Be ready for some work. Sometimes to rescue a relationship is a challenge. It requires hard work, time and the cooperation of both people. Are you and your mate fighting constantly? If you want to save your relationship, how can you do this? You already have! By seeking to keep your partner, you have taken the first steps: admitting your marital conflicts.

Here are 10 steps that can help you. By following them, you and your mate will be on the right track to intimacy and love once more.

1, Try to avoid the arguments.
When a relationship begins to fail or has been falling apart for some time, most couples start throwing fighting words that hurt. When a relationship gets to this point, you have to remember there are no winners. One person will have to face up to the whole issue and stop the fighting from ensuing.

2, Remember that a relationship is a work in progress by both people.
One person does not decide for the other and vice versa. If there is a breakdown, then both parties are at fault. To rescue a relationship, couples have to look at themselves to figure out what created the problems in the first place. Couples will have to ask themselves what is most important in the relationship and if it is worth saving.

3, Be the one to take control of the situation.
One person in the relationship needs to take control of the situation. This doesn’t mean you are in control of your partner, just the situation itself.

4, Be the better person by apologizing and walking away.
By diffusing the situation, you can walk away with a clearer head. You do not always have to have the final say.

5, Find a neutral ground.
If you really want to rescue a relationship, you need to find another place, a neutral ground, to have some quality time together. A good time to do this is when you are taking a vacation. By spending this time together away from all the memories of hurt and pain, you can find what was once important… your relationship.

6, Don't turn to someone outside the relationship.
Most often times when persons in a relationship have an affair with someone outside of it, this causes a greater rift. By the constant arguing that occurs along with it, the person cheating is often drawn closer to his or her lover.

7, Give each other space.
What you least expect to work when you are trying to keep the relationship is space. Should things be extremely bad between the two of you, spending a few days away from each other tends to work too.

8, Utilize relationship counseling if things are so bad you cannot move forward.
If you are fighting constantly, this is a necessary to move forward together.

9, Consider a short separations.
Sometimes doing a trial separation is needed. Some couples have discovered that doing something like this ends up saving what they have. It also tends to make their relationship stronger.

10, Remember that how you act is important than the words you would say.
This is also the time to make promises and follow through with them.

Aww,just what I need now,tnx

number 1 and 2 doesnt work on naija ladies.

When you say both parties should make it work, where have you seen naija ladies put effort to make relationship work? All they do is sit back like an handicap and allow the guy the do everytin. When u ask them they will say you are the man, that u are the one that want them.

During 5ex, all they do is close their eyes, enjoy ur thrusting and moan like cow throughout.

For number 1, they are programmed talking machine. When u need rest after a long day of work, they will start disturbing ur ears with all kind of nonsense talk.

Women no go kill men with their wahala...

mimiejacobz: Aww,just what I need now,tnx

Please where do fine girls like you come from. Ah ahn!

I am almost tempted to ask you sack your boyfriend for me.

I ll remember just that when my relationship starts drowning.. Thanks op.

mimiejacobz: Aww,just what I need now,tnx

Don't tell me a pretty girl like you is having problems in her relationship.

Unlike the Dettol advert, if he can't take care of you, I Will.

Nice one but there are some people that you can help but argue with..and if u are not careful, if u giver them an inch, they will take a mile..some people too love to compare what they have with their peeps,they are never satisfied. My advice is to take off...if not they will suck the joy out of your life. Visit www.madamsabi. for inspiring and educative articles.