@mr i 2 know
it my mind and can be change wheneva

ok ma!

has she told the mum yet? hope she is well and strong?

u here

yes ma

sorri
coz u did reply me quickly so i thought u were gone
anways she told her dad instead of mum, probably b'coz she ws closer 2 dad anyways 2 cut the sorry short after all the long talk and shouting, here dad was ofcourse angry but what can he do but the mum said there is no such thing as what can you do, she have 2 terminate da thing said da mum later dat day the parent started shouting a t each other init my mum then started @ me that why did i tell her quickly it was not my fault now she keeping the baby only on 1 condition, she have 2 continue wateva plan she got 4 her self in nigeria
even worse now things sounds even worse than it should have been

life scuk

you got off lightly then. you mean they are taking her to naija?

yap

Original
I couldn't understand your statement.
Are you sayin' that they have decided to make her keep the child?


My dear . . . Life sucks . . . . It's true.
Man is the architect of his misfortune.

sorri bout ma slag
yes shez keeping d baby but jamming in nigeria 4 the main time
is that meant 2 be a punishment anways her parent her yet to conclude when she going 2 nigeria

probably the worse decision ever

origina9ja:

sorri bout ma slag
yes shez keeping d baby but jamming in nigeria for the main time
is that meant 2 be a punishment anways her parent her yet to conclude when she going 2 nigeria

probably the worse decision ever

you think so. well surprice surprice she had her chance. plus the small matter of them saving thier face. so better take her awy before the belly starts showing for all to see. dont say i told you

I'm so happy the parents took a VERY wise decision.
For now she mite think it's the worst decision but I think and believe
some years frm now . . . she will look back at this moment and be grateful to her parents.
Best luck!!It's well.

did you just say wise decision

No sorry . . .I meant PERFECT decision.
You won't understand now . . . a few yrs from now will change ur view abt d whole tin.
Her parents who made that decisions aren't fools . . . .

origina9ja:

is that meant 2 be a punishment

probably the worse decision ever

I think her parents decision for her to
keep the baby is the best.

Missy B:

she will look back at this moment and be grateful to her parents.
Best luck!!It's well.

that is very true

mehn.

people are getting stupider everyday.

i cant imajin my 14yr old sister in this position, kai!

she is smarter than this o! Thank you LORD!


Anyways, its best she keeps the baby.

Why should a child pay for sins he/she didnt commit?

The girl wont regret this later, i tell ya.

The Womb that is supposed to be the safest place on earth is now a warzone!
God help us o!

Well, having supportive parents is the best she can ever ask for right now, i wld say she is lucky, she got off very lightly.

Their decision isnt the main thing, their support is all that counts

hmm . . . gamine, seriously, i dnt put all the blame on the girl o

na, im not puttin all the blame on the gal.

The parents are to be blamed,

The girl,

The friend who is posting this, i wonder how many abortions this one has done sef.

Gamine:

na, I'm not puttin all the blame on the girl.

The parents are to be blamed,

The girl,

The friend who is posting this, i wonder how many abortions this one has done sef.

Blame the parents?Why?

janami:

Well, having supportive parents is the best she can ever ask for right now, i would say she is lucky, she got off very lightly.

Their decision isnt the main thing, their support is all that counts

Gamine:

mehn.

people are getting stupider everyday.

i can't imajin my 14yr old sister in this position, kai!

she is smarter than this o! Thank you LORD!


Anyways, its best she keeps the baby.

Why should a child pay for sins he/she didnt commit?

The girl wont regret this later, i tell ya.

The Womb that is supposed to be the safest place on earth is now a warzone!
God help us o!

 you 2 have great minds. you must rule that country one day.

Gamine:


The friend who is posting this, i wonder how many abortions this one has done sef.

OMG listen you are something else.  they have a no question asked abortion policy here. kids can go the Gp and collect morning after pills without parental consent. she could have even gone to kill this child without the parents ever knowing. i know girls back home are sexually active it is worse here.  escpecially the ones they bring from naija.

anyway you make me laugh with your smartness

Missy B:

Blame the parents?Why?

truth be told majority of the moral failures of these kids are direct result of parental failures. our people keep blaming govt for not allowing smacking as if smacking is a cure for everything. how many kids in this part of the world come home from school to meet the parents at home? majority of the spoilt kids in this land you can easily blame the parents. they have lost their kids in the quest for money and parties and religious activities

@Missyb

i blame the parents for not keeping a close eye on her.

or instructing her better. i mean der r pills!!!!!

she clda killed off her eggs, atleast it isnt a human yet. not that i support this o

but to add murder to the whole deal!!

For goodness sake!


@Josh,LOL

u too kind.

Gamine:

@Missyb

i blame the parents for not keeping a close eye on her.

or instructing her better. i mean der r pills!!!!!

she clda killed off her eggs, atleast it isnt a human yet. not that i support this o

but to add murder to the whole deal!!

For goodness sake!

Why should a 14yrs old even know what pills are for sef
She should be concentrating on her education, instead shes too busy having unprotected sex.

Sex Education is Education.

At 14/15 i was in SS3 for goodness sake!!!

i knew what this n that were!!

dang Biology class, abi the thing no dey textbook.lol

Gamine and JJYOU
Wait . . . . Okay . . . . . Pls . . . .
You 2 shouldn't tell me you are givin' the blame to the parent!!
We all know that  . . . YOU CAN TAKE A HORSE TO THE STREAM BUT CAN'T FORCE IT TO DRINK WATER
It's one thing for the parent to talk . . . It's anutha for the child to listen.
The parents cannot monitor her movement 24/7.

tope2000:

Why should a 14yrs old even know what pills are for sef
She should be concentrating on her education, instead shes too busy having unprotected sex.

u know i have been wondering where u are. this was your territory and didnt see your signature. was nearly begining to think you were dealing with your own morning sickness thing (joking)

you would have made positive contribution here too. your sisters did well  in your absence

hope u are well and doing good?

Missy B:

Gamine and JJYOU
Wait . . . . Okay . . . . . please . . . .
You 2 shouldn't tell me you are givin' the blame to the parent!!
We all know that  . . . YOU CAN TAKE A HORSE TO THE STREAM BUT CAN'T FORCE IT TO DRINK WATER
It's one thing for the parent to talk . . . It's anutha for the child to listen.
The parents cannot monitor her movement 24/7.

i give the mama 90% the silly girl is just 10%. most of these kids are looking for the love and attention they dont get at home outside

JJYOU:

u know i have been wondering where u are. this was your territory and didnt see your signature. was nearly begining to think you were dealing with your own morning sickness thing (joking)

you would have made positive contribution here too. your sisters did well in your absence

i have been around
nl just seem boring nowadays

@Missyb

They both have blames on their heads o.

I cant really say in percentages, but

really things didnt have to go this way

JJYOU:

i give the mama 90% the silly girl is just 10%. most of these kids are looking for the love and attention they don't get at home outside

please!!Your reason doesn't hold water.
You give the mama 90%?You are crackin' me up!!
One thin' is . . . as humans we ALWAYS have a way of givin' blame
to someone for our actions . . . Adam blamed Eve . . . Eve blamed Satan . . .
Robbers blame the economy . . . .I get banned and I blame Seun . . .
Pregnant child blames devil and you wanno blame the parents?
I'm not surprised but bear in mind that there are orphans who still possess good morals.
I was in a boardin' house durin' my secondary skl days and
it was a mixed skl and u knw . . . .boardin' life is kind of free style.
Most of my crew had bfs but there were still some of us who until we  
left sec skl reported every love letter to our  principal.
In other words . . . . the parents mite have failed but it's not enough for you to blame 'em.

Gamine:

@Missyb

They both have blames on their heads o.

I can't really say in percentages, but

really things didnt have to go this way

They both have blames?Prolly the parents mite have
contributed to what led her to it but I still say it's not enough reason for her
to go astray.

Gamine:

na, I'm not puttin all the blame on the girl.

The parents are to be blamed,
[b]
The friend who is posting this, [i]i wonder how many abortions this one has done sef.[/[/b]i]

sharrp dere jo
wat u chatin bout
coz she pregnant doesnt mean i would be stupid enough 2 do the same thing

origina9ja:

because she pregnant doesnt mean i would be stupid enough 2 do the same thing

Tell her jare.
You are only stupid enough to use Condom abi?