead of the 6...
Who likes a bleachin' wh0re? Some babes can be so dumb sha cheesy
Re: Advice For A Skin Bleacher by Ariyke: 5:29am On Jul 04, 2014
Low self esteem caused you this sad tell the truth of await summon to court after giving birth to black kids
Re: Advice For A Skin Bleacher by dre11(m): 7:34am On Jul 04, 2014
Injection so as to be light skin........
So, women can be despirate because of their looks like this........

Na she bleach, na she go know wetin to do
Re: Advice For A Skin Bleacher by SpaceGoatt: 8:31am On Jul 04, 2014
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Re: Advice For A Skin Bleacher by SpaceGoatt: 8:31am On Jul 04, 2014
skin killer angry . see i have a friend he is as black as black but when we tell him he will say "leave it alone o" ...
Re: Advice For A Skin Bleacher by ayukdaboss(m): 8:35am On Jul 04, 2014
PapaNnamdi: *throws one seed of groundnut in the air and catches it with mouth*


one question before i give my candid advice





















OP please as the girl for me





is her nyash blaq?
is it blaq like tiwa savage's nyash??
so that i dont giv a wrong advice, an answer to this question is of great importance

Have you seen Tiwa Savage's butt before? undecided
Re: Advice For A Skin Bleacher by Yungwizzzy28(m): 8:38am On Jul 04, 2014
When you took the decision to bleach did you ask us ??


Ermm

do your man has money??
Re: Advice For A Skin Bleacher by ayukdaboss(m): 8:39am On Jul 04, 2014
rokiatu: Lemme laugh first brb


undecided
Re: Advice For A Skin Bleacher by ayukdaboss(m): 8:41am On Jul 04, 2014
Ariyke: Low self esteem caused you this sad tell the truth of await summon to court after giving birth to black kids

Court?? They do that? shocked
Re: Advice For A Skin Bleacher by Ariyke: 8:48am On Jul 04, 2014
ayukdaboss:

Court?? They do that? shocked
after getting married and giving birth to black kids yea he would sue her

Lemme remind u of a lady whose hubby sued to court for giving birth to ugly kids not knwing the wife was ugly too bt did plastic surgery
Re: Advice For A Skin Bleacher by Kslib(m): 9:02am On Jul 04, 2014
You took injection to bleach from within? Naija girls don begin embrace bio-engineering to cover up their acts--- hmmn!!

Na only God know weda your internal organs never bleach finish. Your blood go soon turn "fanta".. Smh!!

You clearly need to regain your self esteem more than you need marriage! Imagine photoshopping your pics just to deceive someone you want to marry and to add insult upon injury, you even have the audacity to ask if you should marry him first before allowing the poor guy know what he's getting into. No wonder many agree that marriage these days is overrated.

When you eventually have a baby, what are you going to do. Soak him in "custard" ?

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Re: Advice For A Skin Bleacher by ERCROSS(m): 9:34am On Jul 04, 2014
black is beautiful.....

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Re: Advice For A Skin Bleacher by farano(f): 10:00am On Jul 04, 2014
ayukdaboss: She needs your advice please.

2 years ago I got dumped by my
boyfriend and he left me for a very fair
girl.That affected my self esteem and I
decided to bleach my dark skin .I was
hoping he would come back to me but
he never did..After using creams, I was
advised to take bleaching injection to
lighten me from inside.They said it
won't make me have black knuckles.The lady who took me there used to be as dark as Lupita but now looked like Beyonce. I was advised to take 2 shots . After that I became so light skinned but wanted to be lighter and ended up taking up to 6. Now I'm so light that my old school mates can't
recognize me. They didn't tell me I have
to keep maintaining it over the years.

When I got lighter, many men were chasing me and didn't know my skin tone was from bleaching. Now, I met a man who I've been dating for 4 months and he really loves me and has proposed to marry me..

Just last week, he was telling me how he hates women who bleach and that his friend married a fair lady only to discover their child was so black. He thought she cheated on him and almost divorced her till she confessed the child was so dark because that was her real colour and her skin tone was from bleaching.

My family have advised me to tell him the truth now before he finds out later..I have
deceived him for long because even when he asked for my throw back pictures, I photo-shopped them to look lighter.

Please should I confess to him that I'm
a bleacher or just let him marry me
first?
The earlier the better
Re: Advice For A Skin Bleacher by PapaNnamdi: 11:39am On Jul 04, 2014
ayukdaboss:

Have you seen Tiwa Savage's butt before? undecided


yes naa, very blaq
would av posted it here bet, mynd_44 dat olodo head will ban me.
Re: Advice For A Skin Bleacher by mimi2234: 6:43pm On Jul 04, 2014
Please where did you get the shots from email me at ibidawapo630@gmail.com
Re: Advice For A Skin Bleacher by scribble: 10:10pm On Jul 04, 2014
all that for a man who dumped u

wonderful

women and chicken brain sha

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