sandijey: Really why is everybody being judgemental like this. It'd not right. Even the comments of some girls are self righteous. You can't truly no what to do till u are in that situation. If a girl genuinely loves someone money will be the least of her problem wiv the guy. Please stop judging her that way.

Meanwhile op please don't collect anything from him. The guy na nice guy. The fact that he even called u to apologise. You no wetin man dey do woman? Go to psychiatric hospital female ward. This one still even wants to compensate u. Men are not nice o.Ndoooooo

jenny2007: I was with him for almost three years on and off. we were in different cities during the duration of the relationship but with regular visits. this man mistreated me, i was never happy with him, in fact its the worst relationship i have ever had. theres nothing that he didnt do to me except physically assaulting me, still i stayed with him praying everyday that he will change.

i'm a pretty lady and i always getting attention from guys yet i remained faithful to him despite the distance. all of sudden he cut contact with me and i decided not to bother to ask him why becos i had had enough myself. ex started calling me again though i didnt answer his calls. a month later i saw pictures of his wedding online, the girl he married is someone i had found out that he was cheating on me with in the past , though he denied it back then. she was even pregnant on their wedding day, i was shocked when i saw the pictures and cried my heart out.

after his marriage i found some information about this man which i never knew before , he is a niger-delta militant with 2 babymammas who he beats at the silighest provocation. this is someone that told me he deals in oil and gas o. now this same man has started calling me and begging me to forgive him for the way he treated me while we were together and that i should mention anytin that i want and he will do for me, whether monetarily or not. i told him to go to hell with his pleading and money, however my friends are advising me to whatever he offers me and leave him.

what should u i do?

2sExy1: What a life... ! Why wouldn't you stay in such relationship when you are seeing money.

So fvcked up a country... You would have been rottening in jail by now.

Why won't you stay in such a a relationship and hoping things will change for better when your eyes were on money?

See as una dey jump on anything well packaged even though they are rottened inside.

You were dating thief without knowing... Why would you know?

Just move the fvck on!

iykedare:

Shut d hell up. Money d last thing on a naija girl s mind? You all reason alike but complain when you are treated accordingly.

carefreewannabe:

I don't care, personally.

prettyboi1989:
What is physical abuse? Hunh its laffing 2geda abi?

ferdimako:
I don't believe u!

carefreewannabe:

You don't have to.

ferdimako:
no man shld.

sandijey:


You have issues. Deal wiv them before they consume you. Not all Nigerian girls are after money and if u keep meeting the kinda girls that love money then check yourself and change your standard.

chidyhels: Atleast you are out of the relationship now, cut all communication. Collecting anything from him won't change anything. But as a sharp babe you can open another office on his head.

Scofieldella: ALL ur posts on nairaland has been about this one guy!! Chei!! Move on girl! Stop torturing urself. Don't take anything from him. Just move ON already!

sandijey:


You have issues. Deal wiv them before they consume you. Not all Nigerian girls are after money and if u keep meeting the kinda girls that love money then check yourself and change your standard.

passionate88: hmmmm

chidyhels: Atleast you are out of the relationship now, cut all communication. Collecting anything from him won't change anything. But as a sharp babe you can open another office on his head.

sandijey:

It's true now. This men keep saying Nigerian girls like money. When they themselves have very high taste. It is easy to spot girls like that. Unfortunately these are girls an average Nigerian guy will pick over a nice girl because most men if not all are moved by what they see. Girls that love money have "high maintenance" written all over them. They are hot, beautiful and most guys would love to show them off. The good ones really don't have penchant for stuffs like that but it's difficult to spot them and when a guy eventually comes across them, the guy will say she is too nice and naive. A girl that uses four mad ass phones wiv out an income. Her father na civil servant. Even if she works, except she makes half a mil she cannot maintain all those phones. Girls that have many Brazilian hair wiv no income, girls that do not repeat clothes wiv no income, girls that drive cars wiv no income. And even the ones that have income cannot really maintain that status. Men don't see all this. They just see a beautiful girl wiv lovely shape and they will do anything just to get in between her legs. The girl knows what u want so she will bill u die. Whose fault is it?


Good girls are everywhere. The good things don't just come in fantastic packages.

Yemlizzy: Hmmm i see....a bit pathetic anyway. I can't decipher why you endured this cheat of a man despite how he treats you. Accept the compensation if it makes you feel any better!

Khalessi: Btw am guessing that you're the "friend" huh?

oshyno: Women and money. Tell me another thing abeg.

U stayed tru to him - why won't u when ur soo fixated on his money as in d Bayelsa big boy em be.

Thaz why it puts me off wen u chiks say "even with d way I luv him n doesn't cheat on him bla bla bla , he still did dis to me "

When all u think of is d cool sweet life ur gono live wen u marry him why won't u remain faithful to such a player.

Cry me river Jordan abeg.

soldierdollar:

Stewpid girl

chimoz:
Open office for militant head?
Sister just go dig grave before you try it.

sexylogan:

So why are you now even considering accepting money from him? He maltreated you for 3 years, was actively cheating, had two baby mommas got a 3rd girl preggy (who he eventually married)...I'm wondering...aren't you supposed to be so repulsed with this guy at this point that the very thoughy of speaking with him is unthinkable? Rather, you talk to him to the extent of listening to him "offer you compensation"?
My dear, you don't need to be a neurosurgeon to know what you should do...smh...

jenny2007:



Point of correction, i wasnt with him becos of money and in the three years that i dated him he only gave me money 3 times. i have my own business and have always been independent. he actually didnt like me working to earn my own money becos hes one of the men that a woman's place is just in the bedroom abd kitchen.

chidyhels: Says who, militant or not,if she plays her card well, she is good to go. Atleast she's no longer inlove but mr is still interested.