It's pathetic how sometimes women can be,they jst do things without thinking of the repercussions,it's not a cliche when people say what goes around comes right back around...I have a friend who if not for the strength of God would have been in a serious delima both emotionally and spiritually.

There's this girl he was dating she is a pharmist based in abuja and he is based in kaduna,she comes around much often to see him and then go back,they were so much engrossed with this"love and affection"thingy (so he thought)both parents knew about the whole relationship thing and even the OBA of there village in one of this southwest states knew about the affair and even blessed them saying this wedding is already ordained by God.She was always postponing the date for the introduction finally they agreed to do it this august.

This thing happened on a friday,the guy and the girl got talking on phone cos he was in Osun state where he went for a function and she was in abuja(so he tot)they spoke althrough out the night,they even spoke on how she would be coming over for the weekend when he gets back from Osun the next
day unknown to him she was in his house in kaduna on that friday.

She has the spare key to his apartment...when my friend later returned from his trip on saturday,he opened the door to his apartment,he found a letter from his supposed fiance saying she was in his house on friday to pack her things and that she's no longer interested in the relation,she even went as far as taking the goldd necklace she bought for him and other things she bought for him.When he confronted me with this quagmire,I jst told him to stay calm that what goes around comes around,God is not asleep.

A broken relationship is better than a broken home


Tell your friend to take heart

Odilafta: A broken relationship is better than a broken home


Tell your friend to take heart

Dats true,but she's evil!

I would say she's evil but it better dis way who knws wat would hav happened if dey got married...

Wow if this is real then that is another new level of heartless...2yrs ? thats pure wickedness..may God give ur friend the strength to outgrow the pain and heartbreak

piece of cake....i groomed a girl for eleven years and when she turned out to be a beautiful lady she discovered im not born again and she left me for a pastor.......that i know is wickedness

that is so cruel, but at the same time I would have appreciate the lady so much if I was the one it happened to because keeping me longer and behaving crazy to send me away is always a bad act for me, just take your decisions and let part away once.



tell your guy, make him pele that she is not for him and surely the person that will make him never to regret his past will come.

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nawa oo. to me there must be sometin u ve done for her. if u search through and there is nothing den believe me there is a new catch out there that is ready to spoil her with cash than u do

Has he spoken to her yet? Has he called her to know wat was wrong. Its soo strange and unusual for her to jst come up and abandon a 2yrs relationship

shikshark: piece of cake....i groomed a girl for eleven years and when she turned out to be a beautiful lady she discovered im not born again and she left me for a pastor.......that i know is wickedness

haaaaaa....my brother sorry oooo. And i thought my own was bad. I dated her for two months, sacrificed so many tins for her. She started misbehaving then ended the relationship.


Truely women are heartless, when they want to deal with you they do it without conscience. That is why i dont take shiiit from them no matter hw pretty they are.

Women and evil walk together.

Op.

Wre is ur sauce source ?

mencade5: haaaaaa....my brother sorry oooo. And i thought my own was bad. I dated her for two months, sacrificed so many tins for her. She started misbehaving then ended the relationship.


Truely women are heartless, when they want to deal with you they do it without conscience. That is why i dont take shiiit from them no matter hw pretty they are.

Women and evil walk together.

thanks my brother. what gave me hope then was when i went to the church that took her away from me in order to make trouble, i met one of the other pastors that talked to me and told me " at times when God want to give you something better...He take away the one you have" i got inspired and hold on to it.
now my wedding is coming up on 16aug with an invaluable bone of my bone

shikshark: piece of cake....i groomed a girl for eleven years and when she turned out to be a beautiful lady she discovered im not born again and she left me for a pastor.......that i know is wickedness

Groomed a girl for eleven years?
You meet am for her mama belle abi na paedo...... things








No offense!

shikshark:
thanks my brother. what gave me hope then was when i went to the church that took her away from me in order to make trouble, i met one of the other pastors that talked to me and told me " at times when God want to give you something better...He take away the one you have" i got inspired and hold on to it.
now my wedding is coming up on 16aug with an invaluable bone of my bone

wow...thank God for you. I wish u a fruitful and joyful married life.

Women are always mistery

mencade5: wow...thank God for you. I wish u a fruitful and joyful married life.

Women are always mistery

Hw far u never roast am finish before e go burn

shikshark: piece of cake....i groomed a girl for eleven years and when she turned out to be a beautiful lady she discovered im not born again and she left me for a pastor.......that i know is wickedness

bros eleven years is not eleven days oo

kingphilip:
Hw far u never roast am finish before e go burn

roast wetin? Na custard and fried egg day this afternoon ooo.


*breaks 4 eggs into cup, adds sliced onions, 2 pieces of chopped green pepper, 1 pinch of salt, sprinkes, seasoning in it, then whisks it, pours mixed eggs in already hot oil*

DrObum:
Groomed a girl for eleven years?
You meet am for her mama belle abi na paedo...... things







No offense!

nope, we met in school in 2000 though were very young, they are kind of poor and i give her support till i left school in 2006 and she left in 2007 then i we decided to get settled but no work till 2010 then i got a job in abuja and in 2011 when we decide to visit the alter ....
then shit happens

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Kkk I get it.
Kpele oooo!

princed4real: I would say she's evil but it better dis way who knws wat would hav happened if dey got married...

True, who knows what would have happened.. Every disappointment is a blessing..the guy should move on

@op....just lik dat?no quarels?,no fights?...i bliv dat ther is a/re reason(s) for every action taken by human.
So ur frnd shud find out frm his fiancee.

I suggest your friend should get to the root of the matter and leave God out of this.There must be something wrong somewhere.Until he finds out he shouldnt lebel her a bad gurl yet.

lynpetra: I suggest your friend should get to the root of the matter and leave God out of this.There must be something wrong somewhere.Until he finds out he shouldnt lebel her a bad gurl yet.

root of which matter? Guy abeg focus on your current spouse, no time to waste on some lose beeetch.

This shouldn't come as a surprise to him. When you are in a relationship or married, classically condition yourself for the worse.

Will you kill yourself ? Man, life goes on

Ayomide,I hope u read this........God is nt asleep like d Op said.

Odilafta: A broken relationship is better than a broken home


Tell your friend to take heart

Exactly what i wanted to say.

Here is something with "relationships" I think more people need to understand.

1. You can never fully own anybody. Outside marriage, there is nothing really binding you to that person or them to you.
2. People have more value for those who are content enough in themselves to walk the other person out the door at a moments notice. [cue Beyonce's, "You must not know 'bout me" song]

I always recommend that every (serious) relationship has a recurring 3-month gut-check.
A performance and alignment review of sorts, otherwise left to the air, things/issues will float and you could both be left with wasted time.
And you cannot wait for a woman to set this structure up guys, we are the leaders in these things.

In this thing, both parties need to come prepared to ask and answer questions honestly.
Questions ranging from, Am I happy? Are you happy? Is this what you expected? Is this what I expected? Where do you see this relationship going in the next X months? Are you fulfilling my needs (within reason)? Am I fulfilling yours (ditto)? Are we headed to the same place? etc etc

Both parties also need to come to that gut-check session perfectly ready to call it off and simply become friends if it becomes apparent that both are not going the same direction. None of the messy "baby I need you" stuff. Whatever the girl was feeling before she left, it wouldn't have been a hidden thing to "read" from her if something like this was in place. Sometimes women have no voice. It is a sheepishness. And to sort of cope, or be true to how she feels, she starts cheating until it just becomes norm, instead of just calling the whole thing off (or maybe because she knows you will get emotional). Having a vehicle such as this will aid such women to be more honest about things.

You can usually sense these things among partners when you get people to actually TALK about what they feel about the relationship, as opposed to you just floating on the cloud of ignorance that "she's my girl/he's my man".

mencade5: root of which matter? Guy abeg focus on your current spouse, no time to waste on some lose beeetch.

E be like say na u go find wife for op

mencade5: roast wetin? Na custard and fried egg day this afternoon ooo.


*breaks 4 eggs into cup, adds sliced onions, 2 pieces of chopped green pepper, 1 pinch of salt, sprinkes, seasoning in it, then whisks it, pours mixed eggs in already hot oil*

No forget keep my own o

kingphilip:
No forget keep my own o

i no forget you ooo