They say marriage is like a parcel when you open it what you see is what you get. So before you decide to open this parcel, ask yourself am I ready for this? Are muscles developed enough to handle this? Well these tips can help you develop yourself so that instead of focusing on looking for Mr right, you can turn yourself into a Superwoman and attract a Superman you've always wanted.
KNOW YOURSELF:

Be a PhD holder of yourself. The only way to know what you truly want is to know yourself. Learn from past relationships, learn from your relationship with people, what you makes you happy, what pisses you off. Knowing yourself helps you know the guy to look out for. For instance if you're a kind of person that likes a lot of love and cuddle you might not want to marry a politician.

GET COUNSELLING


Seek counselling from professionals and happy couples that have lasted at least 10yrs. Don't just let any persons tell you about how to go about marital issues, take it from someone who's been there. Reading books, listening and watching tapes on marriage also helps. Reading blogs with marriage advice helps too.

LET YOUR GUARD DOWN


If you're the bossy type, you know, like things going your way, carry your own weight, head of the gang, always dish out instructions,"21st century girl". Sorry to bust your bubble but that stuff don work with marriage. Don't get me wrong I love confident women, Hec! I have a blog called Superwoman but you have to understand that a man must be a man and in marriage, the man is the head. So you'll have to start learning how to compromise and taking other peoples opinion into consideration. There can't be two captains in a ship and if one body has two heads its automatically a monster.


FOCUS ON BEING YOU


if your self esteem comes from the thought of getting married? You're not ready for marriage. Focus on those achievements and that dream you have. Focus on making yourself who you want to be, take those lesson, start that business, be you. So when he comes, he'll really know you, and really marry you and the chances of marriage stopping you from doing those things afterwards will be reduced. You'll now have confidence in who you are, and marriage will complement it.

LEARN THE ART OF BEING DOMESTIC


Chances are, you might get married to a billionaire, move into a mansion and have servants doing everything for you but for the sake of playing wife..... See full article here. http://www.dsuperwoman.com/2013/09/just-before-you-decide-to-be-mrs_20.html?m=1