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Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by bobojoshua(m): 4:41pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
jeffizy: Many people have a wrong perception of the reality of marriage. |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by Dcmg(m): 4:43pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
Bigcake: Iyammi, awor afo ikpong asangha adi? Ikpa nammkpor sung sung. Mukiteh se anam nam se akid.Akod ette nfo ikpa? |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by parki: 4:45pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
Marriage is not dating. All those formings when the boy and the girl do before marriage, ends the very day they say i do. Also there are few other things that make marriage boring. Few are thus: marrying a wife that looks like mercy johnsonn (ugly woman). If one has such wife then one is most likey going to have a boring relationship. marrying for what you want to gain. These days women/men consider where the guy/girl is working before they accept to marry him/her. If it is not a well ppayng job no marriage. with this consideration, a lot of women/men end up in wrong marriages. There are countless factors why people have shitty marriages. The views above is just a few from my personal observation so far. |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by Safari29: 4:54pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
CFCfan: yes bro. not that I don't associate with girls at all but the friendship is having enough distance. when she starts coming to my house or we start going out together am sorry na to nyansh remain. I don't do bestie. now tell me how this is different from having dating a girl then marry her and marrying ur best friend |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by Nobody: 5:01pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
Safari29:you no dey waste time sha. But I believe that I can hangout with a girl and still remain platonic friends. |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by aliciab: 5:03pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
Op I quite agree with you that marriage could over time be boring and monotonous. I should know as I have been married for almost 10 yes(in fact this Nov will make us 10 ).A no. Of factors are responsible for this: 1sometimes parties ( this applies to both male and female ) stop inventing ways of spicing things up.Yes oh marriage even when you are married to your friend needs to be spiced up.I disagree with previous writers who give the impression that once you marry your friend you are assured of an interesting married life. I married my friend.in fact we dated for over 7 yes yet this doesn't stop me from sometimes just wanting to scream in frustration at how boring things are. Everything turns into a predictable pattern.same outings to the same places, even same sex patterns.couples do need to break patterns. 2.partners also over time tend to take each other for granted.this leads to a lot of resentment.Sadly in these parts the men are really guilty of this.As one writer pointed out most married women are really overworked,stressed and are unappreciated by their husbands .How many husbands help around with chores even when it is clear that the wife has a full plate? As a result of the above couples inevitably drift apart and only stay cos most don't want the stigma of divorce. 3. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by aliciab: 5:04pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
I'll continue shortly |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by aliciab: 5:12pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
3partners also don't take time to constantly know their partners.Yes after marriage parties feel like they know everything about their parners.But we should remember that change is constant and this also applies to our partners. How many couples spend quality time to the exclusion of all others especially the kids to discover each other again. To all those who say marriage is hard work ,yes marriage comes with a lot of responsibilities but while dealing with those issues we should still keep the spark and fun. : |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by frisby: 5:57pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
lonelydora: Lol...actually I'm still kinda in pre-nursery. And I do not know how u can edit ur NL handle, Although I do think I've seen a couple of threads on said subject. |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by IYANGBALI: 7:03pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
dytbabe: Aprokoyou dey mind am? Op go marry jo 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by bennyzer(m): 7:19pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
jeffizy: Many people have a wrong perception of the reality of marriage. |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by souljar(m): 7:21pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
Yungwizzzy: If he has money it won't be boring at all!!I heard im say spouse...ur eyes r deaf ni? |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by bisayor(m): 7:29pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
Domwiz4all: Marriage won't be boring if you marry your best friend. Have seen few couples who were married for over 30 years yet behave as if de were just starting dia honeymoon.. Bros, and aw many have u seen! The truth is majority of marriages are boring. You made a valid point ' marry your best friend' but every marriage seems to start on a very high note until the ugly monster called reality sets in.. |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by spiralwedge(m): 8:07pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
mine is not only boring but unhappy. stuck in a prison.. |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by fightforchange1(f): 8:37pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
obongproff: Yes! Kids are important too...they ar just as important qs the spouse. 1. They need protection. 2.you birthed them 3. You gave dem life. 4. Their precious. 5. They cannot fend for demselves....! 6.wtf. |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by Chiezugolum: 9:53pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
Yungwizzzy: If he has money it won't be boring at all!! Its because she is a girlfriend not a wife. Marriage is a different ball game |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by Nobody: 10:41pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
Eidosky: Bro it's alarming, am also scared of it. hmnn...that's kind of bad. Being with different women all your life....don't forget that AIDS still exists.... |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by vanstanzy(m): 10:54pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
Eidosky: Bro it's alarming, am also scared of it.Bros, u shouldnt have said this, just be careful what u wish for. |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by meshacha1: 12:33am On Jul 13, 2014 |
Hexzyz: The reason is people don't depend on God for his perfect will in marriage. They go by what they see. God knows the heart of every individual and who is perfect for each other. Seriously, you just said it all!!!! That is the conclusion of the whole matter abt marriage. |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by revelationuche: 8:40pm On Jul 13, 2014 |
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Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by Nobody: 12:41am On Jul 14, 2014 |
jeffizy: Many people have a wrong perception of the reality of marriage.EXACTLY! you've said it all. Your partner must be your best friend and not just your sex mate ,your 'atm machine', baby making machine, sperm donor or house keeper. If not, your marriage is either doomed from the start or is going to be one boring never ending journey! |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by Kanwulia: 9:07am On Jul 14, 2014 |
Only children make marriage interesting abeg! I have the best roomate husband o! Different rooms abeg. I nor send. |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by Nobody: 7:30am On Dec 08, 2014 |
Clears throat* Officially here to advice existing marriages, intending marriages, and post-existing marriages.. First of all, I actually believe it has to do with the mentality of the couple, the parents and also the social clique of the couple. Many people have the mentality that, once Many set SHORT-TERM GOALS and not Long Term, hence they tend to run out of ideas to keep their marriage interesting, fun and most of all -INTACT - probably would expantiate later.... |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by Femsyn(m): 12:33pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
parki: How old are you? |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by damlady(f): 1:28pm On May 29, 2019 |
married but bored. |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by merit1988(f): 3:56pm On Sep 24, 2019 |
damlady:we are in the same shoes |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by Kendumazy(m): 5:10pm On Sep 24, 2019 |
merit1988:Didn't you guys court? |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by merit1988(f): 7:07pm On Sep 24, 2019 |
Kendumazy:yeah we did... But not for long anyways, but thats not the point.. there is a reason for the boredom |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by Kendumazy(m): 8:22pm On Sep 24, 2019 |
merit1988: OK. May God help you. |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by merit1988(f): 6:21am On Sep 25, 2019 |
Kendumazy:amen |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by djoe21(m): 8:01am On Sep 25, 2019 |
dania30: Rubbish. |
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