How can someone handle a jealous husband.

1. He doesn't allow his wife to work.

2. He's not doing his duty as hubby.

3. He beat his wife and accuse her of being promicious when he hasn't catch his wife red handed. His wife is so pretty.

4. He want the family to move into the husband mother house or the husband mum to come and live with them.

5. His uncle is currently living with them. The wife washes the whole family cloth including the uncle own.

6. He has access to her social networking site yet he doesn't trust her.

em for a man to be doing all the trash you mentioned there must be an underlining reason


not that I support him




if na me be the woman...

Before I answer, errrm, why did she marry him?

Onlinebizexpert: em for a man to be doing all the trash you mentioned there must be an underlining reason


not that I support him




if na me be the woman...

The lady sworn that he has been caring before marraige but just changed all of a sudden. She said the hubby always tell her that " Won ni o ma tooo lor" Meaning " They said you will soon leave. Its like the husband is kinda fetish.

carefreewannabe: Before I answer, errrm, why did she marry him?

Pregi thingz nah.

CaptainBomb: Pregi thingz nah.

I am afraid one cannot change a grown-up man much.

She can try communication. Did she talk with him about all this?

CaptainBomb: Pregi thingz nah.

well na she open leg, na she go still carry the leg waka

Onlinebizexpert:


well na she open leg, na she go still carry the leg waka

Nice comment to someone who is seeking help

Point 3. Protect your life

carefreewannabe:

Nice comment to someone who is seeking help

madam its not about help, when the foundation is faulty there is little or nothing one can do to help



abi courtship no dey work again


if premarital pregnancy is the basis for a marriage , the so called union must crumble sooner or later

Onlinebizexpert:


madam its not about help, when the foundation is faulty there is little or nothing one can do to help



abi courtship no dey work again


if premarital pregnancy is the basis for a marriage , the so called union must crumble sooner or later

I am a fighter and I never give up; neither should the OP. A bad marriage is not the end of the world, it is ALWAYS good to ask for help or advice if needed.

carefreewannabe:

I am a fighter and I never give up; neither should the OP. A bad marriage is not the end of the world, it is ALWAYS good to ask for help or advice if needed.

i bet the lady is swallowing this shit cos of the child if not...

carefreewannabe:




I am afraid one cannot change a grown-up man much.

She can try communication. Did she talk with him about all this?

That dude cant change because his IQ seem to be very low. How can you tell your wife that you want all the family to move to mama house and still accomodate the uncle in their matrimonial home. I advicèd her to change her fb pass first, password her phone to put that guy on a long run. Get a job and another place where she can live incase the idiot send her packing.

Onlinebizexpert:


i bet the lady is swallowing this shit cos of the child if not...

I don't know but possibly. I believe that everyone has the right to pursuit happiness and I hope she will no matter what she does about the situation.

carefreewannabe:

I am a fighter and I never give up; neither should the OP. A bad marriage is not the end of the world, it is ALWAYS good to ask for help or advice if needed.

The wife is just a friend of mine . Am a man.

CaptainBomb: That dude cant change because his IQ seem to be very low. How can you tell your wife that you want all the family to move to mama house and still accomodate the uncle in their matrimonial home. I advicèd her to change her fb pass first, password her phone to put that guy on a long run. Get a job and another place where she can live incase the idiot send her packing.

She has a few options:

1. She can stay and accept him and the situation.

2. She can stay and try to work it out.

3. She can leave. Maybe. I don't know her financial sitaution.

The choice is hers.

CaptainBomb: The wife is just a friend of mine . Am a man.

What do you think should she do?

carefreewannabe:

She has a few options:

1. She can stay and accept him and the situation.

2. She can stay and try to work it out.

3. She can leave. Maybe. I don't know her financial sitaution.

The choice is hers.

She doesn't have a job.

She is not finacially independent.

CaptainBomb: She doesn't have a job.

She is not finacially independent.

Can her family support her? Would they? Would she be able to provide for herself and her child in the long run?

carefreewannabe:

I don't know but possibly. I believe that everyone has the right to pursuit happiness and I hope she will no matter what she does about the situation.

her happiness is seriously dependent on her stance in this situation, a wrong choice can be fatal

carefreewannabe:

What do you think should she do?

I told her to get a job first and a place where she can live incase if the guy send her out then she can now plan beta. She's just 28. Hope its not 2 late.

CaptainBomb: I told her to get a job first and a place where she can live incase if the guy send her out then she can now plan beta. She's just 28. Hope its not 2 late.

What is late about 28? She is still very young.

carefreewannabe:

What is late about 28? She is still very young.

28 mtchew make she go find beta husband provided she is not the one at fault

carefreewannabe:

Can her family support her? Would they? Would she be able to provide for herself and her child in the long run?

Her parent support at time that why she doesn't knw the feeling that d huby is not doing his right. She can't support herself and the child at the long run. The guy said she cant go with the child because when she came in she came alone.

Onlinebizexpert:


28 mtchew make she go find beta husband provided she is not the one at fault

I think she need a job first.

CaptainBomb: Her parent support at time that why she doesn't knw the feeling that d huby is not doing his right. She can't support herself and the child at the long run. The guy said she cant go with the child because when she came in she came alone.

What is SHE thinking to do?

Onlinebizexpert:


28 mtchew make she go find beta husband provided she is not the one at fault

Must she find a new husband?

Is the fear of ending up alone a reason to stay in an unhappy marriage?

carefreewannabe:

What is SHE thinking to do?

She's confused.

carefreewannabe:

Must she find a new husband?

Is the fear of ending up alone a reason to stay in an unhappy marriage?

Na war o.

Where is this woman's parents?

CaptainBomb: She's confused.

She is an adult. She has to make her own choice.

beeevan: Where is this woman's parents?

They live in Lagos Also.