my gal friend has been with dis guy 4 four years and den dis new guy just comes out of a blue,dey became friends and left 2 another state2 complete his studies and shes falling 4 him, guy no. 2 once 2ld her that he has distance problems but she still kalls till date he once sent her a text dat he loved her when dey were together.d ist guy has been der 4 her, and has done nothing wrong.

Ur girlfriend is a dumb LovePeddler, or shes confused.

wetin u dey yarn sef

Tell your girlfriend to breathe it is just mere infatuation she has, she shud stay with her old bf,or the question is wht does this guy No2 have tht her really bf doesnt hv?

shegirl71:

the question is wht does this guy No2 have that her really boyfriend doesnt hv?

There is this rule called the 80-20 rule. In most relationships you get 80% of what you want but you are always searching for that 20% instead of being happy with your 80%. Alot of times people will give up thier 80 to get the 20 but dont realize that until it is too late that 80 is better than 20.

She should really sit down and evaluate what this oda guy is giving her that her bf is not. If it something she can learn to live w/o then great. and then she should go to her bf and talk to him about her needs that he is not meeting. If can meet them then faboulous, if not then she is still ok cuz she already decided she can live w/o it.

if she cant live w/o that 20% then she needs to find someone who has all 100%. But be forwarned that does not exisit and she will be alone for the rest of her life.

A bird in the hand beats two in the bush.

I can't understand what you are trying to say man.

She's been dating the guys for four years and only now realized he dosent make her happy?? What is she, insane??

Its dosent happen that way. She's been with the guy for four years for a reason. I know the idea of a new/fresh guy is tempting but hey . . the Devil you know is better that the angel you dont know.

_{I dint know relationships still last for that long. What are they waiting for to get married}